Thanksgiving is a time for family, food, and fun – but what happens when a seemingly innocent movie choice brings up painful memories? One woman found herself in this exact predicament, as her in-laws insisted on watching ‘Love Actually’ during their annual holiday gathering. With the wounds of her husband’s recent infidelity still fresh, she made the tough decision to leave the celebration early. But did she make the right choice? ♀️✨
The In-Laws’ Tradition

SIL’s Obsession with Tradition

The Painful Backstory

This Year’s Movie Choice ️

Shot Down, But Understanding

A Tough Decision

Husband’s Response

Leaving the Gathering

SIL’s Suspicion

Home Alone

SIL’s Texts

A Simple Response

Doubts and Triggers

Working on It

Family Secrets

A Difficult Choice Amid Family Traditions ️
Caught between her own emotional triggers and her in-laws’ beloved holiday tradition, our protagonist made the difficult decision to leave early, citing a vague excuse. Her sister-in-law’s suspicions led to a series of texts questioning her actions, but she maintained her privacy. While the woman wonders if she should have simply endured the movie for the sake of family harmony, the reality is that healing takes time, and sometimes, self-care needs to come first. ♀️ Let’s see what people think about this delicate situation…
OP’s husband should have supported her instead of throwing her under the bus. NTA
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Husband’s infidelity causes drama during Christmas movie choice. NTA.

NTA for leaving Thanksgiving celebration over ‘Love Actually’, but SIL misunderstood
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NTA. Hubby needs to back up OP and clear her reputation.
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Standing up for yourself and your boundaries, NTA

Don’t let him make you own his infidelity.

NTA stands firm against SIL’s drama over ‘Love Actually’

Commenter defends not sharing partner’s infidelity with family.

Navigating family drama during the holidays

OP’s husband could have been more supportive and understanding

Spouse plays martyr over ‘Love Actually’, leaving wife to go.
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Setting boundaries with passive-aggressive in-laws. NTA wins.

SIL’s need for control ruins Thanksgiving, NTA for leaving early ♀️

Commenter seeks context on infidelity and marriage struggles.

Husband’s the AH for not leaving with her over movie

Woman leaves Thanksgiving over ‘Love Actually’; commenters support her decision ❤️

Woman leaves Thanksgiving celebration over ‘Love Actually’. Husband silent. NTA.

SIL values tradition due to a past loss. NAH, except husband.

Agreeing with the commenter’s NTA verdict and humorous reply.

Honesty is the best policy. NTA for leaving.

Supportive comment calls out husband’s behavior and encourages self-worth

Husband’s lack of support leads to Thanksgiving drama. NTA.

Empowering comment about respecting oneself and leaving toxic relationships.

Skipping a movie shouldn’t ruin Thanksgiving. NTA


Supportive comment advises standing up to overstepping SIL




Honesty is the best policy: NTA for leaving Thanksgiving celebration.

Husband’s family unaware of counseling, NTA for leaving celebration.
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Setting boundaries is important, even during the holidays

Don’t be painted as the monster. NTA.

Spouse’s inaction causes Thanksgiving drama. NTA, but husband is. ♀️

Mature response to tactless SIL at Thanksgiving celebration

Movie plot debate sparks civil discussion, NTA verdict stands

Validating and empathizing with commenter’s experience.

Supportive comment praises OP’s strength and resilience

Husband needs to step up and explain. Also, Love Actually?
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Cheating husband’s reputation is not your responsibility. NTA

Being honest with his family is reasonable and fair.

SIL’s movie choice causes Thanksgiving drama, but truth untold.

In-laws blame woman for leaving Thanksgiving celebration over ‘Love Actually’ , but commenter says NTA and advises husband to manage the situation better.

Don’t protect his cheating, time for a family sit down!


Engaging in-law drama, infidelity and secrets uncovered ♀️

NTA for leaving Thanksgiving celebration over ‘Love Actually’. SIL is AH.

Commenter asks for clarification on ‘Love Actually’ adultery scenes.

Husband’s lack of support causes Thanksgiving drama

Commenter sympathizes with woman who left in-laws’ Thanksgiving celebration

Advice for setting boundaries at uncomfortable events

Husband’s Love Actually choice ruins Thanksgiving, leaves wife looking bad

Setting boundaries with pushy in-laws during Thanksgiving

Standing up for oneself against rude in-laws.

SIL acting weird? NTA for leaving Thanksgiving celebration.

Woman defends leaving Thanksgiving celebration over movie choice. NTA

Supportive comment defends woman’s decision to leave in-laws’ Thanksgiving celebration.

Dealing with annoying in-laws and keeping secrets ♀️

Avoiding movies that trigger bad memories – NTA’s solution

Supportive comment encourages better communication and boundaries with in-laws.
