We’ve all heard about couples having disagreements, but this one takes the cake! A 22-year-old woman, who we’ll call Purple Princess, decided to dye her hair against her boyfriend’s wishes. She met her boyfriend, who we’ll call Mr. A, over three years ago when she had blonde hair. After going back to her natural brunette color, Mr. A expressed his love for her brown locks. However, Purple Princess wanted to add some purple highlights to her hair, leading to a boiling point in their relationship.
The Beginning of the Hair Drama

Mr. A’s Preference

The Decision to Go Purple

The Bleaching Process

Mr. A’s Reaction

The Boiling Point ️

Mr. A’s Demands

Purple Princess’s Thoughts

A Different Perspective

Seeking Judgement

The Internet Weighs In on the Hair Debacle
So, what does the internet think of Purple Princess’s decision to dye her hair against Mr. A’s wishes? Is she in the wrong for making a change to her appearance, or is Mr. A being unreasonable in his demands? Let’s dive into the top responses and see what people have to say about this hairy situation. ✨
Defy your boyfriend’s demands and dye your hair. Your body, your rules. ♀️

NTA! Buy trash bags for his stuff when you leave him ♀️

Empowerment and support for hair dye choices.

Don’t let anyone control your body. NTA.

Changing hair color shouldn’t ‘make or break’ a relationship. NTA.
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NTA- Do what you want with your hair, not his.

Don’t let anyone control you or your body. Stand your ground!

Don’t let anyone control your hair color! ♀️

NTA, stand up for your autonomy and reconsider this relationship

Don’t ignore the red flags. You deserve better!

Controlling boyfriend gets a red flag. Your hair, your rules.

Partner’s love should not be conditional on hair color. NTA
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Boyfriend’s controlling behavior over hair color is a red flag NTA

Empowerment wins! Hair color shouldn’t be a relationship deal breaker

Empowered woman defends her right to dye her hair ♀️

Empowering response to controlling boyfriend’s hair preferences ♀️
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Partner’s hair, partner’s choice. NTA for standing up.

Empowerment is key! NTA, you don’t need his permission

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Love is about respect and support, not control. NTA

Empowering response to controlling boyfriend.

Dump him! You deserve better than a controlling partner.

Take control of your hair and your life! ♀️
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Defiant woman dyes hair despite controlling boyfriend’s wishes

Defiant woman questions boyfriend’s hair color obsession

Take control of your hair, NTA! ♀️

Empower yourself! NTA for wanting to dye your hair ♀️

Be your own person , go purple and forget the controlling boyfriend

Break up with him and dye your hair purple
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♀️ Don’t let a man control your hair or your future.

Empowering response to controlling partner. You do you

Unleashing the power of purple hair! NTA

Escape the control! NTA, find a new home

Empowering response to controlling boyfriend’s hair dye demands. ♀️

Boyfriend’s possessiveness over hair raises eyebrows

Don’t let him control you! #NotTheAsshole

Take control of your hair and your life ♀️

Empowerment at its finest! Woman defies controlling boyfriend and wins.

Dump the controlling boyfriend, NTA.

Hair color shouldn’t determine a relationship

Breaking up over hair color? ♀️
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Defy the control freak! NTA. Your body, your choice

Dump him and find someone who values you for you ♀️

Empowering response to controlling boyfriend.

Short and sweet, commenter says NTA with a sassy flair.

Long hair, don’t care! NTA for chopping it off ♀️

Empower yourself and seek counseling or kick him out!

Don’t let anyone control your hair! ♀️ You go girl! ♀️

Partner’s controlling behavior over hair color raises red flags

Don’t ignore the red flags . Get him in line or dump him .

Take control of your body and your life. You deserve better

Dumpster fire ex-boyfriend gets what he deserves

Don’t let anyone dictate your hair choices ♀️





Escape the toxic relationship and live your best life!

Love yourself! Don’t let anyone control or abuse you.

Empowering response to controlling boyfriend’s hair demands

Breakup with the controlling boyfriend and dye your hair pink

Defying controlling partner’s hair dye ban. NTA wins.
