A family is left in turmoil after the tragic death of a sibling. The mother, unable to cope with the loss, spends most of her time in bed, leaving her teenage children to care for her and their younger brother. As the family struggles to adapt, the teenagers begin to question their mother’s love for them.
The Family’s Situation

Tragic Loss

Mom’s Struggle

Limited Communication ️

Encouraging Mom

Sister’s Support

Argument with Sister

Loss of a Son vs. Loss of a Brother

Understanding Pain

Therapy Option

Clarification

Summary: Family Struggles to Cope with Loss ️
After the tragic death of their sibling, two teenagers are left to care for their grieving mother and younger brother. The mother, unable to cope with the loss, spends most of her time in bed, leaving her children to handle daily tasks. The teenagers begin to question their mother’s love for them, leading to arguments and discussions about therapy. As the family struggles to adapt, they must find a way to support each other and heal. Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments below.
Family struggles with grief and mental health, needs professional help

Mother needs professional help for depression. Kids need temporary care.

NAH – Teen struggles to care for grieving mom in depressive state.

Teenagers shoulder adult burden after sibling’s death, neglectful mother, grieving father.

Family struggles to care for grieving mom. NAH suggests professional help.
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Compassionate replies offer support for struggling family dealing with grief

Teen works hard to support family amidst grief. NAH.

Teens should not have to take care of grieving mother.

Suggesting a solution for a struggling family

Suggesting living with dad to help grieving mom.
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Commenter suggests seeking help for neglectful grieving mother.

Suggests living with dad to ease mom’s grief and stress
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Heartfelt comment offers advice for grieving family struggling with neglectful mother

Concerned commenter questions supervision of grieving family

Encourage your mom to seek grief counseling for support.

Heartbreaking story of loss and grief. Encouraging therapy and communication.

Teen suggests staying with dad due to mom’s behavior
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Compassionate reply suggests seeking help for struggling mother

Commenter advises seeking professional help for grieving mother and family.

Commenter empathizes with grieving mom, suggests intervention for children’s well-being.

Teen struggles with grieving mom, calls out adults for inaction

Teenagers left to fend for themselves after sibling’s death

Commenter suggests seeking help for depressed mom struggling to parent.

Supportive comment suggests practical solutions for struggling family

Encouraging comment suggests therapy for grieving mom to help family cope.

Encourage mom to seek professional help for deep depression.

Teen shares personal experience and suggests solution for neglected siblings.

Commenter expresses concern for family’s well-being and suggests calling CPS.

Teenagers struggle to care for grieving mom. NTA suggests talking to dad or CPS.

Grieving mother’s responsibility to care for children. NTA

Compassionate comment offers hope for family in grief

Helping a grieving parent is tough, but necessary.

Teenagers left to care for 8-year-old sibling after tragic loss

Parent shares experience of losing a child and being a mom.

Validating feelings in times of grief

Recognizing the severity of their mother’s depression, family copes together.

A helpful comment on seeking therapy for a grieving family.

Helpful advice on coping with grief after losing a sibling

Suggesting grief counseling for overwhelmed mom.

Pushing past pain to care for loved ones after tragedy.

Teenagers struggle to care for neglectful grieving mom

Encourage your mom to seek therapy to be a functional parent

Commenter suggests professional help for grieving mom, offers support.

Teenagers left to care for grieving mom, but not the a**hole

Encouraging response to a struggling teenager’s family situation

Sharing condolences and advice for a grieving family member.

Compassionate response to grieving family’s tragedy
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Victim of manipulative grieving mother? Here’s how to cope.

Heartfelt comment offers support and advice to struggling teenager

Parent’s responsibility to care for dependents, even in grief.

Comment suggests calling CPS/CAS for unfit parent due to neglect.

Commenter shares personal experience and calls out selfish behavior

Commenter expresses concern for neglected children, advises seeking help

Financially challenged? Free mental health care is available. NTA.

Teenagers need help caring for grieving mom

Advice on grieving and therapy after losing a loved one

Encouraging comment urges grieving mom to take responsibility
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Compassionate response to grieving teenager’s comment.

Supportive comment about grief and therapy for family’s healing

Encouraging comment suggests therapy for struggling mother and children.

Encouraging empathy and suggesting solutions for a struggling family

Commenter criticizes parent for failing to support grieving children.

Commenter suggests seeking full custody due to unfit mother.

Heartfelt comment about coping with loss and supporting family

Commenter deemed ‘not the a**hole’ in family tragedy

Sibling’s death leaves family in turmoil, but NTA commenter suggests professional help.

Commenter suggests grief counseling for struggling mother.

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s loss and family struggles.

It’s okay to need support as a child. NTA

Supporting a grieving parent is tough, but you’re doing right
