A woman (32F) recently underwent dental surgery and was instructed by her doctor to have a responsible adult with her for the first 12 hours after the procedure. She asked her boyfriend (32M) of 15 years to take the day off work to help her, as she had no family in town. However, things didn’t go as planned, and she was left to fend for herself while in pain and under sedation.
Surgery Scheduled, Boyfriend Agrees to Help
Last-Minute Change of Plans
Surgery Day, Boyfriend Drops Her Off
Doctor’s Instructions Ignored
Left Alone in Pain
Hours Later, Pain Meds Finally Arrive
Still Refuses to Help, Returns to Work ♂️
Angry Over Doctor’s Instructions
Weekend of Anger and Refusal to Help
Video Games and TikTok Over Care
Sleeping Apart, Future Help Denied ️
Was She Unreasonable for Expecting Help?
The woman was left alone and in pain after her dental surgery, despite the doctor’s instructions for her to have a responsible adult with her. Her boyfriend refused to help, prioritizing work and leisure over her well-being. Was she unreasonable for expecting him to take care of her? Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments below.
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Dump the heartless boyfriend and focus on your own recovery
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