Picture this: you’re on a video call with your friends, discussing relationship issues, when suddenly, they turn on your boyfriend, calling him ‘creepy’ for being attentive. Would you defend him? That’s precisely what happened to one woman (28f) who found herself caught in a heated debate with her friends (28-31f) over whether her boyfriend’s (25m) actions were creepy or caring. Let’s dive into the story and see if we can make sense of it all.
The Video Call That Started It All

The Husband’s Menstrual Product Issues

Supporting Their Friend

The ‘Creepy’ Boyfriend

Friends Attack

Defending Her Man

The Argument Continues

The Reason for His Attention

Creepy or Caring? The Internet Weighs In
So, is this boyfriend creepy for being attentive to his girlfriend’s needs, or is he just a caring partner? The woman defended her man, pointing out that he’s the one who does the shopping and that she appreciates his thoughtfulness. She even suggested her friends might need to find better men in their lives. Now, let’s see what the internet has to say about this intriguing situation…
Men taking on the ‘mental load’ is thoughtful, not creepy

Men’s confusion: should period supplies be normalized or not?

Hilarious comment about a man buying feminine products for his wife.

Men sharing their grocery shopping experiences for their partners.

Defending ‘creepy’ boyfriend, but friend’s jealousy causing drama. ♀️

Breaking gender norms: supportive partners who buy feminine products

NTA defends boyfriend buying tampons, calls out friends’ immaturity.

Boyfriend’s protective behavior is NTA, but is he creepy?


Defending a ‘creepy’ boyfriend – NTA comment shuts down criticism
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Boyfriend’s considerate tampon purchase deemed ‘creepy’ by friends. NTA.

Defending a ‘creepy’ boyfriend with good shopping etiquette.

Breaking the taboo – period talk and supportive boyfriends

Defending a ‘creepy’ boyfriend who won’t buy jockstraps. NTA.

Partner’s attention to detail appreciated, friends should be cut off.

Don’t let jealous friends bring you down. NTA

Support for defending ‘decent’ boyfriend amidst friends’ crappy behavior.

Don’t let the haters bring you down, trust your gut!

Defending a ‘creepy’ boyfriend? NTA shuts down haters
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Defending a ‘creepy’ boyfriend who’s just supportive

Defending your partner? NTA. Rhyming? Well timed!
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Defending a ‘creepy’ boyfriend? NTA shares a sweet story

This guy is a Disney Prince level of supportive

Defend your love, ignore the haters

Defending a ‘creepy’ boyfriend? This NTA comment explains why.
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Defending her ‘creepy’ boyfriend against gender stereotypes.

Defending her ‘creepy’ boyfriend, commenter is praised for not judging.

Defending a ‘creepy’ boyfriend? This commenter says NTA with praise

Commenter points out hypocritical comments on boyfriend’s tampon purchase.

Defending her ‘creepy’ boyfriend, woman receives support from strangers

Defending her ‘grown-ass man’ boyfriend against jealous friends.
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Efficient household management or creepy behavior? NTA comment section debates.

Aww, what a sweet and considerate boyfriend!

Defending a ‘creepy’ boyfriend who fears menstruation. NTA wins.

Breaking the stigma around men noticing women’s products

Defending a ‘creepy’ boyfriend – healthy or not?

Defending a ‘creepy’ boyfriend – NTA wins friends over

Period product preferences spark debate among friends.
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Jealousy or insecurity? NTA defends noticing SO’s products

Defending partner’s ‘creepy’ behavior with household chores

Breaking gender stereotypes and embracing thoughtfulness in relationships ❤️

Woman defends boyfriend, but comment is confusing

Supportive comment about a healthy relationship with heartwarming gesture ❤

Don’t let small-minded friends ruin your cool relationship!

Breaking gender stereotypes with household product maturity

Defending a ‘creepy’ boyfriend – rare or not? NTA.

Not the a**hole? Let’s see what the replies say!
