Losing a loved one is never easy, but when family tensions run high, it can make the grieving process even more challenging. In this post from Am I The Asshole, a woman shares the story of how she kicked her brother and sister-in-law out of their mother’s funeral. The situation arose from a disagreement over living arrangements and escalated from there. The post highlights the difficulties of navigating family dynamics during tough times and raises questions about the boundaries we set with our loved ones. Read on to find out more about this emotionally fraught situation.
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Siblings fight at mom’s funeral, leading to disrespectful behavior.

Sibling rivalry and family drama at funeral ♀️

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Heartbreaking family feud over gifts and blocked communication

Grandma’s love lives on through grandbaby’s inheritance ❤️

Sister’s explosive reaction to unexpected guests at mother’s funeral.

Tensions rise at funeral as sister-in-law gets the boot

Sibling drama unfolds at mother’s funeral

Dispute arises at funeral, family feud breaks out.

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Family feud turns funeral into battlefield
Losing a loved one is always difficult, and it’s even worse when family conflict is involved. That’s exactly what happened to F31, who lost her mother to cancer and had to deal with the aftermath of her brother and sister-in-law’s disrespect for their deceased brother’s home. What started as a simple agreement turned into a full-blown family feud, with rumors and arguments leading to a painful estrangement. When the funeral came, tensions were high, and F31 lost control when her brother and sister-in-law arrived to pay their respects. Despite feeling terrible about her behavior, F31 is struggling to forgive and forget. It’s a sad situation, but unfortunately all too common when family members can’t get along. In the next section, we’ll take a look at some of the reactions to this heartbreaking story.
NTA for kicking them out. They didn’t honor her while alive.
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Supportive commenter advises OP to prioritize mental health after difficult family conflict.

Sibling conflict at a funeral. Brother absent in life.

Inheritance drama brings out family tensions. NTA withholding money.

Right to be angry. Brother’s actions speak volumes.

Family drama at a funeral? NTA takes no prisoners.

Standing up for mom, NTA kicks brother and wife out.

Commenter defends OP, calls out aunt’s behavior with fiery emojis

You kicked them out of the funeral, now kick them out of the house

NTA kicks greedy relatives out of funeral, stands up to abuse

Commenter supports woman’s actions, calls out brother’s behavior.

Protecting your late mother’s possessions from shady relatives

Standing up for her late mother, she kicked them out. #NTA

NTA! Heartbreaking situation, burn bridges with toxic family members
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Justified exclusion of disrespectful brother and wife from funeral. ♀️

Forgiveness takes time. NTA for setting boundaries during mourning

Condolences. Terrible brother & wife. Who got the home?

No contact, no funeral – NTA kicks out family.

Cutting toxic family members out is necessary.

Stand firm, you’re not the a**hole in this family drama

No sympathy for fair-weather family. Condolences for your loss.
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Family drama at a funeral, everyone sucks but OP slightly less

Woman kicks brother and wife out of mother’s funeral. Commenters debate ESH vs NTA.

Grieving OP receives support after brother cuts off mother.

Family feud over funeral creates long-lasting consequences. #NTA

Cutting out toxic family? NTA sets healthy boundaries

Respect for the dead is non-negotiable

Sibling rivalry at its worst. ♀️
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Standing up for a loved one’s wishes.

Family drama and greed over inheritance

Standing up for what’s right

Family drama at a funeral? NTA for kicking them out.

Death can bring out the worst in people

Father’s wise words on death and family bonds.

Commenter stands up for OP against disrespectful family members

Condolences on the loss. NTA for standing up to insensitive family.
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Strong negative sentiment in comments
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Family drama during a funeral, NTA prevails

Family drama at funerals is the worst . NTA for protecting boundaries.

Self-care is key. Cut out toxic people.

Don’t judge a book by its cover! NTA

Commenter stands by OP’s actions and condemns family’s behavior

Standing up for your deceased mother, NTA!

Stand your ground and move on with blessings

A harsh judgement on the brother and sister-in-law

Commenter believes the brother and wife lack respect.

Standing up to family pressure.

Stand your ground!

Condolences. Brother’s behavior unacceptable. Not the a-hole.

Prepare for a legal battle , but expect the best outcome

Did they deserve to get kicked out?

NTA for protecting your mother’s wishes.

Support for grieving woman who stood up to disrespectful family.

Cutting off toxic family members: or ?

Timing matters, even when you’re not the a**hole ️

Cutting off toxic family members for a peaceful funeral. ♀️

No guilt, no problem! ♀️
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Don’t mess with someone’s space, NTA for kicking out.

Agreeing with NTA: Despicable behavior from brother and wife.

Standing up for family.

Cutting off toxic family: NTA takes no prisoners ⚔️

Encouraging revenge? Let’s see what the replies say…

Compassionate support during a difficult time.
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Standing up for mom’s wishes.

Family drama at funerals? NTA stands up for herself.

Funeral drama: Daughter stands up to entitled brother and wife.

Deceased brother’s wife and brother were selfish at funeral

Family drama at a funeral? NTA stands up for wishes

NTA. Brother and wife took mother for granted till death.
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No sympathy here.
