In relationships, not everyone has trust in their partner. When they don’t trust their partner, this can lead them to snoop and look for things in places that they really shouldn’t—like, on their partner’s phone.
Some people go through their significant other’s phone and things without any fear because they have a gut feeling things are wrong. But, sometimes, they are proven correct and things truly aren’t so great.
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He had a whole Tinder account.
One girlfriend shared that she snooped on her boyfriend’s phone and saw that he had an entire active Tinder account set up. But, she has no idea how to confront him now without letting him know she snooped.
Her boyfriend was sleeping with her best friend.
Another person had a “gut feeling” that her boyfriend was sleeping with her best friend and just wanted to know the truth. So, she broke into her friend’s password-protected journal and read all of the “dirty details” of their affair.
That his wife doesn’t think he performs well.
One husband snooped on his wife’s Facebook messages and read that his wife doesn’t think that he’s very good in bed. She was talking to her friend about it, and now he feels insecure and unhappy.
He was browsing other dating sites.
With his permission, she used her boyfriend’s computer and ended up looking at his browser’s search history and saw that he was using various dating sites while they were in a relationship with each other.
He went through her bag and found a hotel room key.
His wife had gone out with friends for a “girl’s night” and when she got home, she got right into the shower at 6:30 a.m. He decided to go through her bag and he found a hotel room key.
She found out he cheated on her with his gay best friend.
When she took his phone, one wife saw that her husband had Google’d “I cheated on my wife with my gay best friend.” Now, she said, that is her soon-to-be ex-husband.
He opens up to another woman more than his own girlfriend.
One girlfriend said that she snooped on her boyfriend’s phone and saw that he was texting with a girl he met online. And, he tells her far more about his life than he tells his own girlfriend.
He was in military training and she was seeing two other guys.
While away at military training , his girlfriend was using OkCupid and apparently was talking to two other guys and seeing them regularly. He only found out by going through her phone.
He complained about all the good things he had done for her.
She found out that all of the “kind gestures” that her boyfriend had done for her were not without complaints. He had texted his friends complaining about all of the things he had done for her.
Her fiancé is sleeping with a coworker.
After going through his cell phone , she found out that her fiancé is sleeping with one of his coworkers. But she is too scared to confront him over it just yet.
He had a feeling and he found what she was doing.
He knew what he was looking for when he didn’t recognize a name that was popping up on her phone, as they all know the same people. Turns out, she changed the name of the guy she was sleeping with.
He had a whole other relationship.
After being together for three years and having two dogs together, she found out that he was texting with another girl and had been seeing her on the side . Not the best thing to find out when you have a life together.
She made plans to run.
Although she was pregnant and expecting his child, when he snooped, he found out she was making a plan to run away with her ex as soon as she gave birth to the baby—big yikes.
He flew to Spain to visit his girlfriend who was traveling and was met with disappointment.
When he went into her phone , he saw a photo of her making out with another guy at a bar while in Spain. He was clearly upset, but still stayed with her for a few months after that.
Some people are good.
One person said that they found out their significant other was Googling all of the shoes that she was talking about liking and it made her feel good that he listened—he even ordered a pair for her!
