Imagine being a teenager, trying to enjoy your weekends after a long week at work, only to have them ruined by an uncontrollable, mentally disabled child that you’re not equipped to handle. That’s the reality for our protagonist, a 17-year-old girl who used to babysit this child for a measly $20 a week. As the situation spiraled out of control, she finally put her foot down, but now she’s questioning if she did the right thing. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story and find out what happened…
Babysitting Blues

Trouble Begins

Realization Strikes ⚡

Weekend Woes

Not Worth It

Mom’s Opinion

Disturbing Discovery

Enough is Enough!

Paying Rent

Mom’s Decision

A Win?

Babysitting Nightmare: Did She Go Too Far?
Our protagonist, a 17-year-old girl, used to babysit a mentally disabled child, but the situation became unbearable as he would break things, have uncontrollable breakdowns, and misplace items. Realizing she wasn’t equipped to handle him, she stopped babysitting, only for the child’s mom to move onto her 9-year-old sister, paying her even less. After witnessing a disturbing incident, our protagonist finally confronted the child’s mother and put an end to the babysitting arrangement. While she initially saw this as a win, she’s now second-guessing her decision. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotionally charged situation…
Inappropriate to ask a 9yo to babysit a special needs child
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NTA refuses to babysit disabled child, sparks ethical debate

NTA for reporting abusive situation with mentally disabled child

Underpaid babysitter bans disrespectful disabled child from home. #NTA

Teen defends decision to not babysit disabled child. NTA.

Being honest about not being equipped to babysit special needs.
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NTA warns of the dangers of the situation and criticizes irresponsible mother

Supportive comments from a tough situation. You’re doing right.

Low pay and lack of supervision justify NTA’s decision.

Seeking help might be the best option.

Compassionate response to child with special needs.

NTA suggests calling CPS regarding a dangerous situation.

17yo babysits disabled child for $20, not the a-hole
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Underpaid and disrespected by manipulative mother. NTA here.

Parenting a special needs child requires proper qualifications.

NTA for not allowing a 9-year-old to babysit a disabled child. It’s not fair to either child.

Standing up for family and fair pay while highlighting specialized care.

Teen bans mentally disabled child from home for safety concerns. NTA.

Parent of autistic child defends teen’s decision to not babysit.

Experienced babysitter suggests hiring professional for handicapped child.
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NTA. Special needs child needs special care. Dangerous situation. Put foot down.

NTA but red flags raised regarding child labor and family finances

Insightful perspective on special needs child behavior and unfair expectations.

Not obligated to take care of someone else’s kid. Completely justified.

NTA comment advises against being taken advantage of for rent money.
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Standing up for fair compensation in caretaking.

Managing behavior of disabled individuals is crucial.

Safety concerns lead to NTA verdict for banning disabled child.

NTA explains challenges of caring for special needs child.

Compassionate support for banning a dangerous situation ❤️

Caregiver’s refusal to watch mentally disabled child sparks outrage and concern.

Handling mentally-disabled children can be challenging. NTA for prioritizing safety.

Protecting family comes first. Contact CPS for professional help.

Parenting a disabled child is tough, but professional care helps. NTA.
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Compassionate response to difficult babysitting situation.

Parent of disabled child deserves support for respite care

Unfair compensation and lack of boundaries equals AH moms.

Protecting a mentally disabled child is important. NTA.

Calling out abuse and advocating for specialized care

Underpaid babysitters not equipped to care for special needs child. NTA.

User criticizes offer, deems poster not the a**hole.

NTA commenter criticizes inadequate compensation and care for disabilities.
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NTA. Child’s complex needs should be best provided by trained professionals.
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Parents should provide specialized care for their child

OP’s mom made the right call, protecting both kids. NTA

NTA. Mother was irresponsible to leave a disabled child unattended

Protecting a mentally disabled child, NTA is praised
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Underpaid teen babysitter for special needs child sparks controversy.

Standing up for disabled child, NTA and CPS suggestion

Underpaid teenager rightfully bans mom from unfair work situation. NTA
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NTA, you’re a saint . Your family isn’t equipped to care for special needs child.

Should a 9-year-old be responsible for a disabled child? NTA thinks not

NTA- OP’s refusal to babysit disabled child sparks debate.

NTA. Not trained, not paid enough. Kid needs a real caretaker.

NTA calls out neglectful parenting in a fiery comment

Underpaid babysitter refuses to watch special needs child. Sister asked instead.

NTA defends decision to ban disabled child from home.

Caring for a special needs child requires special training. NTA.

Compassionate comment calling out dangerous situation and lack of support.

Standing your ground when uncomfortable with babysitting is reasonable!

Fair pay for babysitting: NTA comment calls out robbery

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is important.

NTA. It’s important to prioritize the safety of family.

NTA for banning child, CPS should be called for professional help

Babysitting pay debate steals the spotlight from ableism discussion

NTA prioritizes well-being and safety, calls for trained professionals.
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Being a caregiver is not a child’s job. #NTA

9-year-old not equipped to handle special needs child, NTA.
