Imagine gaining weight due to depression and personal tragedies, only to have your husband constantly make fun of you for it. That’s the reality for one woman who finally snapped at her husband after he tried on her new pants to mock her size. But was her outburst justified or an overreaction? Let’s dive into her story and find out.
A Series of Unfortunate Events

Tragedy Strikes ⚡️

Coping Mechanisms

Husband’s Hurtful Habit

The Breaking Point

Her Outburst ️

Apology Demanded ♀️

So, Who’s in the Wrong Here?
This woman has been through a lot in the past few years, and her husband’s insensitive behavior certainly isn’t helping. She finally snapped at him for trying on her new pants and making fun of her weight gain. But now he thinks she owes him an apology for her outburst. Is she justified in her anger, or should she apologize for her reaction? Let’s see what people have to say about this situation…
NTA, throw the whole man away. Cheated, mocked, and unsupportive.

Encouraging support for leaving an abusive relationship.
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NTA, but husband’s repeated hurtful jokes + cheating = drop him

Dump him in the trash ️, NTA for sure.

Supportive comment calls for a new husband.

NTA. Husband mocks wife’s weight gain by trying on her pants. Wife snaps.

Commenter supports woman, calls out husband’s disrespect.

Empowering response to gaslighting: You deserve better

Husband mocks wife’s weight gain after cheating on her? Divorce.
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Encouraging comment suggests therapy and counseling for struggling marriage.

Supportive comment and reply call out emotional abuse

Supportive comment calls out toxic behavior, encourages self-love ❤️

Commenter defends OP’s reaction to husband’s fat-shaming, criticizes husband’s behavior.

Support for NTA, concern for emotional abuse and cheating.

Commenter defends woman and insults husband, with a Sesame Street twist ️

Curious why the commenter asks why she’s still with him?

Don’t let him gaslight you. You deserve better.

Spouse mocks weight gain despite being told it hurts feelings. NTA.

Dumpster fire husband? NTA wins the thread.

Spouse fat-shames, gets called out. NTA stands up for self.

NTA defends herself against husband’s weight gain jabs and infidelity.

Don’t let him body shame you, NTA!

Commenter suggests losing husband to recover mentally

Standing up to body shaming! NTA for yelling back

Curious if infidelity is a factor in their relationship

Husband mocks wife’s weight gain, but she’s NTA for reacting.

Supportive replies defend woman’s reaction to husband’s insensitive comments

Spouse’s hurtful ‘jokes’ about weight gain – NTA for snapping

Commenter calls out husband’s past infidelity in weight gain argument.
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Seek help from DV services if you face emotional abuse

Spouse mocks weight gain, commenter calls husband an a**hole

Dump the waste . NTA and stay strong

Encouraging support for a woman in an emotionally abusive relationship.

Divorce is the best weight loss program.

Stand up for yourself! You deserve love and respect

Sassy and empowering response to body-shaming husband.

Standing up to a cheater. You go, girl!

Commenter calls out husband’s infidelity, questions why wife stays.

Commenter supports OP and suggests throwing out disrespectful husband

Burn the suitcase and the toxic husband! NTA wins

Don’t let him gaslight you. You’re NTA and deserve respect.

Surviving multiple tragedies, gaining weight is not to blame. NTA

Don’t take body-shaming. NTA, NTA, NTA. Stand up!


Standing up to a cheating spouse’s insults. NTA

Supportive comment calls out husband’s behavior, advises leaving toxic relationship.
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Spouse cheated & mocked weight gain? NTA deserves better.

Jeans don’t fit husband, but NTA for snapping back.

Encouraging response to woman’s NTA post, suggests leaving husband and seeking help

Commenter calls out husband for body shaming, asks why stay?

️ Throw the whole guy in the trash! NTA wins.

Commenter advises divorce and weight loss, supports OP.

Sassy comment suggests easy solution to weight loss problem

Cheating husband mocks wife’s weight, NTA for leaving him.

Questioning why the commenter is still with their partner.

NTA! Backstory irrelevant, mocking weight is never justified

Husband mocks wife’s weight, gets called out. NTA.

Commenter questions the validity of the marriage

Savage response to body-shaming husband.

Empowering response to a woman’s weight-shaming husband.

Partner’s behavior raises red flags. NTA for standing up.

Savage response to body-shaming husband.

Savage response to husband’s fat-shaming comment. Divorce goals!

Is divorce the answer?

Couple’s clothes swap is #relationshipgoals

Spouse’s hurtful comments after cheating – call out the bully

Dump the garbage husband
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Commenter supports OP’s decision to leave husband, calls him a ‘f**king dickhead’

Supportive comment validates OP’s feelings and shares personal experience ❤️
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