Kids are a handful, but that doesn’t excuse being cruel to them. A woman’s nephew was singing along to his favorite movie when his aunt slammed her cup on the table and told him to shut up. The boy was heartbroken and ran off crying. His parents were understandably upset and left immediately. The woman’s spouse called her out on her behavior, but she doubled down and insulted them too. Now they’re wondering if they were wrong to mock them and not defend them. What do you think? Click the link to read the full story and cast your vote on who’s the a**hole.
OP bewildered by wife’s actions in awkward family situation

Dinner with brother’s fam turns into drama, AITA?

Nephew brings joy, but wife not a fan. Compromise needed.

Movie night with nephew turns into family drama

Nephew’s dream of being a singer – wife’s reaction shocking

Wife insults nephew’s singing, causes conflict. AITA?

Parents defend child after wife humiliates nephew for singing

Calling out wife for bullying nephew, AITA?

Nephew’s dreams crushed as wife makes a ‘joke’. AITA?

Confrontation with wife over nephew’s humiliation, AITA?

Wife humiliates nephew, husband confronts her. AITA?
A wife humiliates her nephew while having dinner with her in-laws. The husband, who adores his nephew, confronts her but she brushes it off as a joke. The husband is now wondering if he was wrong to mock her and whether he should have defended her. Read on to see what people have to say about this incident and who they think is in the wrong.
Wife bullies 4-year-old nephew, calls OP a ‘b!#ch’ for calling her out. NTA, wife showing signs of abusive behavior

Commenter expresses concern for OP’s wife’s behavior towards child.

Commenter questions OP’s relationship with cruel spouse.

Defending a 4-year-old from bullying, NTA

Confronting abusive behavior towards a child, NTA

NTA. Wife’s bullying of nephew is not okay, she needs patience.

Wife bullies nephew, OP calls her out, suspects manipulation. #NTA

NTA, wife’s behavior towards kid was unacceptable

Spouse outraged after declining to condone toddler humiliation.

Standing up for a bullied toddler – NTA

Sayonara to the toxic wife, NTA!

Curious about the wife’s behavior.

Engaging in moral debates: When calling out immorality backfires

Spouse’s behavior under scrutiny, NTA gets support.

Encouraging therapy for a troubled family member ♀️
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Commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation.

NTA for calling out wife’s cruel behavior towards 4-year-old nephew
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Calling out a bully aunt who mocked a 4-year-old. NTA

Defending a child from humiliation. ♂️

Understanding the possible reasons behind your wife’s behavior.
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NTA stands up to gaslighting wife, defends calling out behavior

Standing up against cruelty to kids.
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Standing up for a 4 year old. NTA

Defending a bullied toddler NTA wins.

Standing up to bigotry. NTA for sure.

Protecting a 4-year-old dreamer NTA

Stand up to bullies, even if they’re family.
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Wife berates child for singing, NTA for calling her out

Supportive comment calls out terrible behavior.

Stand up for yourself and don’t take any crap!

Encouraging leaving an abusive partner.

Agreeing with NTA comment about evil wife and parenting skills

Wife humiliates nephew, I call her out, now she’s mad. #NTA

Encourage, don’t discourage. Maybe it’s not about the nephew?

Defending a toddler’s right to express himself, NTA

Recognizing red flags in a relationship

You’re in the clear, but your wife needs a reality check.

Is his wife really a Disney villain?

User empathizes with wife’s behavior but still deems OP NTA

Protecting a little one from bullies

Recognize the signs of abuse and prioritize your mental health

Is the comment rude or accurate?

Standing up against cruelty, NTA for calling out wife

Holding up a mirror to her behavior

Woman’s cruel behavior towards nephew receives rightful condemnation. #NTA

Heartbreaking reality of cruel adults.

Calling out animal abuse, not just bad behavior.

Family drama: Commenter calls out wife’s behavior.

Your wife’s behavior is , you’re definitely NTA.
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Supportive response to standing up to toxic family dynamics

Spouse bullies 4yo, demands apology. NTA, divorce recommended.

Stand your ground! NTA for calling out wife’s behavior

Encouraging comment about wife’s behavior with a musical pun

Choosing to dislike children doesn’t justify cruelty. #NTA

Supporting calm handling of a delicate situation

Protective parent defends OP, calls out spouse’s behavior.

Defending a bullied 4-year-old nephew from wife’s harsh comments ️

Defending emotional abuse? Not cool. NTA for speaking up.

Lesbian wife defends niblings, calls out wife’s behavior. #NTA

Childfree commenter supports OP’s callout of wife’s behavior towards nephew.

Defending family? NTA wins!

Standing up for a child.

Not the a**hole, but what did your wife do?

NTA! Show her the door!

Standing up against bullying behavior towards a child.

Support the dreams of your nephew! NTA.

Protecting kids is a must! Stand up against unacceptable behavior

Concerned commenter seeks context for wife’s behavior towards nephew.

User seeks information about the commenter’s relationship, replies support NTA.

NTA for calling out wife’s cruel behavior towards nephew

NTA. OP’s wife owes an apology to nephew and family

Defend your spouse unless they’re wrong. You did the right thing. NTA

Addressing toxic behavior in relationships is crucial.

Heartbreaking story of wife’s cruel behavior towards 4yo nephew. NTA.

Don’t let anyone kill your joy NTA

Defending a child from a monster? NTA, keep calling her out

Concerned commenter suggests medical check-up or leaving abusive relationship
