Picture this: a family dinner with your boyfriend’s relatives, and suddenly, his brother makes a creepy comment about why he married his wife. This is exactly what happened to one woman who couldn’t hold back her irritation any longer. After dealing with her boyfriend’s brother’s rude behavior, she finally snapped when he made a comment about ‘wife material’ and British women. ️
The Irritating Brother-in-Law

The Submissive Wife

Rude Demands and No Manners

The Family Dinner Showdown ️

The Creepy Comment

Standing Up for Herself

Boyfriend’s Reaction

The Unexpected Proposal

A Thank You Note

To the Haters

A Dinner, a Confrontation, and a Proposal?!
After enduring her boyfriend’s brother’s rude behavior and creepy comments about ‘wife material,’ this woman had enough and called him out at a family dinner. While her boyfriend initially thought she’d made a scene, the incident unexpectedly led to a marriage proposal! Now, she’s grateful for the support she’s received and has a message for the haters: she’s not backing down. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this wild turn of events…
NTA. Stand up for yourself against the brother’s creepy comment
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Italian OP stands up against sexist ‘family will handle it’ mentality
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Woman stands up against offensive comment and discusses controlling behavior.

British woman stands up against creepy comment, boyfriend stays silent
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Woman confronts boyfriend’s brother’s creepy comment, family in denial ♀️
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Woman stands up for herself, boyfriend’s brother gets what’s coming

Standing up against creepy behavior. NTA for calling out.

Italian culture doesn’t tolerate sexist behavior, NTA.

Italian commenter stands up to creepy boyfriend’s brother

Cultural differences can explain behavior but snapping at him was justified.

Cultural norms can’t excuse creepy behavior. NTA for speaking up

Defend yourself against rude comments. You’re not the problem

Woman defends herself against creepy comment, but is criticized for asking for politeness. Mixed judgement (ESH/NTA)

Commenter defends brother, calls out OP for being petty ♂️
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Commenter defends YTA accusation, receives polite rebuttal

Woman calls out boyfriend’s brother for rude table manners

Boyfriend’s brother is the only a**hole. Commenters discuss defending oneself.

Cultural differences should not excuse abusive behavior towards spouses

Italian woman rightfully calls out boyfriend’s brother for sexist behavior

Stand up for yourself and talk to your partner about it

Commenter defends wife’s relationship, calls out judgy behavior

Standing up to family for inappropriate behavior. NTA

Woman called out for meddling in brother-in-law’s marriage
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Commenter defends controversial behavior in relationship, sparks debate

Commenter calls out weird power play, boyfriend’s brother also sucks.
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Family dinner turns crappy after creepy comment and argument.

Spouse defends partner’s call-out, cultural differences not an excuse

Commenter suggests staying out of relationship dynamics, but calls out scummy joke.
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NTA shuts down creepy comment

Judgmental attitude towards traditional relationships, both parties at fault.
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Married man defends submissive wife, calls out judgmental commenters

Commenter deems someone the a**hole, drama ensues

Woman called out for interfering in boyfriend’s brother’s business.

Jealousy accusation sparks no further discussion.

Commenter accuses woman of overreacting to harmless joke

Italian grandma would have eaten him alive! NTA wins.

Calling out creepy behavior, NTA takes a stand

Commenter judges British women, gets called out by reply.
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Gender-neutral bowl passing causes family feud

Empowering response to standing up against mistreatment

Standing up against sexist expectations. You go, OP!

Commenter defends brother’s behavior, calls out lack of evidence

Woman questions cultural expectations of serving men in relationships

Standing up for yourself doesn’t make you the a**hole

Commenter calls out both parties for their behavior at dinner.

NTA calls out boyfriend’s creepy brother

Italian American women don’t tolerate creepy comments

Commenter calls out hypocritical behavior in relationship

Support for feminism in some places is still lacking.
