Buckle up, folks, because we’ve got a birthday baking brouhaha on our hands! Our resident office baker extraordinaire is facing a gluten-free conundrum that’s causing quite the stir. With a new coworker’s birthday on the horizon, tensions are rising faster than a soufflé. Will our baker stand her ground, or will she crumble under the pressure? Let’s dive into this deliciously dramatic tale and see if we can separate the wheat from the chaff!
The Office Baker’s Dilemma

Baking from Scratch with Love ❤️

Bringing Joy, One Cupcake at a Time

Baking on a Budget

Enter the Gluten-Free Newbie

The Cost Conundrum

⚠️ Cross-Contamination Concerns

♀️ Unfamiliar Territory ❓

The Awkward Conversation

Sam’s Explosive Reaction

️ Explaining the Situation

Office Drama Alert

TLDR: Am I the A-hole?

The Great Gluten-Free Birthday Bake-Off: Who’s the Real A-hole?
Well, well, well… it seems our office baker has found herself in a sticky situation! She’s always been the go-to gal for whipping up delectable treats , but now she’s facing a gluten-free request that’s left her feeling a bit… well, deflated. With cost concerns, cross-contamination worries, and a lack of gluten-free know-how ♀️, our baker is standing her ground. But the birthday girl? She’s not having it! Accusations are flying, and the office drama is heating up hotter than a 450°F oven! So, dear readers, what do YOU think? Is our baker being a bit of a half-baked a-hole , or is she just trying to keep her baking budget from going stale? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this flour-filled fiasco!
Gluten-free drama leads to a baking boycott

OP told to stop baking birthday cakes due to office drama

Co-worker entitlement drama over gluten-free request

GF person explains why Sam is unreasonable and not truly GF.

Baker takes a stand for safety and fairness at work

Exclusionary behavior sparks drama over gluten-free request

Suggests a diplomatic solution and advises caution with future baking endeavors

Stop baking for office, let co-workers pitch in. NTA

Baking drama over gluten-free request; NTA for suggesting store cake.

Baking drama leads to office gossip and gluten-free exclusion. ESH.

Being gluten-free and left out sucks, but both parties could handle better
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Baking for coworkers causes drama, time to find new recipients

A reasonable request met with miscommunication and drama

Celiac commenter says they don’t expect others to cater to them

Soft ESH – A fairer approach would be to talk to her first.

GF coworker excluded from birthday cake, both parties at fault

Baking drama over gluten-free request. NTA suggests BYOC (bring your own cake)

Bakery drama sparks ESH judgement, suggests alternative birthday treats.

Bake no more! Complain to HR about gluten-free harassment. #NTA

Gluten-free request denied, baker considers stopping office baking

Baking a gluten-free cake? NTA, your money, your rules

Taking a stand against workplace gluten drama like a boss

Baking drama over gluten-free request. Entitled coworker or accommodating baker?

Baker is ESH for excluding coworker with gluten-free request

NTA. Commenter calls out entitled behavior and bullying.

Finding a gluten-free alternative for the birthday cake dilemma

Baker stops making cakes altogether to avoid excluding anyone
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Generous cake-baking turned obligation, NTA recommends temporary break

Gluten-free drama leads to cake boycott. NTA wins!

No obligation to bake cake and calling out entitled behavior

No cake-spiracy here, don’t bother with entitled complainers.
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Coworker’s entitlement over gluten-free cake sparks debate

NTA, stop baking for ungrateful coworkers

Politely declining a gluten-free request, with valid reasons. NTA

Gluten-free coworker praised for standing up for true allergies

Gluten-free birthday request denied, entitled co-worker ruins it for all

Gluten-free request drama – reasonable NTA response

Sassy reply suggests fruit platter over attention-seeking baking

Baking drama turns into age-shaming and gluten-free conflict

Coworkers expect gluten-free baking, suggest buying ingredients instead. NTA.

Being plant-based, commenter suggests birthday cake fund for dietary needs. NTA

Preschool teacher explains importance of gluten-free safety. NTA.

Gluten-free drama: NTA suggests stopping birthday treats altogether ♂️

Navigating dietary restrictions in the workplace can be challenging

Gluten-free coworker excluded from office birthday celebration, YTA.

Baker is called out for not accommodating gluten-free request

Understanding of GF baking appreciated, but no tantrums thrown

Baking drama at work – NTA shouldn’t have to bake

Gluten-free request at workplace birthday causes drama. NTA suggestion included.

NAH, coworker has a valid concern but gluten-free baking is doable

Gluten-free request causes drama. Commenter calls out entitlement.

Avoid being the office wife to prevent drama
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Gluten-free drama defused with delicious alternative recipe recommendation!

Baking drama unfolds over gluten-free request. NTA stands firm.

Not the a-hole for refusing to bake a cake

Passive-aggressive response to gluten-free request

Baking drama solved: stop baking altogether & donate to shelters

Being the office baker is unfair, but excluding one person sucks.

Baking drama over gluten-free request, NTA sets boundaries

Bake cakes for money or come bake for me

Baking for work is over, says commenter frustrated with gluten-free drama

Baking for everyone was unfair, but Sam’s reaction was terrible . Reporting to HR is necessary .

Workplace newbie feels excluded from birthday baking drama, ESH.

Gluten-free request drama: NTA suggests simple store-bought solution.

NTA who bakes gluten-free understands the effort and cross-contamination risks. Coworker not worth it.

Baking for coworkers? You might be opening a legal can-of-worms.

Baker won’t take orders from entitled coworkers, suggests Walmart cakes

Gluten-free drama at work, NTA politely declines request

Baking for coworker with gluten allergy: NTA, potential blame game

Gluten-free request causes bakery to close, NTA ends practice.

Baking gluten-free is difficult, NTA for not including her

Navigating gluten-free requests in the workplace. INFO comment.

Gluten-free request causes drama, NTA stands their ground

Baking a cake for a colleague’s birthday is kindness, not obligation

Coworker with health condition not included in office celebration. YTA.

Stand up for yourself and report the situation to HR. NTA

Baking drama resolved with flourless cake compromise

Lesson learned: Don’t bake for everyone, just contribute to parties

Suggests a fair solution for gluten-free request at workplace birthday

Buy your own treats, NTA has safety concerns
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Gluten-free drama at work, but OP is NTA for speaking up

Baker stands up for gluten-free request, gets called names

Bake for charity or an old folks’ home instead

NTA suggests coworker chip in for gluten-free cake/cupcakes
