Losing a loved one is never easy, especially when it’s a sibling. This 18-year-old girl is struggling with her mother’s attempts to ‘replace’ her late brother with a new baby. After her brother’s tragic death, the girl’s family life took a turn for the worse – her father left, and her mother’s behavior changed dramatically. Now, her mother is planning to have a baby with her girlfriend, and the daughter is convinced they’re trying to replace her brother. She’s even threatened not to come home if they go through with it.
The Best Brother in the World

From Best Mom to Strict or Careless

Cranking Up the Heat

Therapy Sessions: The Only Normal Time ️

A New Baby on the Horizon?

Choosing a Donor Based on Late Brother’s Looks?

Naming the Baby After the Late Brother?

You Can’t Replace My Brother!

Mom’s Freak Out

The Missing Book

Burning Dad’s Picture ️

An Emotional Ultimatum

Mom’s Anger and Tears

Confusion and Guilt

A Family Torn Apart by Grief
This heart-wrenching story of a family torn apart by grief has left many speechless. The 18-year-old girl is struggling to cope with her mother’s erratic behavior and the prospect of a new baby ‘replacing’ her late brother. With her mother’s anger and tears, the girl is left feeling confused and guilty. Will this family ever find peace and healing? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotional rollercoaster…
Mother’s irrational behavior could traumatize new child, get help ASAP

Mother’s inappropriate behavior is not your responsibility. NTA.

A difficult situation. OP is scared to leave, mom needs therapy. NAH.

Address concerning behaviors in therapy sessions with professional present

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation and criticizes mother’s behavior.

Supportive commenters suggest seeking help for mother’s behavior

Replacing a late sibling with a new child? That’s concerning

Compassionate response to grieving teen and struggling mom

Compassionate discussion on mother’s misguided trauma response and daughter’s concern. NAH

Handling grief differently. Keep distance, bring up concerns in therapy.

Urgent advice for OP to leave and seek help immediately

Grieving mother needs therapy to cope with son’s death

Commenter congratulates and advises on great city, receives agreement.

Supportive comment suggests taking distance for college, helping mother’s grief.

Supportive comment acknowledges mother’s crisis and advises against having more kids.
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Supportive comment recommends therapy and low contact with mother.

Compassionate comment on mother’s unhealthy grieving process.

Encouraging support for a grieving teenager dealing with a difficult home life ❤️

Teen advises on how to talk to mom about replacing brother

Therapy is key. NTA for not wanting to replace a brother
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Commenter suggests mother needs psychiatric help for unhealthy grieving.

Commenter advises seeking help for mom’s behavior, questions mom’s girlfriend’s odd interests.
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Mom’s extreme grief needs therapy, not a replacement child. NTA.

Encouraging response to teen’s difficult family situation

Controversial book on cloning a deceased child sparks debate

Protect yourself from toxic family. Seek help and alternative housing.

Heartbreaking grief, but no a**holes here. Time and healing needed.

Teen refuses to come home if mom ‘replaces’ late brother

Teen’s family takes door off room, commenter suggests kidnapping sibling

Supportive advice for a teen dealing with a difficult mother.
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Protect your mental health, stay away from volatile situations

Commenter suggests mom needs help, not another child.

Setting healthy boundaries is crucial when dealing with grief

Suggest a peaceful getaway for the OP and their mom

Encouraging counseling for a grieving mother with serious mental issues

Compassionate response to tragic loss and potential adoption concerns

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation and calls for professional help.

Red flags suggest mother may be using drugs to cope. NTA.

Compassionate insight into a grieving mother’s irrational behavior. NAH

Tough love for a stubborn adult child. YTA.
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Concerned commenter suggests reporting mother’s behavior for child’s safety.

Comment suggests mom’s behavior may be due to menopause

Encourage mom to seek help for unprocessed grief. You’re NTA

Empathize with your mom’s pain, seek support from adults

Grieving teen seeks therapy, advises low contact with controlling mother.

Encourage therapy honesty, suggest psychiatry. NTA, escape toxic environment.

Support for a teen standing up against their emotionally abusive mother

Sibling loss and parental pressure. NTA comment offers empathy.

Commenter supports teen and criticizes mom’s behavior

Concerned commenter suggests mental health evaluation for grieving mother.

Empathetic comment suggests healing for grieving mother

Offering support and empathy for a grieving mother

Commenter suggests mom needs professional help during mental breakdown.
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Heartfelt condolences for OP’s loss and concern for mom’s actions.

Encouraging pushing back on toxic behavior for mental health

Don’t bring a baby into this situation

Supportive comment offers advice for dealing with difficult family dynamics.

Commenter suggests more therapy needed for grieving family, NTA verdict.

Commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests therapy for mom.

Encouraging response to a difficult situation, offering support and advice.

Montreal recommendations for a teen who deserves a break

Commenter advises OP to prioritize their safety and seek therapy.

Encourage your mom to seek help, NTA. Talk to your therapist.
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Supportive comment validates OP’s feelings and congratulates on achievements

Mother’s unhealthy grief and girlfriend’s agreement for ‘replacement son’ questioned

Mother’s grief is clouding her judgement, therapy and support needed. NAH.

Fertility clinic should consider mental stability for future children. NTA.

Supportive comment to a grieving teen.

Compassionate reply offers condolences and reassurance to grieving teenager.

Commenter calls out mother’s behavior, suggests therapy for stability
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Not the a**hole. But what’s the story behind this?

Commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests seeking professional help.

Empathetic comment advises to focus on moving out from toxic environment.

Encourage your mom to get help before having another child

Heartbreaking loss, overbearing mother, and a new baby on the way

Mother’s behavior is concerning, seek professional help immediately.

Grieving teen stands up to traumatized mom, prioritizes self-care

Toxic family dynamics? Montreal may be your escape plan



















































