Imagine being at your fiancé’s family party, getting along with everyone, and suddenly discovering a hidden truth about your future together. That’s exactly what happened to a 23-year-old woman who attended her fiancé’s sister’s baby welcome party. Little did she know that a conversation with her fiancé’s family would lead to a shocking revelation about their child-free plans.
The Child-Free Agreement

A Family Introduction

Party Time

The Baby Handoff

The Unexpected Question ❓

The Grandbaby Expectation

The Child-Free Confusion

Confronting the Fiancé

The Escape Plan ♀️

Fiancé’s Furious Reaction

Apologizing to the Sister

Sister’s Understanding Response

The Unresolved Issue

Second Thoughts ♀️

The Great Escape: A Tale of Love, Lies, and Family Drama
Our protagonist found herself in the midst of a family party, where she was expected to help with her fiancé’s sister’s baby. However, she had no experience with babies and had agreed with her fiancé to remain child-free. When his mother mentioned her expectations for grandbabies, our heroine confronted her fiancé, only to discover he believed she would ‘grow out of’ not wanting children. Unable to handle the situation, she fled the party and later apologized to her sister, who was understanding. But with her fiancé calling her immature and refusing to discuss the issue, this love story has taken a dramatic turn. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation…
OP’s fiancé lied, disrespected boundaries, and gaslighted her. Run!
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NTA. A manipulative and lying fiancé with a history of abuse.

NTA, but fiancé’s beliefs and actions raise red flags

NTA, don’t marry someone who expects you to change. Red flag

NTA but fiancé is manipulative and controlling with a power imbalance. Incompatible.

Red flags galore! NTA for running from this manipulative man

Run from the predator fiancé and prove him wrong

Age difference matters, proceed with caution. Not the a**hole.

Don’t ignore the red flags . Protect yourself from potential harm.

Red flag alert! Older women are on to his game.

Red flags everywhere! Comments warn OP to leave manipulative fiancé.

Run, don’t walk. If he lied about being child-free

NTA, leaving was kind but concerning. Fiancé’s behavior is gross

Fiancé lied about wanting kids, now paints OP as bad guy

You dodged a bullet . Don’t look back and move on.
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Don’t compromise your values for a partner who doesn’t respect them

Run, girl, run! ♀️ NTA for prioritizing your own desires.

Fiancé lied to trap her into having kids. NTA. Consider ending.

Fiancé’s honesty questioned in comment with no replies.

Caught in a lie and gaslighting? NTA, don’t feel bad

Run, don’t walk! ♀️ ♀️ Grooming for broodmare? NTA

Mature response to deceitful boyfriend, but food might’ve kept me there

Age gap concerns and potential tampering with birth control

Choose wisely: leave now or be manipulated into a bad life.

Fleeing a family party due to a shocking revelation

Lying fiancé and disagreement on having kids. NTA.

Stand up for yourself! You deserve better than a liar.

Fiancé’s family hides a shocking truth, NTA for leaving

Protect yourself from reproductive coercion. NTA.

Commenter defends woman’s decision to leave predatory fiancé.

Fiancé lied about being child-free, manipulative behavior, NTA

Age difference leads to power imbalance in relationship

Commenter questions motives behind age gap in relationship

Red flag alert! Reconsider dating a man who wants kids.

Don’t marry him! He thinks you’re stupid and watch birth control

Having kids is a deal breaker. NTA for leaving

Stand your ground. Your wishes matter.

Don’t compromise on having kids. NTA

Fiancé hid family and lied about important decision. NTA.

Dodged a bullet . NTA for leaving the party.

Seeing red flags: commenters support NTA’s decision to leave.

Run, girl, run! You’re NTA and deserve better

Don’t let anyone shame you for not owing them anything

Red flags everywhere! Reconsider this engagement.

Harsh truth or tough love? Incompatible fiancé and lying family.

Dump the fiancé, keep the sister.

NTA and run like h**l

User warns about fiancé’s red flags and age gap

Commenter advises OP to run from fiancé’s family party

Stand up for yourself! Don’t let them gaslight you

Short and sweet: NTA, leave him.

NTA comment calls out age gap and immaturity in relationship

NTA. Fiancé lied about something vital. Don’t stay with him.

Dodged a bullet NTA for leaving him

Age gap reveals controlling behavior and coercion. Break up advised.

Take control of your life and end the relationship.

Age gap, head pat, and lies. NTA, girl!

NTA! Older fiancé is manipulative and doesn’t respect autonomy

Red flags everywhere! Cut your losses, you deserve better.

Age gap and control issues in a messed up relationship

Run away from him before you end up unexpectedly pregnant

Don’t ignore the red flags , it’s a lack of respect

Commenter warns of potential reproductive coercion in relationship.

Last Updated on May 29, 2023 by Diply Social Team