A 23-year-old woman started her new job right after college and unintentionally lost 30 pounds due to lifestyle changes. However, her colleague, who is on the larger side, refuses to believe that there’s no secret to her weight loss. This disagreement led to a heated exchange and the cold shoulder treatment from the colleague and her friend.
New Job, New Lifestyle

Unintentional Weight Loss ♀️ ♀️

Back to the Office

The Weight Loss Conversation ️

Admiration and Curiosity

Insistence on a Secret ️♀️

Snapping Point

Cold Shoulder Treatment ❄️

Office Drama Over Weight Loss
A woman unintentionally lost 30 pounds after starting her new job, but her colleague refuses to believe there’s no secret to her weight loss. Despite explaining her lifestyle changes, the colleague insisted on knowing the ‘secret,’ accusing her of wanting to be the prettiest woman in the office. After snapping and telling her colleague that her weight was none of her business, the woman now faces the cold shoulder treatment from her colleague and her friend. How do you think this situation should be handled? Share your thoughts!
Revealing weight loss secret makes OP YTA? Internet outraged.

NTA shares the hard truth about weight loss with humor

Body weight and composition are subjective and depend on individual factors.

Don’t let anyone bring you down for your healthy choices!

Weight loss secret revealed: pet a rock before meals

Running and healthy eating helped with weight loss journey

Lifestyle changes vs quick fixes for weight loss

Woman accused of hiding weight loss secret. One commenter shares a story about people who believe in arcane keys to getting what they want.

Comment section unanimously declares NTA, confusion over ‘asshole’ flair.
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NTA and it was rude for your colleague to comment on your weight loss and insist that you tell her how you did it. Don’t comment on the bodies of your coworkers!

Woman accused of hiding weight loss secret, but one commenter shares a hilarious response to dumb questions. NTA.

Popular vote says NTA, but OP flagged as AH
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Confusion over post’s ‘Asshole’ tag sparks agreement on NTA verdict

Commenter defends accused woman in weight loss scandal.

Woman shares weight loss secret, inspires envy among colleagues

Unintentional weight loss sparks concern among commenters

Commenter calls out weight loss scheme and its supporters

Body shaming accusation leads to discussion on healthy BMI range

No magic pill for weight loss, NTA handled it well

Confused commenter wonders about AH markings in NTA-filled section

Confused commenter questions post’s conflicting ratings

Support for weight loss honesty with a Mean Girls reference
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NTA’s weight loss secret: diet and exercise ♀️

No shortcuts to weight loss, but honesty is the best policy

Confused commenter labeled as a**hole seeks clarification

Redditors defend weight loss advice, call out fatlogic. NTA.

Losing weight takes time and effort, not a magic pill

Confused about the AH flair? Most replies say NTA

Confusion over flagged TA comment with no replies

Savage response to weight loss secret accusation

Humorous suggestion for handling weight loss accusations with a secret

Standing up for oneself and exposing weight loss gimmicks.

Losing weight can lead to unwanted attention. NTA, harmless lies.

Confused commenter receives unexpected backlash for innocent question

Commenter defends OP’s not-the-a**hole status with confusion and humor.

CICO skeptics get shut down by NTA commenter
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Confused commenter questions post’s YTA tag, seeks clarification.

Top comment causes controversy in weight loss article

Respect privacy, weight talk is uncomfortable and unnecessary. NTA.

NTA shares weight loss journey and encourages finding what works

NTA for hiding weight loss secret, but causing insecurity

Defending weight loss choices and debunking magic solutions

Commenter questions why the post is flaired ‘asshole’

Hilarious response shuts down weight loss secret interrogation

Polite response to personal questions at work to avoid conflict

No secret to weight loss, just consistency and hard work

Realistic weight loss advice debunking magic pill myths

Jealousy and laziness exposed

Personal trainer debunks weight loss ‘quick fix’ mentality

Healthy weight loss is possible without magic snake oil

Commenter called out for misusing platform to vent frustrations
