Imagine feeling left out by your own family for years, only to find out they’ve been going on vacations without you. That’s what happened to this 25-year-old woman, who is now questioning her relationship with her family. As an autistic child, she faced some challenges, but she managed to grow up and lead a normal life. However, her family’s shocking secret has left her feeling betrayed and heartbroken. Let’s dive into the story…
The Unpleasant Discovery

A Trip to Paris?

The Shocking Truth

Feeling Betrayed

The Heartbreaking Reason

The Emotional Outburst

The Aftermath ️

Seeking Validation

A Family’s Betrayal: Is She Right to Ignore Them?
This woman’s world was turned upside down when she discovered her family had been going on vacations without her for years, all because they couldn’t handle her autism. Her emotional outburst led to mixed responses from her family, with her mom blaming her for the situation, her sisters sending nasty messages, and her brother apologizing. Now she wonders if she’s justified in ignoring her family, except for her brother. What do you think? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this heart-wrenching situation…
NTA with autism excluded from 50 family vacations gets emotional.
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NTA for feeling excluded from family vacations. Suggestion to call parents by first name

NTA. Family’s ableist behavior towards OP is unacceptable . OP deserves better.

Excluded from family vacations, NTA suggests not inviting them to wedding.

Supportive commenters encourage OP to cut toxic family out

NTA for losing it after being excluded and insulted.

OP is justified in questioning the value of the relationship

Did the brother intentionally reveal the secret? Some commenters think so.

Excluded autistic family member sparks heated discussion on ‘normalcy’

NTA. Cultural emphasis on family, but exclusion is heartless.

Empathetic reply offers support to woman excluded from vacations

Curious commenter questions family’s 50 vacations, gets surprising answers

Excluding family from vacation is f***ed up.

User shocked at 50 vacations, but commenter clarifies it’s small trips

Commenter empathizes with OP’s situation, praises her support system ❤️

Choosing your family is important , consider going NC

Family secretly excluded her from vacations for years. NTA.

Heartfelt comment and reply exchange. ❤️

Commenter supports OP and criticizes their parents.

Commenter supports woman excluded from family vacations.

Family secretly excludes woman from vacations. Brother and OP NTA.

Sibling of autistic sister shares similar experience, questions NTA verdict.

Empathetic commenter shares personal experience and suggests revenge vacation.

Heartbreaking exclusion due to arthritis, commenter is NTA.

Supportive comment for woman with autistic child, calls out family’s behavior.

NTA comment shares personal experience and criticizes exclusionary behavior

Family excluded OP from vacations due to special needs, mishandled situation

Supportive comment suggests therapy for excluded family member.

Heartbreaking comment receives empathetic reply.

Supportive comment receives validation from OP’s brother.

Standing up for self and boundaries, cutting toxic family ties.

Excluded from 50 family trips, OP’s outburst proved their point

Commenter sympathizes with excluded woman, calls out family’s behavior.

Empathetic comment offers support to excluded family member.

NTA suggests social media revenge, but receives pushback

Heartbreaking exclusion by family, but supportive comment and reply
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Family vacation exclusion is f**ked up. NTA for reacting.

NTA. Empathetic comment with no replies.

Supportive comment receives admiration from commenter.

Betrayed by family’s secret vacations without her. NTA.

Supportive comment validates OP’s feelings and suggests cutting toxic family.
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NTA commenter points out OP’s mistake in heated argument

Supportive comment defends against ableism and family betrayal

Family excluded her from vacations, NTA. They suck.

Inclusive family vacations are the way to go

Supportive comment reminds OP they are loved despite exclusion. ❤️

Take the high road and go on amazing trips solo!

NTA. Cut off parents except brother. No invite to wedding.
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Commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation.
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Family excludes sibling with tantrums, commenter sympathizes.

♀️ ♂️ Uninvite them from wedding due to drama and meltdowns
