Meet our heroine (43F) and her husband (45M), who have been dealing with a thorn in their side for the past five years: Todd* (39M). Since moving to a new state, Todd has been a constant source of passive-aggressive comments and r**e behavior towards our protagonist. Despite her attempts to communicate her feelings to her husband, he seems to brush off Todd’s behavior as harmless jokes. But when Todd crosses the line one too many times, she finally snaps. Let’s dive into the story that has everyone talking.
The Unwelcome Friend: Todd

Todd’s Passive-Aggressive Comments

Husband Brushes Off Her Concerns

The Coffee Incident

Standing Up to Todd

Husband Dismisses Her Feelings

The New Phone

Surprise from the Husband

Todd Strikes Again

Seeing Red

The Silent Treatment

Standing Her Ground

Husband Thinks She’s Overreacting

The Final Verdict: Was She Right to Snap?
After years of putting up with Todd’s r**e comments and her husband’s dismissive attitude, our heroine finally reached her breaking point. She stood up for herself and demanded that Todd no longer be welcome in their home. But her husband thinks she’s overreacting and should just accept Todd’s behavior. So, what do you think? Was she right to snap, or should she have continued to bite her tongue? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this heated situation…
NTA. Wife tried to communicate with husband about Todd, but he ignored her. Todd’s ‘jokes’ are actually mean and husband values his friend’s opinion over his wife’s feelings. Commenters suggest husband is toxic and wife deserves better.

Comment section suggests husband may be sleeping with Todd ♀️

Commenter calls out r**e friend as a ‘jealous side chick’

NTA, but husband needs to prioritize wife over sexist friend.

Wife stands up to r**e friend after 5 years. NTA

Woman shares experience of dealing with sexist friend and unsupportive boyfriend

Commenter defends NTA and questions double standards with engaging tone

Wife stands up to r**e friend, husband needs to step up

Agreeing with NTA comment and showing support

Chivalry or cringe? A debate on gentlemanly behavior

Sassy response shuts down r**e friend.

Commenter calls out husband’s friend and spineless husband. NTA

Excusing bad behavior as a personality trait? NTA wins!

Commenter suggests husband may be closeted, supports wife’s actions.

Witty replies to NTA’s ‘a******s in my house’ comment

Partner up and stand your ground!

No a******s allowed, even if it’s your husband’s friend. NTA

Spouse dismisses concerns about r**e friend: NTA

Commenter suggests playing into Todd’s jealousy and not letting him get to you. NTA

Commenter supports wife’s actions, husband has bigger issues.

Spouse defends partner against r**e friend. Go team!

Husband’s friend belittles wife, husband needs to reevaluate friendship.

Living with a sexist and boundary-less friend? Kick him out!

Sassy response shuts down r**e friend. NTA wins!

Spouse stands up to r**e friend, but husband gaslights her.

Invalidation of feelings and emotional abuse in relationship. Narcissistic behavior.

Commenter warns about dangerous friend and suggests confronting husband.

Does husband complain to friend about wife? Friend thinks so

Setting boundaries with r**e friends: NTA takes action

Wife stands up to r**e friend, husband defends him. NTA.

Wife stands up to r**e friend, husband dismisses her. NTA

NTA for setting boundaries with husband’s r**e friend

Toxic friends are not worth keeping. NTA for setting boundaries
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Supportive comment suggests marriage counseling for husband’s r**e friend issue.

Deserve respect!

Agreeing with the commenter that Todd is a t**d. #NTA

Stand up for yourself and your partner, not r**e friends.

Commenter calls out r**e friend with fiery language.

Commenter suggests friend may be stalking, sparking suspicion

Wife stands up to r**e friend, husband should have done more

Sassy comeback to r**e friend’s jokes

Suggesting infidelity and still not the a****e? Interesting…
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NTA comment gets straight to the point.

Wife shuts down r**e friend, comment calls him an incel

Savage response to r**e friend, husband should be embarrassed

Redditor sympathizes with OP’s relationship troubles.

Spouse not at fault, but husband is a giant a**hole

Spineless husband lets friend insult his wife. NTA for snapping.

Savage comeback suggestion for dealing with a r**e friend.

Last Updated on June 3, 2023 by Diply Social Team