Woman’s Surrogate Secret Shocks Boyfriend

Imagine being in a relationship where you both agree not to have kids, only for your partner to discover you were once a surrogate for your sister. That’s what happened to a 28-year-old woman who has been dating her 29-year-old boyfriend for over two and a half years. She never thought it was necessary to disclose her past surrogacy, but a family visit and some old photos brought the truth to light. Now, her boyfriend feels betrayed and wonders why she won’t consider having a child with him. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster.

The No-Kids Agreement

He Wanted Kids, But… ‍♂️

Old Photos Reveal a Secret

Surrogate for Sister

Niece, Not Daughter

Not His Business?

Not Fair?

Carrying vs. Raising ‍

Apology and Reminder

Still Upset

Surrogacy Rules

Case-by-Case Exceptions

Trusting a Family Member

Surrogate Rights

A Trusted Surrogate

A Surrogate Past and a Bitter Boyfriend

This woman thought she was doing the right thing by being a surrogate for her sister, but her boyfriend feels hurt and betrayed by her secret. She never thought it was necessary to disclose her past surrogacy, as it happened before they were together. However, her boyfriend can’t help but feel it’s unfair that she was willing to carry a child for her sister but won’t consider having one with him. Is she in the wrong for not telling him, or is he overreacting? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA for being a surrogate, boyfriend is TA for reaction

NTA. BF wants kids, find someone who doesn’t.

Debate over boyfriend’s intentions on having kids.

Confusion over surrogacy laws sparks debate among commenters

ESH situation, but keeping a surrogacy secret for 2.5 yrs? ‍♀️

Woman’s selfless act for sister leads to relationship fallout

Woman criticized for not telling SO she was a surrogate

Woman clarifies surrogate process to boyfriend, NTA

Hiding surrogate secret for 2.5 years is a dealbreaker. YTA ‍♀️

NTA and ESH at the same time. Lack of communication.

Boyfriend overreacts to surrogate secret, but communication is key

Hiding being a surrogate from your partner for 2.5 years? YTA

Partner lied about wanting kids, NTA for not having them

Body autonomy and false equivalence addressed in supportive NTA comment

BF made a concession but was shocked and reacted emotionally

Hiding surrogacy past for 2.5 years? YTA according to comment

Not disclosing surrogacy to long-term partner makes YTA

Partner’s desire for kids is a red flag

ESH: She should have shared it earlier, he overreacted.

End it. He resents your choice not to have kids.

Clear communication and honesty in relationships is crucial ❤

Stick to your guns, NTA.

Past is past. NTA for keeping it to yourself

NTA, but revealing the truth would have been better

Surrogate stands up for herself and shuts down boyfriend

Debate over communication and disclosure in relationship YTA

Woman stands up for herself in surrogate decision. NTA

Partner of 2 years shocked by surrogate secret. YTA

Be upfront about deal breakers to avoid future heartbreaks.

ESH verdict due to lack of communication, but he’s mostly TA

Accusation of fake story sparks no response from commenters.

Trust issues arise after surrogate conceals child from boyfriend

Surrogacy doesn’t make you a parent. NTA

Couple disagrees on kids, but OP’s surrogate past is secret ‍♀️

Hiding surrogacy from partner? YTA and relationship doomed ‍♀️

Boyfriend’s mistake leads to shocking surrogate secret

Debate over ESH vs NTA for surrogate secret, sperm donors

Surrogate secret causes relationship rift. ESH for communication breakdown.

Double standards in sperm donation – N.T.A. vote surprising

Surrogate mom not at fault, but relationship may be doomed

Surrogacy education needed! Boyfriend confused about parenting roles. NTA.

Relationship doomed as both partners resent each other.

Surrogate secret causes conflict, OP is YTA for not telling.

Her boyfriend deserves a heads up before seeing pregnancy pics

Clear judgement, no a-hole here.

Surrogacy rules vary by country, but exceptions exist

Boyfriend not on board with no child plan

Relationship advice: Be honest about major life decisions

Consider ending relationship if you have different views on kids

Communication is key! ESH should have been upfront

Partner kept surrogacy a secret for 2 years, YTA verdict

Partner wants kids, but not the a**hole for past surrogacy.

Miscommunication or deception? YTA for not being clear

Surrogate reveals secret to boyfriend, both adjusting to new information

Partner’s lie about wanting kids can ruin relationships

NTA for being a surrogate, but relationship may be in trouble

Break up with him, you’re not just an incubator

Time to say goodbye? NTA for not wanting children

Surrogate bombshell shocks boyfriend, but NTA for keeping secret

User shares personal experience and warns of potential red flags

Surrogate’s actions justified, like donating blood or a kidney.

Surrogate secret shocks boyfriend, but commenter supports OP. NTA

Surrogate secret leads to ESH judgement and relationship struggles ‍♀️

Surrogate’s secrecy backfires, commenters question her foresight