Imagine moving to a different country to escape a dangerous person, only to have them show up at your doorstep. That’s exactly what happened to one woman, who now refuses to share her address with her own mother. After giving her contact information to her parents with strict instructions not to share it, the very person she was trying to avoid found her within a week. After confronting her mother, she discovered that her mum had shared her address. Now, six years later, the woman still doesn’t trust her mother with her address, leading to a family conflict that raises questions about trust, safety, and forgiveness.
Escaping Danger: The Big Move
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The Betrayal: Address Shared
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Confronting Mum: The Truth Comes Out
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Six Years Later: Trust Still Shattered
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Mum’s Pleas: Desperate for Trust
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The Christmas Confrontation
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Mum’s Heartbreak: “You Still Don’t Trust Me”
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Daughter’s Firm Stance: No Second Chances
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Siblings Step In: Demanding Forgiveness
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Trust Issues or Justified Fear? The Family Torn Apart
Six years after her mother’s betrayal, this woman still refuses to share her address, leading to a family conflict that questions trust, safety, and forgiveness. As her mother pleads for a chance to prove herself, the daughter remains firm in her decision, unwilling to make the same mistake twice. The situation escalates when her siblings step in, demanding she forgive their mother for her past mistake. But is this a simple case of trust issues, or is the daughter’s fear justified? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this dramatic family dilemma…
NTA. Mum put OP and daughter at risk, guilt-trips and lacks remorse.
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Mother’s betrayal leads to justified fear and trust issues.
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NTA for refusing to share address due to justified fear

Rent a holiday home for safety and privacy

Protecting yourself and your daughter from a potential threat. NTA

Trust is earned, not given. NTA for setting boundaries

Mother broke trust, apologies followed by requests. Keep boundaries.
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Mother shares daughter’s address with abusive ex, NTA for refusing.

Protect yourself without endangering others. NTA.

Sibling loyalty or blind trust? NTA refuses to share address.

Mother’s betrayal puts daughter’s safety at risk. NTA for refusing.

Mom didn’t believe the threat, thought OP was overdramatic.

Mother shares daughter’s contact info with abusive person, NTA for not sharing address.

Mother’s trust issues are justified, NTA. Creepy person still around.

Protecting yourself and your daughter is the top priority . NTA.

Mom gave ex’s address, woman refuses to share hers. NTA.

NTA commenter suggests extreme solution to trust issues with mum.


Protecting your safety and privacy is important. NTA

Trust broken once, justified fear for child’s safety. NTA

Trust broken: why this woman won’t share her address

NTA refuses to share address with manipulative mother. Suggests giving fake address.

Mom shares daughter’s personal info without consent, causing trust issues.

Persistent mother causing trust issues after 6 years of distance

Trust broken: Woman refuses to share address with untrustworthy mom

Stand your ground and prioritize your safety and sanity

Protecting oneself from an abuser is justified. NTA

Teenager flees country due to danger, mom doubts her story ♀️

Protecting your safety and setting boundaries is more important.

Choosing safety over trust: Woman’s decision to not share address.

Fear of bad person causing trust issues with mom.

Trust is hard to earn back, NTA for prioritizing your comfort.

Protecting safety first. NTA’s justified fear and trust issues.

Betrayed trust with mom, justified fear or trust issues? NTA.

Putting someone’s life at risk is unforgivable. NTA

International stalking: Can police help or hinder?

Setting boundaries with family is important for trust and safety.

Heartbreaking story of a survivor who prioritizes her safety ❤️

Avoiding mom and mystery person? Maybe it’s time to move out

Mother’s ego vs. daughter’s safety: who wins?

Protecting yourself from danger is more important than appeasing family

Protecting your safety is important. NTA for setting boundaries.

Mother doesn’t deserve trust, daughter justified in keeping distance



Earned trust cannot be demanded. NTA comment section.

Protecting your family is top priority. NTA

Protecting your family is top priority. Mom is TA.

Mother’s actions justify daughter’s lack of trust. NTA

Mother’s deliberate betrayal justifies daughter’s mistrust. NTA

NTA. Protecting yourself and your daughter is top priority

Trust issues or justified fear? NTA’s mom raises red flags


Commenter agrees with the poster and shows excitement with OMG


Mother’s betrayal led to leaving the country. OP is NTA.

Mother’s curiosity vs children’s safety, who wins? #NTA

Standing up for oneself after being stalked.

Trust issues with mom over address sharing, NTA prioritizes safety.

Setting boundaries with family can be tough, but NTA

Cutting off family? NTA stands by her decision.

Prioritizing child safety over adult feelings


Mother’s guilt and apology doesn’t justify need for address. NAH.

♀️ Justified fear or trust issue? NTA stands their ground.
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Protect your boundaries and stay safe. NTA

Regaining trust is on YOUR timeline, not hers.
