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Woman questions if she’s wrong for feeling unappreciated in her boyfriend’s success

by Diply Social Team
2 years ago
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When a couple’s roles change, it can be difficult to adjust. In this AITA post, a woman quit her job to take care of the house while her boyfriend’s career took off. She feels left out and resentful of his success. But is she justified in feeling this way? Click to read more about their situation and decide for yourself.

Boyfriend’s health issues cause strain on relationship and household duties.

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Navigating gender roles and societal expectations in a relationship

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Boyfriend’s sudden success leads to suspicion and resentment.

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Unequal financial support causing strain in relationship

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living_the_reality | living_the_reality

Feeling left out of your partner’s success?

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Partner dismisses woman’s contribution to their shared achievement

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Feeling undervalued in relationship, woman questions if she’s wrong

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Is it wrong to feel unappreciated in your partner’s success?

In a relationship, it’s normal to feel proud of your partner’s accomplishments and success. However, what happens when you feel unappreciated in their achievements? In this post, a woman questions if she’s wrong for feeling this way towards her boyfriend’s success. She quit her job to take care of the housework while he focused on his career, but now she feels left behind. She’s frustrated that he gets rewarded for an achievement that she feels they accomplished together. The situation has caused tension in the relationship as the boyfriend sees her as ungrateful. As we delve into the comments, let’s explore the dynamics of relationships and how we can support our partners while also feeling valued in the relationship.

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Comment section debates if the amount of housework is justified.

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Commenters agree that the boyfriend is selfish and OP deserves better

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CMBM20 | CMBM20

Boyfriend’s toxic behavior makes OP feel unappreciated and trapped. NTA.

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TatyNobre | TatyNobre

OP feels unappreciated in relationship where she quit job to do chores. Commenters advise against relying on BF for financial security.

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jammy913 | jammy913

Curious commenters question details of boyfriend’s health and career success.

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Fovillain | Fovillain

OP realizes the abusive situation and plans to move out.

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living_the_reality | living_the_reality

Commenter questions validity of post, others offer support.

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yoloxolo | yoloxolo

Commenter questions story inconsistencies in NTA reply.

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FormalJellyfish4683 | FormalJellyfish4683

NTA, financial abuse is a serious issue. Consider your options

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Schulle2105 | Schulle2105

Dump him This boy does not respect you.

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thankuhexed | thankuhexed

Commenter sympathizes with the poster’s situation and calls out financial abuse.

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Fastr77 | Fastr77

Career on hold for boyfriend’s success but not valued? NTA

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NuclearNick007 | NuclearNick007

Doubts raised about authenticity of post and success story

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Ok_Oil_4630 | Ok_Oil_4630

Stand up for yourself! You deserve better than a bangmaid.

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ArcanTemival | ArcanTemival

Commenter suggests getting a job after boyfriend’s unsupportive behavior

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BentBent12 | BentBent12

Leave him or get a job- controlling partner is abusive

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Feisty_Mushroom1982 | Feisty_Mushroom1982

Feeling unappreciated in boyfriend’s success, possible financial abuse.

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JudgeJudAITA | JudgeJudAITA

Financial abuse is not okay, you deserve better ❌

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tomato_songs | tomato_songs

Commenter advises leaving a disrespectful boyfriend with emoji.

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pookguyinc | pookguyinc

Independence is important. NTA for feeling unappreciated.

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Reconsidering a relationship: when is it time to leave?

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BabyLetTheGamesBegin | BabyLetTheGamesBegin

Support for unappreciated partner, advice to focus on self-care

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Excellent_Care1859 | Excellent_Care1859

Boyfriend doesn’t appreciate girlfriend’s help with success

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Orkney_ | Orkney_

Commenter advises woman to get a job and respect herself

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Otherwise-Nebula3654 | Otherwise-Nebula3654

Commenter suggests finding own job and leaving AH boyfriend.

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MightyMarf | MightyMarf

Take control of your finances and your happiness

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Astroblemes | Astroblemes

Comment suggests OP get a job or dump her awful boyfriend

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Unfair power dynamic in relationship, OP deserves better

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Commenter questions why woman quit job for housework in toxic relationship.

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dragon-queen | dragon-queen

Commenter suggests solution for unappreciated girlfriend

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littlebeanonwheels | littlebeanonwheels

Curious commenter questions boyfriend’s selective abilities

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Practical advice to balance work and home responsibilities!

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Spirited_Swordfish48 | Spirited_Swordfish48

Age is just a number Success takes time

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Living2fullestUSA | Living2fullestUSA

Curiosity sparks as commenter questions boyfriend’s inconsistencies

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Commenter says boyfriend is treating her like a maid.

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ComprehensiveBand586 | ComprehensiveBand586

Don’t undervalue your contributions. NTA for feeling unappreciated.

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NefariousnessGlum424 | NefariousnessGlum424

Financially controlling boyfriend? Red flags all around. #NTA

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EwokCafe | EwokCafe

Encouraging reply urges OP to pursue education for success

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greatalleycat | greatalleycat

Commenter questions boyfriend’s medical condition and division of household chores.

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Cent1234 | Cent1234

Commenter suggests harsh reality, sparks no further discussion

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