Wife Dismisses Husband’s Illness as ‘Man Flu’ But It’s Much Worse!

Imagine being sick for months and having your spouse dismiss your symptoms as nothing more than a ‘man flu.’ That’s what happened to one husband, who, after several bouts of illness, discovered he had a kidney infection that could’ve caused permanent damage. His wife’s refusal to take his health seriously has led to a major rift in their relationship. Let’s dive into the story…

The Beginning of a Health Nightmare

Flu-like Symptoms and a Dismissive Wife

Wife’s Priorities: Vacation Time > Health ️

Round Two: Pain and More Dismissal

“Man Up” and Other Unhelpful Advice

The ‘Man Flu’ Lecture ‍♂️

Cancelling the Doctor’s Appointment

Round Three: Finally Seeing the Doctor

The Shocking Diagnosis

The Consequences of Waiting

Fury and Frustration

Avoiding Drama in Recovery

Wife’s Defense: She Couldn’t Have Known ‍♀️

Wife’s Lack of Empathy Puts Husband’s Health at Risk

This poor husband had to endure months of illness and dismissal from his wife before finally discovering he had a kidney infection. His wife’s insistence that he was exaggerating his symptoms and her refusal to let him see a doctor could have had severe consequences. Now, he’s recovering for a third time, and their relationship is strained. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA. Wife lacks sympathy and values vacation over partner’s health

Wife dismisses husband’s illness, but commenters agree she’s the a**hole.

Debating the validity of ‘man flu’ and its sexist connotations

NTA for cancelling appointment due to wife’s berating. Kidney infections can be deadly. OP should reconsider spouse support.

Wife’s emotional abuse led to husband’s illness being dismissed.

Wife dismisses husband’s illness, refuses to apologize. AH or NAH?

Ignoring your spouse’s opinion on your health? NTA, but…

Dismissal of husband’s illness as ‘man flu’ leads to gaslighting accusation.

Don’t let anyone dismiss your health concerns, even your spouse.

Supportive partner dismissed as ‘man flu’ – NTA needs validation.

Don’t let anyone dismiss your symptoms or bully you.

Don’t mess with a man’s health, especially if you’re not an expert!

“Manning up” argument is outdated. NTA for dismissing man flu.

Engage in a conversation about how to handle illness better

Reader questions if wife’s behavior is due to past ‘man flu’ incidents.

Don’t let anyone invalidate your health! It could be dangerous

Victim-blamed for being gaslit about ‘man flu’. NTA.

Partner dismisses illness, but marriage can recover.

Don’t let anyone dismiss your illness, even if you’re a man . Dump her!

NTA. Don’t dismiss someone’s pain or symptoms. Could she be poisoning you?

Commenter suggests leaving spouse after dismissive behavior

Commenter sympathizes with husband’s illness and condemns wife’s behavior.

A savage yet humorous response to a dismissive wife.

Validating ‘Man Flu’ experiences and condemning callous behavior.

Employee discouraged from taking sick leave, wife dismisses illness.

Partner’s support is crucial in tough times

Spouse dismisses husband’s illness as ‘man flu’ , but he needs support

Mother’s dismissal of child’s pain could be dangerous

Wife dismisses husband’s illness as ‘man flu’ and cancels doctor’s appointment. NTA.

Gender bias in illness dismissal. Wife puts husband at risk.

Don’t dismiss symptoms. A kidney infection turned out to be cancer.

Neglectful wife dismisses husband’s illness as ‘man flu’

Prioritize your health, don’t let her excuse her behavior.

Assertive response to wife’s dismissive behavior. NTA.

Commenter questions the love in a dismissive marriage.

When ‘man flu’ turns out to be serious, who’s the a**hole? ‍♂️

Commenter suggests punishment for dismissive wife.

Spouse dismisses illness as ‘man flu’, denies partner’s feelings. NTA!

Supportive comment calls out wife’s behavior as terrible

Dismissal of illness leads to marital distance and apology demand.

Don’t let anyone dismiss your health, even if it’s ‘man flu’

Dismissive wife almost causes husband lifelong medical issues.

Don’t underestimate a fever, hope you recover soon

Commenter sympathizes with sick man and criticizes wife’s sexism.

Commenter calls out wife’s bullying and lack of accountability. NTA.

Partner’s dismissal of illness leads to serious health consequences. NTA.

Breaking the ‘man flu’ stereotype, confusion ensues.

Partner dismisses illness as ‘man flu’, NTA for feeling unheard.

Validating your partner’s illness is crucial for a healthy relationship

Trust your instincts: a dismissed illness turned out to be cancer.

Don’t let anyone dismiss your health concerns. NTA

Don’t let anyone dismiss your pain. NTA

Commenter blames husband for not seeking medical help earlier.

Defending the husband against unfair dismissal with NTA.

Empathetic comment supports husband’s illness and condemns toxic masculinity.

Shocking! Wife dismisses husband’s illness as ‘man flu’

Commenter defends NTA verdict and criticizes wife’s behavior

Staying home is the best choice, even if it’s just flu

Gaslighting accusations in comment section spark heated debate.

Chronic illness dismissed as ‘man flu’ by unsympathetic spouse

Spouse prioritizes vacation over sick partner’s health. NTA.