Family drama alert! Buckle up, folks, because we’ve got a doozy of a story for you today. Our protagonist, the ever-hopeful older sibling, had high hopes for a blossoming brotherly bond when they moved to the same city as their younger bro. But oh, how those dreams were dashed! From being left out of the wedding party to being served allergy-inducing cookies, it’s been one disappointment after another. Now, with Thanksgiving on the horizon, our hero faces a tough decision: face the awkwardness head-on or opt-out altogether? Let’s dive in and see how this family fiasco unfolds!
Family Ties Unraveling?

Brotherly Bond or Bust? ♂️

Visions of Brotherly Bonding Dashed

Feelings Hurt, Expectations Lowered

Wedding Woes: No Party for You!

Surprise! It’s a Wedding Party After All!

The Mystery of the Mismatched Ties ️♂️

Shock and Awe: The Nonexistent Wedding Party Appears!

Left Out and Left Behind

Out-of-Body Experience at the Wedding

Picture Perfect? More Like Picture Pathetic

No Cookies for You!

Dessert Disappointment: Not Even a Warning

✉️ The Boundary-Setting Letter

Thanksgiving Troubles: To Go or Not to Go?

Sibling Showdown: The Thanksgiving Dilemma!
Well, well, well… it looks like our protagonist is caught between a rock and a hard place! After being left out of their brother’s wedding in the most brutal way possible , they’re now faced with the prospect of a Thanksgiving dinner that’s sure to be more awkward than a middle school dance. To make matters worse, the newlyweds are bringing reinforcements in the form of friends, leaving our hero feeling outnumbered and out of place. So, what’s a sibling to do? Grin and bear it for the sake of family harmony, or take a stand and opt-out of the festivities altogether? It’s a tough call, but one thing’s for sure: this Thanksgiving is going to be anything but boring! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this family drama…
Sister considers skipping Thanksgiving after wedding snub

Brother lied, OP forcing relationship, letter was petty. ESH

Savage but true: commenter calls out OP’s entitlement and need for therapy
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Petty family drama over missing gold tie at wedding. ESH.

Harsh but honest comment suggests therapy for hurtful wedding snub.

♂️ OP’s entitlement is off the charts, YTA.

NTA for not going but YTA for dramatic behavior ♀️

User calls out sister for expecting too much from brother.

Don’t skip Thanksgiving, bring a friend as a buffer

User gently calls out OP’s entitlement and lack of effort

Sibling drama: Should she skip Thanksgiving over a wedding snub?

Let it go! YTA for holding a grudge

Accepting your brother’s disinterest is hard, but necessary. NTA

Sibling rift over wedding snub – advice for reconciliation

Don’t skip Thanksgiving over a small bridal party snub

Sibling drama at its finest. YTA with a fragile ego.

Stop being petty and selfish, YTA. It’s not about you. ♀️

Soft ESH verdict with advice for polite Thanksgiving visit

Don’t miss Thanksgiving with your parents over this. YTA

User suggests the sister’s actions are bordering on AH territory.

Sibling’s hurtful wedding snub and family drama – YTA territory

Harsh but fair reply, Thanksgiving drama is not worth it
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Not close with brother, gold tie/blue tie snub not surprising

Harsh but fair. Setting boundaries over not being a groomsman? ♂️

ESH, but OP’s pain is understandable. Family drama sucks.

NTA for feeling hurt and lied to about wedding party.

Sibling feud over wedding snub escalates to Thanksgiving drama

Don’t let hurt feelings ruin family relationships on Thanksgiving

Let go of entitlement over his wedding day

Blood doesn’t always mean family, move on and enjoy Thanksgiving

Sibling drama at its finest YTA gets called out

Ouch! Harsh YTA comment, but maybe they have a point?

Brother’s wedding isn’t about you. Don’t make it selfish. ESH/YTA.

Sometimes it’s okay to skip family events

OP is called out for expecting too much and being childish

Siblings not friends, NAH. Going to Thanksgiving is your choice. ♀️

Judgment leans towards YTA, but ESH for lying about it.

Don’t be a controlling sibling, let your brother live his life ♀️

Brother’s wedding isn’t about you. Overreaction justifies lying. YTA

Brother didn’t invite him to wedding party, commenter calls him sensitive.

User calls out sister for being a huge A H for expecting brother to exclude his own wedding party and skips Thanksgiving. No replies.

Respectful perspective: NAH. Attend if you want, skip if not.

Opting out of Thanksgiving and giving reasons is passive-aggressive. ♀️

“I wouldn’t treat him that way” is not a valid standard

A commenter shares their personal experience and calls out OP’s behavior. YTA ♀️

Wedding snub or not, YTA for considering skipping Thanksgiving.

A commenter thinks the sister is acting like a drama queen

Communication is key in resolving family conflicts

NTA. Your feelings are valid, but consider letting it go.

Harsh comment shuts down hurt sister’s valid feelings.

Don’t write angry letters, you may regret it later

Don’t ruin Thanksgiving over perceived slights, focus on family

Confused commenter calls out sister’s entitled behavior with sarcasm

A harsh but fair judgement of a brother’s entitled behavior

User calls out commenter for being absent in brother’s life. YTA

Sibling advised to be the bigger person and communicate calmly

Take responsibility for your own relationship, don’t blame your brother

Sibling feud escalates over wedding snub and relationship expectations. ESH.

Sibling wedding drama: No entitlement to be in wedding party

Let it go! ♀️ Move on and don’t be embarrassed. YTA.

NTA, but communication could have been better

Sibling advises against sister’s Thanksgiving boycott over non-wedding invite

Rekindling the relationship is better than skipping Thanksgiving

Verdict is YTA, but context of brother’s wedding is unclear

Sibling rivalry and unresolved issues lead to holiday tension ♀️
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Sulking at brother’s wedding, then blaming him for dessert? YTA.

Engage with friends who make effort, not just lip service

Don’t ruin Thanksgiving over a wedding snub. Soft YTA.

Brother’s hurtful snub leads to Thanksgiving drama. NTA for opting out

Thanksgiving drama with a deceitful brother who lied about groomsmen.

Grow up and stop making the wedding about you

Confused commenter questions groom’s odd behavior at wedding reception
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User thinks sister is the a**hole for considering skipping Thanksgiving

Hurtful wedding snub stings, but family isn’t always blood.

Sibling advises brother to let go of hurtful wedding snub ✨

Advice on rebuilding brotherly bond and attending Thanksgiving with family.

Managing expectations and communication is key in sibling relationships.
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Wedding drama leads to ESH verdict and strained family relationships.
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Entitled OP feels hurt by brother’s forgetfulness, but should maturely discuss it at Thanksgiving.

Harsh but fair comment shuts down OP’s wedding drama.

Don’t miss out on making new memories over a wedding snub

Boundary-setting backfires: Commenter calls out OP for being TA.

Sibling bond is important, it’s okay to feel hurt

OP expresses disappointment in ESH ruling, calls for honesty

Sister is told she’s in the wrong for feeling hurt

Brother innocent, soft YTA for assuming and considering skipping

Sister called out for childish behavior, YTA or not?

Therapy might help cope with hurtful situations. Don’t hold grudges.
