When a woman’s boyfriend unexpectedly asked for her credit card, she let him take it but asked him to return it later. Instead, he kept it and said he wanted to handle paying for things on her behalf. Feeling uncomfortable, she canceled the card and registered a new one. Her boyfriend was angry and accused her of being financially abusive. However, the woman argues that she couldn’t trust him with her finances. The situation has caused tension in their relationship, with the woman feeling guilty for hurting her boyfriend’s feelings. But who is really in the wrong here? Read on to find out more.
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Canceling credit card after boyfriend refuses to return it
A woman and her unemployed boyfriend got into an argument when he refused to return her credit card after she let him use it to buy food. He insisted on keeping it to handle her finances, but she felt uncomfortable with it and canceled it. The boyfriend accused her of being financially abusive and not trusting him. However, the woman argues that she has been paying for most of their expenses, including his medical bills and transportation. She also revealed that he has a physical disability that limits his job opportunities, but he refuses to acknowledge it and blames others for not employing him. Was she wrong to cancel the credit card? Read on for the reactions and comments.
Trust your instincts and cancel the credit card. NTA

NTA. Boyfriend is over party

Boyfriend tries to use canceled card, accuses girlfriend of paranoia. NTA

Boyfriend steals credit card, claims trust issues. NTA.

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Boyfriend’s refusal to return credit card leads to guilt trip. #NTA

Comment section full of ex-boyfriend assumptions

Don’t let him gaslight you. NTA, cancel the card.

Boyfriend with no job or family, woman pays for everything including medication.

Boyfriend steals credit card, lies about using it. Dump him.

Boyfriend tries to take control of finances, woman cancels card. NTA

Cancel him too ! OP made the right choice.

Protect your assets and yourself , dump the entitled boyfriend

Boyfriend tries to use credit card without approval, deal breaker.

NTA, ditch the dead weight

Find a man with a job, not a burden

Boyfriend steals credit card, lies, and manipulates. Classic abuser tactic. #NTA

Don’t settle for stale fish NTA – Move on

Sassy comment shuts down ex-boyfriend’s rudeness

Dump the mooch and swipe right for a better match

Trust your gut and cancel the card, before it’s too late

Trust issues: Woman cancels card after untrustworthy boyfriend’s betrayal

Protect your finances and break up with him

Dump the dead weight! NTA, he’s gaslighting you.

Savage response to a toxic relationship

Boyfriend’s broken promise leads to cancelled credit card.

Protect your finances and yourself from this red flag

♀️ Don’t let him steal your or your ❤️, end it now.

You go girl! Cancelled that card. NTA

Cancel the boyfriend . NTA for setting boundaries.

Dump the boyfriend, keep the credit score! ♀️

Boyfriend refuses to return credit card, shows true colors. Dump him. ❤

Cut the deadweight and fly solo #NTA

Not the a**hole! Trust is key in relationships.

Setting boundaries in a relationship –

Cancel the boyfriend, not just the credit card. ❌

Commenter advises to run and declares OP is not the a-hole.

Dump him! NTA for canceling credit card.

Smart move! Cancelled credit card to avoid financial trouble

Boyfriend’s credit card misuse backfires, woman cancels it. #NTA

Standing up for yourself is never petty

Protect your credit at all costs You’re NTA

NTA! ♀️ Don’t mess with a woman’s finances

Stand up for yourself! But listen to your friends

Take control of your finances Dump the loser.

Dump the dead weight
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Partner refuses to return credit card, commenter questions relationship dynamics

Trust issues justified, NTA for cancelling credit card

Boyfriend’s intentions questioned after credit card dispute

Boyfriend takes credit card hostage, breaks promise. NTA.

Trust broken. Card cancelled. Relationship next? ❌

Boyfriend broke promise, got mad when credit card cancelled ♀️

Dump him! NTA for leaving a freeloading gaslighter.

Bye bye thief #NTA

Cancel the card, not the self-respect. ♀️

Good call! Canceling the card was the right move

Stand your ground and toss out the guy! #NTA

Setting boundaries and applying consequences.

Taking control of finances isn’t abuse, but is he worth it?

Red flags , boyfriend wants financial control. NTA for cancelling.

Dump his shady a** before he ruins your finances

Protect yourself from a controlling boyfriend

Protect your finances Trust your instincts and stand your ground

Boyfriend gaslights girlfriend over credit card, she cancels it

Boyfriend tries to use credit card without consent, NTA to cancel

Cancel the card, cancel the boyfriend, NTA ♀️

Take no crap! Stand up for yourself and show him out.

Red flags everywhere! Dump him and your credit card fraud worries

Trust issues or red flag?

Cancel him just like you did with your card

Cut your losses and move on. Don’t fall for sunk costs.

Boyfriend tries to spend on card after promising not to. NTA

Protect your finances and trust, NTA ♀️

Taking control of finances: Woman cancels credit card, not the a**hole

♀️ Boyfriend refuses to return credit card; commenter is NTA.

NTA for cancelling the card. Maybe consider cancelling the boyfriend?

He broke his promise, you cancelled the card. NTA

When your boyfriend is a hobosexual… #NTA
