Weddings can be a source of joy, but they can also bring out the worst in people. Our bride-to-be is in a pickle after deciding not to invite her uncle’s girlfriend, Sandy, and her 12-year-old daughter, Amy, to her wedding. With a history of family drama and a Thanksgiving Zoom call that went haywire, the bride is left questioning her decision. Let’s dive into this family feud and see if she’s in the wrong.
Meet Sandy and Amy
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Family Photos Fiasco
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Grandma vs. Sandy
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Sandy’s Stalking Saga ️♀️
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Pharmacy Coincidence?
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Thanksgiving Zoom Call
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Sandy and Amy Crash the Party
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Tantrums and Accusations
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Not an Open Relationship?
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Grandma’s Savage Response
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All Hell Breaks Loose
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The Big Question
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Bride-to-Be’s Dilemma: Right or Wrong?
With a history of family drama, our bride-to-be is left questioning her decision to not invite her uncle’s girlfriend, Sandy, and her daughter, Amy, to her wedding. After a Thanksgiving Zoom call that went haywire, the bride is torn between keeping the peace and standing her ground. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Uncle’s girlfriend drama: NTA, but uncle’s taste is questionable

Set your boundaries and get a good bouncer

NTA. Family drama at its finest. Sandy and Amy are troublemakers

Uncle’s girlfriend uninvited from wedding, commenters enjoy the drama

Zoom wedding drama with uninvited guest, Sandy. NTA wins.

Disinvite the uncle too? Wedding drama ensues

Confusing family dynamics revealed in comment and reply.

Setting boundaries for wedding guests, NTA for uninviting girlfriend

NTA. Grandma is a saint for speaking everyone’s mind.

Uncle’s side piece drama at the wedding
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Grandma’s Bronx attitude wins the internet, no chill indeed

Uncle’s girlfriend, still married, uninvited from wedding. Dumpster fire

Wedding drama! Commenter defends uninviting uncle’s girlfriend & kid.

NTA. Family shouldn’t let the uncle’s girlfriend ruin events. Concern for cousins.

Commenter believes OP is not at fault.

Uncle’s girlfriend uninvited from wedding for crossing family boundaries
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Commenter defends OP’s decision to not invite uncle’s mistress and her kid.
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Set boundaries and keep the wedding location undisclosed to avoid drama

Amidst wedding drama, commenter finds entertainment in dysfunctional family dynamics

Don’t let the drama llama ruin your big day #NTA

Wedding drama and family bullying. NTA rescinds invites, regrets decisions.

Grandma shuts down drama, Sandy shouldn’t be a parent

Wedding drama averted with uninvited unpleasant guests. NTA.

Grandmothers know best, NTA for uninviting uncle’s girlfriend and kid

Bride stands up for herself and sets boundaries. NTA

Family estrangement revealed in comment and reply

Avoiding family drama: when NTA means staying away from dysfunction.

Commenter sympathizes with Amy, but OP is not the a**hole

Confused commenter reacts to wild wedding drama

Beware of uninvited guests at your wedding, consider security measures

Hilarious yet unbelievable situation, commenter is NTA

Commenter finds humor in the situation, supports OP’s actions.
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Confident NTA comment sparks confusion among readers

Wedding guest list drama? You have the final say!

Grandma is a legend! NTA for not wanting drama at wedding

Grandma’s savage response to wedding drama wins hearts ❤️

NTA calls out uncle’s infidelity, hilariously shuts him down.

Avoiding Sandy’s wedding drama with a not-the-a**hole attitude

Creative solution proposed for uninvited guests at wedding

Uncle’s girlfriend and her husband’s benefits questioned

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation, predicts potential drama.

Grandma knows best! NTA for avoiding unnecessary wedding drama

Pro tip for Zoom weddings: control who can rejoin!

Uncle’s girlfriend is still married and living with husband? Drama ensues. NTA

Sensible advice on dealing with uncle’s girlfriend drama

Grandma’s a badass and Sandy’s not family, NTA

Avoid Sandy, she’s a sh!tshow

New girlfriend and kid uninvited from wedding, commenter supports OP.
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Wedding drama! NTA for uninviting uncle’s girlfriend and kid

Family drama and toxicity. Is it time for distancing?

Uncle’s entitled girlfriend causes wedding drama and stalking grandma? Yikes!
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Grandma saves the day! NTA for standing up to family drama


Boundaries set for wedding guest list, uncle unhappy. NTA wins.

Take control of the situation and set boundaries with uncle.

Avoid the chaos. NTA. Poor Amy needs therapy.
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Auntzilla uninvites girlfriend and child from wedding. NTA claps back.

Grandma shines as NTA, Sandy’s a menace & bad mom

Wedding drama: Uninvited guests and family tensions

Grandma’s wedding brings happiness, not drama. NTA wins.

Grandma’s inheritance is off-limits, NTA wins this round
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Grandma’s savage response to wedding drama earns praise.
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Uncle’s creepy girlfriend is uninvited from wedding

Uncle’s girlfriend and her kid uninvited. NTA wins!

Heartfelt concern for child’s distress in family drama

Uncle’s girlfriend uninvited from wedding: NTA wins the day

Uncle’s girlfriend and kid uninvited – commenter not at fault

NTA comment and replies provide an entertaining hot mess
