Woman’s Fresh Start RUINED By Controlling Bestie’s Ultimatum

Get ready for a sizzling tale of friendship, freedom, and a dash of drama! Meet our girl, a 26-year-old queen who’s ready to embrace her inner wild child after escaping a toxic relationship. ‍♀️ She’s got her sights set on a scorching hot girl summer ☀️, but her bestie Katie has other plans. Buckle up, because this vacay is about to take a spicy turn! ️

Island Getaway Dreams Shattered!

Plans Were in Motion, But Then…

Bestie Suggests a Duo Trip ️

Single & Ready to Mingle!

Bestie Lays Down the Law

Boyfriend Blues: Double Dates a No-Go

Breaking Free from the Past

‍♀️ Single Ladies Unite!

Bestie’s Shocking Texts!

️ Gossip Girl: Bestie Edition

⏰ Time for Answers!

1️⃣ Not Abandoning Ship Completely ⚓

‍♀️ Just a Few Hours of Freedom ️

2️⃣ One Vacay or Bust!

Bestie Still Welcome to Join!

3️⃣ Influencer Image Concerns

4️⃣ Bestie’s Bae-cation Plans

Friendship Tested: Slut-Shaming & Shattered Plans!

Our girl just wants to let loose and live her best single life this summer, but her bestie Katie is NOT having it. Katie’s demanding 24/7 attention, leaving no room for flirty fun. When our queen suggests alternative vacation plans, Katie goes OFF, slut-shaming her left and right! The drama is real, y’all. Now, the internet is weighing in on this sizzling situation. Is our girl an a-hole for wanting a hot girl summer, or is Katie crossing the line with her slut-shaming? The tea is piping hot, and we’re ready to spill! Let’s dive into the juiciest responses and see what the world has to say about this friendship fiasco!

Supportive comment calls out slut-shaming and toxic friendship

Validating different vacation interests; friend is immature about disappointment. ‍♀️

Toxic friend alert! NTA, enjoy your summer with real friends

Friend calls her a slut for wanting a vacation alone. NTA

Going on a girls’ trip to meet guys? ESH, but burning bridges is never the answer.

Supportive comment calls out controlling behavior and encourages fun

Ex-ho commenter thinks OP is YTA for prioritizing dick over friend.

Ditching friend for guys vs. controlling ultimatum

Friendship jeopardized over summer vacation plans and sex life. ESH.

Bestie’s controlling behavior crosses boundaries. NTA for setting limits.

Compromise is key, but slut-shaming is never okay. ESH

Bestie slut-shames friend for not prioritizing their trip. ESH.

Vacationing together is fine, but ultimatum is controlling and unfair

Controlling friend gets called out for unreasonable behavior.

Duration of trip crucial for context – seeking more information

ESH. Both were selfish. Friend slut-shamed and OP prioritized sex

Immature behavior leads to ESH judgement in friend conflict

Bestie called her a sult for being honest about moving.

Friendship vs. Hookups: Different cultural norms

YTA comment shuts down idea of girls having fun together

Travel plans disagreement: NTA, it’s okay to want different things

Bestie wants to control vacation, name-calling ensues. NTA wins

Congrats on your fresh start! Enjoy a safe hot girl summer

Is hot girl summer worth losing a controlling bestie?

Friend calls out woman for prioritizing hookups over friendship ‍♀️

Cheers to a responsible hot girl summer

Friend’s verbal abuse ruins vacation plans, rethinking friendship.

Friend slut shamed OP but both are at fault. Compromise needed

Traveling with a controlling friend? NTA. You deserve better

Sincere advice: Seek therapy to cope with trauma and self-destruction.

Taking time for yourself instead of a ‘hot girl summer’

A breakup doesn’t mean a breakdown, NTA for self-care

Can a week-long vacation really ruin a hot girl summer?

Choose friends over hookups, but don’t resort to slut shaming. ESH

Mixed feelings on friend ditching during girl trip

Don’t let anyone shame you for living your best life

Friend cancels trip for a ‘good time’ – YTA-ish?

Friendship ruined by STD scare and childish reaction, ESH.

Best friend calls out OP for prioritizing hookups over friendship

Friendship and priorities clash in this ESH comment section ‍♀️

Suggestion to bring her bf and avoid being a third wheel

Take control of your holiday! NTA

Not a true friend. Guilt-tripping you for boundaries is unacceptable

Harsh criticism for OP’s selfish behavior in friendship.

Toxic friendship? Have a hot girl summer instead!

Friend’s ultimatum exposes OP’s misplaced priorities. YTA

Planned trip gone wrong with name-calling ESH ‍♀️

Abandoned friend gives ultimatum, both suck at communication ‍♀️

When hot girl summer ruins a friendship ‍♀️

Friend calls her a slut 5 times, but she’s the AH?

Friend wants a fun vacay, OP wants hot girl summer

Planning a vacation with friends requires communication and consideration

Mismatched vacation expectations lead to ESH judgement and ruined trip

Mismatched friendship causes tension over trip plans ‍♀️

Controlling friend ruins woman’s fresh start, NTA sets boundaries.

Best friend vs. boys? ESH/mild YTA, but vacation = summer?

Friendship shouldn’t mean losing your independence

Married friend defends going on trip with single friend. NTA

Empowering response to NTA comment on standing up for oneself

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries. You go, NTA!

Friend refuses to hang out, gets mad when I find others

Congrats on your fresh start! Ignore the controlling bestie

Healthy friendships shouldn’t need chaperones

Compromise is key to salvaging a friendship vacation

Vacationing with a friend is for spending time together. ESH ‍♀️

Empathetic comment supports OP’s decision for hot girl summer

NTA but be careful with unhealthy coping mechanisms

Empathetic comment in support of NTA’s decision and advice.

Jealous friend tries to control woman’s life. NTA strikes back

Bestie wants OP on a leash, NTA for wanting freedom ‍♀️

Taking time for yourself is healthy, don’t enable codependency

Supportive comment condemns friend’s slut-shaming ultimatum

Toxic friend accuses abuse survivor of being a ‘slut’ , but OP is NTA and offered compromise.

Enjoy your freedom, ignore the clingy friend. NTA

Be a wing woman, not a misogynist! NTA

Planning a vacation with a controlling friend? Better re-think that.❌

Friendship ultimatum for vacation, OP suggests fall trip instead. NTA

Supportive comment validates OP’s actions, warns of toxic friendship