Living with a parent’s new partner can be tough, but what happens when they exclude you from a treat? A 17-year-old girl is feeling left out after her dad’s girlfriend bought her daughter a Starbucks drink and cake pops, but not her. Is it wrong to feel upset in this situation? Read on to find out more about the situation and decide for yourself: is she the a**hole?
Excluded teen shares living experience with dad’s girlfriend’s family

Struggling to adjust to living with dad’s girlfriend and her kid

Teen reluctantly joins dad’s girlfriend and her daughter for outing

Dad’s girlfriend spoils her daughter while excluding his own.

Daughter excluded from outing; receives no treat from dad’s girlfriend ☕

Excluded from treats, teen left hurt and unappreciated

Teen feels excluded from dad’s girlfriend’s special outing

Feeling excluded from dad’s girlfriend’s outing, AITA for being annoyed?

Teen feels excluded by dad’s girlfriend during special outing
Living with a step-family can be tough, especially when you feel excluded from special events. One teen recently shared her experience of feeling left out by her dad’s girlfriend during a girls’ day out with her step-sister. Despite agreeing to go along, the girlfriend ended up spending all the money on the younger daughter and left the 17-year-old feeling upset and forgotten. While she acknowledges that she isn’t entitled to the same rewards as her step-sister, she can’t help feeling a little annoyed. Now, she’s wondering if she’s in the wrong for feeling this way. What do you think? Is she overreacting or does she have a right to feel hurt? Share your thoughts and advice in the comments below.
Stepmom’s treatment of stepdaughter at coffee shop sparks outrage.

Commenters support OP and question dad’s reaction to GF’s excuses ☕

Daughter excluded from ‘special reward day’ with dad’s girlfriend.

NTA for telling dad, gf only rewarded her own daughter

Dad’s GF excludes teen from outing, gets kicked out. NTA.

Dad’s girlfriend excluded her, but didn’t spend any money on her

You did the right thing Keep communicating with your dad

Dad’s girlfriend in trouble for excluding daughter from outing. NTA wins!

Dad’s girlfriend excluding teen from outing – NTA and hoping for update

GF excludes daughter from outing funded by dad. NTA commenters console.

Dad’s girlfriend excluded teen from outing, commenters agree she’s TA

Stepmom excludes daughter from outing, dad needs to intervene ⚠️

Dad’s girlfriend gets caught being an entitled brat

Dad’s girlfriend excludes teen from outing, commenters side with daughter

Dad’s girlfriend planned a day for her and her daughter, but dad wanted OP included. Dad is slightly AH for forcing a relationship. GF is AH for excluding OP.

Dad’s GF excluded teen from outing, NTA, dad may stop funding.

Dad’s response to exclusion from outing questioned. NTA stands.
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Protect your financial and emotional stability. Talk to your dad.

Dad’s girlfriend is not a stepmother, and she’s not being kind

Dad’s girlfriend is definitely the a**hole in this story

Teen feels excluded from outing with dad’s girlfriend and her daughter.
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Stepmother’s exclusion is awful. Hope dad believes and acts.
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Relatable teen feels excluded by dad’s girlfriend

Commenters agree: dad’s girlfriend was extremely rude ♀️

Father kicks out girlfriend and daughter, makes things right with OP ❤️

Dad’s girlfriend excludes teen from outing, commenters side with teen

Exclusion from outing and basic needs is unacceptable. NTA.
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Harsh but relatable, internet strangers judge dad’s girlfriend

Dad’s girlfriend excludes daughter from Girls Day Out, gets called out ♀️

Dad takes action after GF excludes daughter from outing

Don’t let her bamboozle your dad

Dad’s girlfriend excludes daughter from outing, internet calls her AH

Curious if dad’s girlfriend excluded teen intentionally or just clueless

Supportive comment suggests solo time for upset teen.

Dad’s girlfriend excluded daughter from outing, commenter supports daughter’s frustration.

Supportive single mom advises OP to communicate with dad and mom ❤️

Dad’s girlfriend excludes daughter from outing; commenters call her cruel

Dad’s girlfriend excludes daughter from outing, commenters support daughter’s feelings.

Commenter defends OP, calls out dad’s girlfriend and daughter

Step-mom crosses the line: commenters share their support ❤️

Excluded from outing by dad’s girlfriend, OP advised to move out.

Curious commenter seeks update on excluded teen’s situation

Blended family drama: Teen excluded from outing, mom disgusted

Supportive commenter sympathizes with excluded teen and slams selfish girlfriend
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Supportive comment, empathizes with teenager’s situation. Encourages talking to dad.

Excluding a teen from outing and showing favoritism is rude

Protective dad calls out evil step-mother behavior

Commenter empathizes with upset teen over exclusion by dad’s girlfriend
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Dad’s girlfriend excludes teen, comment suggests power dynamic shift.

Deserving of a treat for dealing with their asses.

Daughter exposes dad’s girlfriend for excluding her from outing

Dad’s GF spends $300 on her daughter, excludes teen – NTA

Dad’s girlfriend excludes teen from outing despite $300 payment

Dad’s girlfriend excluded teen from celebration, NTA but dad was boneheaded

Dad’s GF excludes teen from treat, gets rewarded herself ♀️

Heartbreaking story of a selfish woman putting herself first
