Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of love, family drama, and some seriously sparkly revenge! ✨ When two lovebirds ❤️ decide to tie the knot, they never expected their engagement ring choices to cause such a ruckus. But with a meddling brother-in-law and a dash of pettiness, things are about to get wild! Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions, because this story is going to have you questioning who’s really the a-hole in this situation!
A Tale of Two Proposals

Privileged Beginnings

Condo Life, No Kids ♀️

Dream Rings, Custom Made

BIL’s Shocking Request

Surgeon BIL’s Cheap Choice

♀️ Saying No to BIL’s Demands

The Last Straw

Fiancée’s Bleak Relationship with BIL

Petty Revenge Plan

Sending the Upgraded Ring Mockups

Are We the A-Holes?

Petty or Pretty? The Engagement Ring Showdown!
In this tale of love and revenge, our dynamic duo finds themselves in a sticky situation with the future brother-in-law. With custom rings on the horizon and a BIL who’s a bit of a cheapskate , tensions are running high! But when he has the audacity to demand they downgrade their dream rings, our couple decides to fight fire with fire… or in this case, diamonds with even bigger diamonds! The result? A petty plot that’s sure to make jaws drop and the BIL fume! Now, the internet is left to decide: are they brilliant or just a**holes? Let’s see what the masses have to say about this engagement ring showdown!
Heartfelt custom ring > cheap, thoughtless ring. NTA

Choose rings out of love, not spite for BIL. NTA

Tacky, vain, and superficial – this comment nails it

Deliberately commissioning bigger rings to spite is tacky, ESH.

NTA comment applauds pettiness, feels bad for BIL’s wife.

Petty engagement game between couple and BIL. ESH.

Lesbian couple stands up for themselves against stingy BIL

BIL’s an a-hole, but wearing spite rings was petty behavior

Petty ring upgrade turns into BIL drama. ESH.

ESH, but OP is also bragging about throwing money around
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Fake rings, real drama, and hurt feelings – everyone’s TA here

Lesbian couple shuts down surgeon BIL’s ring demand ️

Petty BIL demands cheap rings, couple shuts him down perfectly

Entitled BIL demands ring change, couple’s response is priceless

Spiting family members only makes things worse. You’re TA. ♂️

Petty BIL demands small rings, couple claps back. NTA

Lesbian couple told to get small rings, shut down brother-in-law

Upgrading rings out of spite? ESH in this ring debate.

NTA for giving a hilarious response to surgeon’s demand

Lesbian couple stands up to stingy BIL over rings
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Lesbian couple and BIL’s ring dispute leads to justified AH behavior

Get the ring you want, not what others think.

Lesbian couple called NTA for buying rings they want, TA for spite.

Upgrading rings out of spite turns into petty one-up game

Debate over small rings turns into a petty point-scoring match

Cheap ring to spite BIL, but what about poor fiancé? ESH

Petty rich people upgrade rings, BIL demands small ones. ESH.

Petty ring demands lead to immature engagement. ESH.

Laughing out loud at a surgeon’s ridiculous ring advice. NTA.

Diamond stud earrings as a proposal? NTA and perfect choice!

ESH but the real gem here is their priceless response

NTA. Couple’s unique proposal choice irks surgeon BIL. Love trumps rings.

Upgrade rings or not? NTA if not, ESH if do.

Get the biggest rings you can afford out of spite

Go big or go home! NTA’s Elizabeth Taylor-style response

Lesbian couple stands up to materialistic BIL, celebrates love

Lesbian couple stands up to pushy BIL, internet cheers. ✊ ️

Buying expensive rings is a personal choice. NTA’s response rocks!

Lesbian couple stands their ground in ring size dispute.

Don’t let anyone dictate your love or budget ❤️ #NTA

NTA comment defends lesbian couple’s ring choice, throws shade at BIL

Choose rings that make you happy, not to spite him!

Who needs a small ring when you have priceless clapbacks?

Engaged couple should not be judged for their ring choices.

Practical advice on ring choices without breaking the bank

Don’t invite the entitled BIL to the wedding

Ring budget feud between couple and BIL – ESH.

Design and buy exactly what you want. Wear them with joy

NTA. Follow your dream and be happy.

Engaged commenter advises against upgrading rings out of spite ❤️

Controlling BIL wants small rings, couple shuts him down

Custom-made rings are nice, but spending too much on them is wasteful

Choose the ring you want for YOUR relationship, not for BIL

Lesbian couple’s $300 ring trumps surgeon’s demand for small rings

Lesbian couple shuts down entitled BIL’s small ring demand

Celebrate your successes and don’t make your life smaller.

Engagement rings are about the couple, not others’ opinions.

Engaging with the sentiment, the commenter slams the groom-to-be’s distraction tactics.

BIL tries to control engagement rings, gets called out for being TA

NTA!!! Calling out a cheap, entitled BIL.

Choose your own ring, don’t let others decide for you

NTA! Both are equally petty and it’s delightful
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NTA comment calls out stingy BIL’s cheap ring choice.

BIL tries to force cheap rings on lesbian couple, gets shut down

Wedding ring drama: NTA exposes cheapskate fiance

Congratulatory comment with positive reinforcement

Lesbian couple stands up to rude BIL over engagement ring

Lesbian couple stands up to ring demands, shuts down misogyny.

NTA praised for genius response to small ring demand
