A woman has always despised eggplant and avocado, even going as far as claiming an allergy to avoid eating them. Her husband and son, who both enjoy these vegetables, decided to cook dinner while she was busy. They made a dish combining her two most hated ingredients, and the situation quickly spiraled out of control.
A Lifelong Dislike
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Family Dinner Plans ️
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A Surprising Dish
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Pressure to Try the Meal
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Husband Joins In ️
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The Gagging Incident
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Family’s Shocked Reaction
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Apologies and Consequences
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Questioning the Choices
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Dinner Dilemma: Who’s to Blame?
A woman’s lifelong hatred of eggplant and avocado led to a dramatic family dinner. Despite knowing her aversion, her husband and son prepared a meal combining these ingredients. When pressured to try it, she gagged and spat it out, causing her son to cry and her husband to call her disrespectful. Was her reaction justified or should she have handled it differently? Share your thoughts and reactions below.
Husband deliberately made dinner to upset wife and child. NTA.

Husband’s bizarre dinner combination sparks power play accusations

Husband forces wife to eat disliked dinner, son innocent bystander. NTA.

NTA. Commenter sympathizes with woman’s aversion to dinner and suggests teaching child about boundaries.

Husband disrespects wife’s food preferences, gets called out.

Husband sets up wife to gag on dinner, emotionally blackmails her. NTA

Commenter expresses concern for potential emotional abuse, receives agreement.

NTA. Husband emotionally blackmailed wife into eating gross food.
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Respectful wife refuses dinner, husband ignores preference. NTA wins.

NTA with food aversion gags on dinner, husband overreacts. Unfair behavior.

Don’t like a certain food? NTA says it’s okay to gag.

Agree or disagree? NTA refuses unconventional dinner.

Pizza toppings spark debate: eggplant and avocado vs. tuna and goat cheese

Spousal disrespect and involuntary reflexes: NTA or ESH?

Husband’s dinner prank backfires, child now hates eggplant and avocado.

Husband’s magical pizza causes gagging – NTA wins

Husband ignores wife’s food preferences, causes gagging. YTA.

Husband forces wife to eat, calls her a**hole for gagging

Husband engineers situation, yells and takes son away. NTA OP

Forced food and disrespect? NTA, stand up for yourself

Allergic to coconut or not, NTA for not liking dinner

Supportive comment defends OP’s reaction to disrespectful dinner, questions husband’s behavior.

Commenter thinks husband and son were not the a**holes

Husband’s mind games with son’s cooking? Definitely NTA.

Stand up against manipulation. You’re NTA.

Husband intentionally made wife gag on dinner. NTA.

Eggplant and avocado pizza? Strange combo or delicious surprise?

NTA! Husband’s disrespectful behavior deserves a pineapple sideways

Eggplant and avocado pizza? Husband’s deliberate disrespect or innocent mistake?

Husband’s manipulative behavior and wife’s justified reaction.

Husband serves wife food she hates, gets mad when she gags. NTA

Husband’s cooking causes wife to gag, commenter calls him garbage

Husband’s disrespectful behavior leads to wife gagging on dinner

Commenter expresses strong dislike towards husband’s behavior.

Husband’s behavior towards wife is unacceptable
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Husband’s cruel dinner prank leaves wife gagging. Not acceptable behavior.

Hilarious NTA comment about a broken husband and bad dinner.

Is avocado and eggplant pizza real or fake?

Husband sets son up for failure in the kitchen

Sensory aversion to food is not the same as being picky.

Husband forces wife to eat food she can’t stand

Husband’s failed plan leads to wife and child’s misery. NTA

Husband sets up wife to fail at dinner, commenters call out manipulation

Husband disrespects wife’s food preferences and blows up, NTA.

Husband makes disrespectful dinner, berates wife for gagging. NTA.

Husband’s behavior questioned after disrespectful dinner incident.
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When parents use food as a power play

Husband sets up wife to fail with bizarre and cruel dinner

Husband’s dinner prank backfires, commenter says NTA

Commenter sympathizes with woman and questions husband’s motives

NTA, husband’s behavior is abusive. Seek support for you and your kid

Curious about the husband’s motivation for serving the dinner

Abusive husband forces wife to eat disliked food. NTA.

This comment section is off to a humorous start

Husband forces wife to eat disliked food in front of child

Avocado-hater forced to eat it by inconsiderate husband. #NTA

Husband sets up wife to fail at dinner: NTA comment

Honesty is the best policy with kids

Commenter supports OP, calls out husband’s red flags

Food preferences are valid, husband’s reaction was unacceptable
