A young woman living with her boyfriend at her parent’s house experiences severe UTI symptoms and needs urgent medical attention. Despite her agonizing pain, her boyfriend refuses to drive her to the ER, prioritizing his sleep after a late-night gaming session. As she suffers through the ordeal, she questions if she’s in the wrong for getting upset with him.
UTI Symptoms and Clinic Visit

Extreme Hip Pain

Mom’s Advice and Boyfriend’s Reaction

Accused of Overreacting

Two More Hours of Sleep

Can’t Wait Any Longer ⏰

Driving Herself in Pain

One More Hour and a Snap

Back Home and Still in Pain

Pleading for Help

Finally Taken to the Hospital

Feeling Bad and Recalling Attitude

In Pain and Questioning Herself
After enduring hours of excruciating pain and pleading with her boyfriend to take her to the ER, the woman is finally taken to the hospital. She’s diagnosed with an advanced UTI, bladder and kidney infections, and an infected kidney stone. Despite her ordeal, she feels guilty about her attitude and wonders if she’s in the wrong for getting upset with her boyfriend. Share your thoughts and reactions to this emotional story.
Suffering in pain, ignored by boyfriend, NTA. Dump him

Dump the sexist boyfriend who refused to drive you to ER

Dump the whole man!

Ignoring medical emergency is a**hole behavior. Dump him!

Commenter empathizes with woman’s pain and suggests reconsidering relationship
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Woman defends boyfriend despite suffering in agony
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Dump him! What did he do when he found out?

Dump him! Cheating boyfriend refuses to drive girlfriend to ER

Dump his a**! No one deserves to suffer like that
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Dump him! You deserve better than this treatment.

Negligent boyfriend risks girlfriend’s life for sleep

Commenter asks about parents’ absence during emergency, receives explanation.

Commenter sympathizes with woman, suggests she re-evaluate relationship.

Heartless boyfriend refuses to drive girlfriend to ER 3♀️, commenters outraged. #DumpTheJerk

Dump your boyfriend now

Commenter sympathizes with OP and questions the mother’s absence

Dump him!

Every minute counts in a medical emergency NTA for leaving.

Dump him! You were in agony and he ignored you

Partner’s disregard for health is astonishing. NTA.

Dump the zero, get yourself a hero!

Commenter calls out abusive behavior, labels boyfriend a ‘tool’

Don’t let anyone dismiss your pain and suffering
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Commenter shares personal experience and advises to leave toxic partner.

Dump him! He clearly doesn’t care about your well-being.

Dump the boyfriend. Your health should be his priority

Dump the loser . He doesn’t care about you or your health .

Trust yourself and dump his a**! Supportive NTA comment.

Dump him! If he can’t be a partner, he’s useless.

Dump him! You deserve better. NTA

Dump the trash! Boyfriend refuses to drive to ER. NTA

A supportive comment urging the woman to leave her cheating boyfriend.

Dump him! He cheated and won’t drive you to ER

Dump the trash ️ . You deserve better . NTA.
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Did she break up with him? Find out in comments

Heartbreaking story of neglect and lack of compassion

Dump him! Boyfriend refuses to drive girlfriend to ER

Dump him! You’re better off without him. NTA.

Break up with him now! You deserve better

Dump the cheater and kick him out

Dump him! You deserve better. NTA. ♀️

Partner’s refusal to drive to ER is a red flag

Heartless boyfriend refuses to drive girlfriend to ER

Dump him! You deserve better treatment and respect.

NTA. A partner should care if you die. You deserve better

Supportive comment, encouraging to prioritize self-care.

Redditor advises breaking up with unsympathetic boyfriend during medical emergency

Dump his a**! Selfish boyfriend refuses to drive to ER

Leave him and prioritize your health. You’re NTA

Commenter believes person is not the a**hole.

Heartless boyfriend refuses to drive girlfriend to ER

Heartless boyfriend refuses to drive girlfriend to ER

Dump him! You deserve better. NTA

Short and sweet: Dump him.

Dump him! You deserve better.

Partner refuses to drive her to ER, putting her in danger

Don’t count on him in a crisis
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NTA. Dump him. Your health and safety should come first

Dump him now! You deserve someone who puts you first.

Dump him. He was willing to let you suffer and die.

Prioritizing loved ones’ health is key

Dump him! You deserve someone who cares about your well-being.

Loving partners prioritize your health, dump him and find better
