Imagine being invited to a family pool party, only to be asked to cover up your body because of your past. That’s exactly what happened to one trans man when he attended his sister’s BBQ. Excited for a day of fun in the sun, he had no idea that his sister would make a shocking request that would leave him hurt and upset. Let’s dive into this heart-wrenching story…
A Fun-Filled Family BBQ

Unexpected Guests

A Shocking Request

Trans Man’s Battle ️⚧️

Invisible Scars

Double Standards

Hidden Truths

Just Go With It?

Soured Mood

Confused Goodbyes

Ask My Sister

Parents’ Fury

Hurt and Unintentional Consequences

The Price of Acceptance
In a world where acceptance should be the norm, this trans man found himself facing a hurtful request from his own sister. After being asked to cover up his post-surgery scars at a family pool party, he felt hurt, angry, and unwelcome. His decision to leave the gathering caused a ripple effect, with his parents also leaving in support and anger. Now, his sister blames him for ruining the day, but was he really in the wrong for standing up for himself? Let’s see what the internet thinks about this situation…
Trans man not at fault for sister’s ruined BBQ

Trans man stands up to transphobia at pool party ♂️

Respectful response to transphobic discrimination with supportive parents

Trans man celebrates rite of passing, gets kicked out. NTA

Supportive comment from a fellow trans person.

Sister’s insecurities ruined the party, not the trans man.

Supportive comment and seeking education on trans terminology

Trans man shares helpful tip and called NTA for sister’s transphobia

Trans man kicked out of pool party, sister’s in-laws to blame

Trans man’s pool party dilemma: to swim shirtless or not?

Trans man stands up for himself against sister’s transphobia

Trans man’s shirtless ban at pool party sparks NTA support ️

Supportive comment receives praise for defending trans man

Supportive comment with no replies. NTA for feeling hurt

Support for not policing others’ reactions to trans man’s shirtlessness.

Be proud of who you are! NTA handled it well.

Trans man rightfully defends himself against insensitive request

Supportive comment defending trans man’s right to be shirtless.

Trans man receives support after being kicked out of pool party

NTA wins with a piece of work sister

Insecurity and prejudice have no place at a pool party ♂️
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Standing up to bigotry with class.

Supportive comment from fellow trans person.

Trans commenter supports OP, calls out sister’s transphobia

Trans community supports man kicked out of pool party for being shirtless
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Embrace your body and scars, forget about others’ opinions
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Victim-blaming accusation sparks heated debate

Gender norms questioned in pool party incident ♂️

Supportive comment condemns transphobia at pool party

Trans man respectfully handles discrimination, exposes rude behavior

Sister kicks out trans man, blames him for ruining BBQ

Supportive parent defends trans child from hurtful discrimination

Defending son’s scars from school’s discrimination

Supportive comment, glad parents defended trans son, hope for sister’s apology

Trans man unfairly kicked out of pool party for being shirtless. NTA.

NTA. Shoutout to supportive parents who left in solidarity

NTA defends against sister’s actions at pool party

Trans man stands up to transphobia at sister’s BBQ

Unapologetic NTA stands up to in-laws’ transphobia
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Supportive comment on being kicked out of a pool party ♂️

Trans man praised for standing up to transphobic in-law

Supportive comment receives agreement from others.

Accusing sister of being transphobic. Glad dad supports OP.

Supportive comment. Praising OP’s parents and condemning sister’s behavior.

Trans man stands up to sister’s body-shaming. NTA

Empathetic comment supports trans man’s investment in top surgery

Supportive comment about trans man’s sister being terrible

Supportive comment encourages OP to be himself and not apologize

Sister’s selfishness and transphobia exposed, commenter angry and supportive

Supportive comment defends trans man’s right to be shirtless

Sibling exclusion backfires. Parents support trans son. NTA wins.

Trans man not the a**hole for being kicked out of party.

Supportive parents help trans son overcome sister’s hurtful comment

Body positivity wins! Supportive parents and self-love

Body shaming at a pool party? NTA for standing up!

In-laws used as an excuse for transphobia? Not cool

NTA, family drama and transphobia. Glad you’re being yourself

Sister’s behavior at pool party gets called out. NTA wins.

Supportive comment applauds parents and condemns sister’s transphobia.

Trans man stands up to sister’s transphobia at family gathering

Supportive comment for trans man kicked out of pool party

Sister’s lies exposed at BBQ, commenter says NTA

Trans man faces transphobia from in-laws, sister should apologize

Supportive comment with strong language against transphobia.

Trans person shares their experience of transphobia from their sister.
