A woman and her wife were excited to adopt their sister-in-law’s baby, only to face a heartbreaking betrayal. After years of trying to conceive and facing the challenges of same-sex couple adoption, they thought their dreams of parenthood were finally coming true. However, their world came crashing down when their sister-in-law changed her mind and revealed her true intentions. In a moment of anger and frustration, the woman donated all the baby items they had prepared for the child. Now, she’s left wondering if she did the right thing.
A Long Journey to Parenthood

Adoption Hopes Dashed

A Ray of Hope

A Generous Offer

Supporting the Pregnancy

A Heartbreaking Decision

Devastation and Compassion

A Shocking Revelation

Anger and Betrayal

A Wife’s Disappointment

Family Drama Unleashed ️

A Mother’s Plea for Help

Guilt and Confusion

Seeking Answers

A Family Torn Apart: What’s Next?
After the shocking betrayal and emotional rollercoaster, the woman is left questioning her actions. She wonders if she was wrong to donate the baby items meant for her sister-in-law’s child. As the family drama unfolds, they must navigate the aftermath and decide how to move forward. Will they find a way to heal and support each other, or will the rift between them grow even deeper? Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments.
Donated baby items to SIL who manipulated and took advantage. NTA.

NTA- SIL is an awful person. She stole from you and now wants to live off your money. But OP is conflicted about punishing the innocent baby.

Donating baby items to a shelter after sister-in-law’s deception. NTA

NTA for not giving baby items to evil sister-in-law, but YTA for getting rid of them without discussing with your wife.

Standing up to a selfish, homophobic con artist.

User sympathizes with OP’s situation and criticizes SIL’s deceitful behavior.

NTA, SIL’s actions were despicable and you were manipulated.

Heartbreaking betrayal by SIL, but NTA. Seek therapy for healing.

NTA for donating baby items after sister-in-law’s betrayal
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Donating baby items meant for SIL’s child, seeking legal advice.

Heartbreaking adoption scam, NTA for donating baby items.

NTA! Don’t let them guilt you. Absolutely cruel

Donating baby items was justified, SIL used OP and wife

User receives support after donating baby items meant for SIL’s child

Couple disagrees on baby items donation, family drama ensues ♂️

Donated baby items cause family drama. ESH for throwing away.
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NTA. SIL and MIL conned you and your wife. Babies can thrive with less. Wife may need therapy for co-dependence.

Generous donation sparks debate on family entitlement

Generous gesture or justified action? NTA donates baby items

Don’t be an a**hole, but make her pay for it

NTA for exposing sister-in-law’s scam, therapy recommended for wife.

Heartbreaking situation. NTA. Cut them off for your own sake.

SIL drama! NTA for not helping her with baby items

NTA. Commenter advises protecting oneself and getting counseling for wife.

Donating baby items meant for sister-in-law’s child: NTA x 1000

Commenter exposes hypocrisy of judgmental single mom.

SIL relies on OP for baby items but questions their readiness

Supportive comment defends OP against sister-in-law’s harsh words

Don’t owe her anything . NTA for sure.

Cutting off toxic sister-in-law who donated baby items. NTA.

Generous gesture, but wife’s feelings should have been considered

Commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests therapy for wife.

Commenter calls out hypocrisy in religious family’s actions

Unilateral decision out of spite. YTA. Discuss with wife

Support for not being the a**hole, wife needs to stop agreeing

Don’t let SIL take advantage of your grief. Cut her off.

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation.

Heartbreaking situation, but NTA. Therapy can help with healing and future plans.

Commenter sympathizes with OP, suggests couple get help to avoid resentment

Donated baby items meant for SIL, MIL guilted OP, ESH.

Donating baby items was a good deed, don’t feel guilty

Donating baby items to a homeless shelter, NTA wins!

Heartbreaking betrayal by sister-in-law, sending love and support
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Donating baby items doesn’t obligate you to support the child. ♀️
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SIL’s plan backfires, OP not the a**hole for not helping

Donating baby items doesn’t obligate you to spend more. NTA

Donating baby items meant for sil’s child. NTA, set legal boundaries.

Heartbreaking betrayal, but your kindness will bring joy to others

Commenter shames woman for donating baby items to vulnerable couple
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Don’t dish it if you can’t take it NTA
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Empathetic comment acknowledges loss and supports donation decision

Commenter shames SIL for having a child out of wedlock. NTA.

Donating baby items to a shelter instead of selfish SIL

Supportive comment predicts rocky road ahead for couple

Donated baby items, but sister-in-law grifted them into funding everything. NTA.

Donating baby items not meant for sister-in-law’s child

Standing up for yourself when someone breaks their promise

Donating baby items meant for sister-in-law, NTA wins

Generous gift-giving backfires, but OP is NTA
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Donating baby items to sister-in-law who kept baby? NTA.

Don’t let guilt force you into a toxic relationship

Sister-in-law is TA, NTA for donating baby items

Donating baby items meant for sister-in-law’s child – NTA

Supportive comment calling out SIL’s cruelty and suggesting boundaries.

NTA, SIL used and gaslighted you. You paid expenses in good faith

Supportive commenters encourage OP to create a family of their own

Standing up to gaslighting and helping those in need
