Losing a parent is never easy, especially when you’re young and still trying to navigate life. For one 15-year-old girl and her 17-year-old brother, the pain of losing their mom 8 years ago was compounded by their dad’s decision to remarry just six months after her passing. The siblings have struggled to come to terms with their dad’s actions, and the tension within the family has only grown over the years. Recently, the family began attending therapy sessions to address their issues, but things took a dramatic turn when the daughter finally opened up about her feelings.
A Sudden Loss

Struggling to Move On

Family Therapy Sessions ️

Brother’s Silent Resistance

Opening Up About Anger

The Reason Behind Their Resentment

Still Holding Onto the Pain

Time Doesn’t Erase What Happened ⏰

Insulted by Their Expectations

Dad’s Reaction to the Truth

Confronting Their Dad ️

Tension and Punishment

Therapist’s Suggestion

Forced Family Bonding

Additional Notes

How Dad Met Stepmom

A One-Night Stand Turned Relationship?

A Family Torn Apart by Grief and Resentment
The teenage siblings have been struggling with their dad’s decision to remarry just six months after their mom’s sudden death. They’ve harbored resentment towards their dad and stepmom for years, feeling that they were expected to move on too quickly. When the daughter finally opened up about her feelings in a family therapy session, the tension escalated, leading to both siblings being grounded. Despite the therapist’s suggestion of individual sessions, the dad insists on continuing family therapy in an attempt to mend their fractured relationships. Will this family ever find a way to heal the wounds of the past and move forward together? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotional situation…
NTA called out dad’s abuse in therapy, got grounded for it

NTA but wow, your dad is. 6 months is crazy fast
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Father’s selfishness and demand for a ‘Happy Family’ fantasy. NTA

NTA. Grounding both of you for opening up during therapy is not helpful. Your dad’s wife should not have a say in your mental health.

NTA comment calls out dad’s flawed logic in grounding punishment

Therapist knows, but dad and stepmom are total a**holes

Brother plans to leave home at 18 due to dad’s behavior

NTA. Commenter advises seeking support outside of family and therapy.

Validating grief timelines. NTA.

Choose your family, blood doesn’t always mean family.

Step-mom and dad’s Hallmark fantasy disregarded kids’ feelings.

Commenter sympathizes with teen’s grief and criticizes dad and stepmom

Teen confronts dad about step-mom, gets grounded for honesty

Commenter calls out dad’s unfair treatment of grieving children

Teen calls out dad and stepmom for punishing them in therapy

Teen and brother plan to cut contact with dad after loss.

Therapist’s ethical obligations questioned after dad punishes kids for therapy participation.

Teen receives support for confronting dad’s reprehensible parenting

Sharing comments with dad may backfire. Handle with care

Teen seeks help but school counselor is unavailable due to Covid.

Sibling support after dad’s insensitive behavior towards mom’s death ❤️

Commenter empathizes with OP, calls out dad’s selfish behavior.

Teen’s dad grounded them for being honest. Family therapy failed
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NTA. Moving on too quickly after a loss can be tough on kids

Compassionate comment supports teen’s feelings and criticizes dad’s behavior

NTA. Commenter offers empathy and questions dad’s intentions.

Teen punished for honesty in therapy about dad’s insensitivity

Heartbreaking NTA comment about a father’s insensitivity towards his child’s grief

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation and calls out dad’s behavior.

Commenter sympathizes with OP, condemns dad’s behavior ♂️

Heartfelt support for teen dealing with insensitive dad.

Encouraging independence and standing up to controlling dad.
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Commenter questions the speed of dad’s remarriage after mom’s death

Stepmom’s control and dad’s reaction make NTA’s anger justified

Teen questions father’s quick remarriage after mom’s death. NTA.

Therapy shouldn’t involve punishment or manipulation. NTA

Teen punished for honesty in therapy. Should therapist intervene?

Stepmom too soon after mom’s death? NTA’s comment gets support.

Teen’s valid feelings invalidated by grounding for speaking up.

Compassionate commenter advises OP to help struggling brother.

35yo woman supports teen’s insight on dad’s behavior.
NTA.

Stepmother introduced too soon, dad doesn’t care about kids’ feelings

Encouraging comment suggests leaving dysfunctional home for better future

Stepmom and dad are a**holes for not considering OP’s feelings
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Therapy backfires as dad grounds teen for honesty. NTA

Supportive comment defends OP and suggests taking a break. ❤️

OP advises brother, predicts father’s future, and declares NTA.

Father moved on too fast after mom’s death, NTA comment.

Sibling may distance self from dad’s behavior.

Dad wants compliance, not understanding. NTA for speaking up

Cutting off toxic family members #NTA
