A 22-year-old woman found herself in an uncomfortable situation at a family friend’s pool party on Memorial Day. Feeling ogled by some of the older men in attendance, she decided to change from her bikini into a more modest one-piece swimsuit. However, this decision led to an awkward confrontation with her parents and other partygoers, leaving her wondering if she went too far.
Memorial Day Pool Party

Close Family Friends

Creepy Remarks

Unwanted Conversations ️

A Bad Day Gets Worse

Feeling Watched

Uncomfortable Eye Contact

Swimsuit Change

Mom’s Questions

Awkward Explanation

Mom’s Apology

Dad’s Intervention ️

Heated Exchange

Angry Wife’s Response

Accusations Fly ️

An Apology

Heading Home

Did She Go Too Far? ♀️
After feeling ogled by older men at a family friend’s pool party, a 22-year-old woman changed from her bikini to a more modest one-piece swimsuit. This decision led to an awkward confrontation with her parents and other partygoers, leaving her wondering if she went too far. As the heated exchange unfolded, accusations flew, apologies were made, and the young woman ultimately left the party. Share your thoughts on this uncomfortable situation in the comments below.
Woman changes swimsuit, stands up to ogling men. NTA.


Women should not have to tolerate creepy behavior from men. NTA.

Navigating uncomfortable situations with tact and understanding

Debate over whether the young woman overreacted or not

OP accused all men at party of being perverts based on glances

User calls out OP’s assumptions and behavior at pool party

Empowering response to victim blaming and parental neglect

Debate over whether OP was right to call out Mr.

Standing up for yourself at family events

Commenter defends swimsuit changer, calls accuser an a**hole.
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22-year-old accused married family friends of sexual harassment. ESH.

Woman receives uncomfortable comments at pool party from longtime friends.

OP accused family friends of being perverts at pool party. YTA.

Commenter calls out OP’s delusions of grandeur and insecurity.

Standing up to creepy old men at pool party

Commenter calls out original poster for overreacting and being self-centered

Standing up for yourself pays off in the long run

Woman changes swimsuit, sparks confrontation. ESH for creating scene.

Supportive comment encourages better parenting and validates young woman’s experience

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries.

Uncomfortable pool party confrontation due to overbearing parents.

Woman criticized for changing swimsuit and being rude at party

NTA. Responding with a question is the best way to shut down nosy people.

Commenter questions if the alleged ogling was justified, ESH verdict.

Women share experiences of harassment and support for OP.

Woman accused of overreacting to uncomfortable situation at pool party.

Commenter defends looking at woman changing at pool party.

Empathetic commenter supports woman’s right to feel comfortable and safe

Comment suggests writer’s immaturity, sparks no replies.

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Doubting the authenticity of the story

Agreeing with a bold move

Debate over whether OP’s dad’s friends were actually creepy or not

Changing into a less revealing swimsuit is okay, but public shaming isn’t.

Woman stands up to creepy men at pool party

Empowering response to a mother’s inappropriate question at a pool party

Standing up for yourself is never easy, but it’s worth it

Commenter defends some of the men’s behavior, soft YTA verdict.

Commenter accused of narcissism and seeking attention at pool party
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