Stepsister wants me to use my late mom’s fabric for her wedding dress, AITA for say no?

A woman offered to make a wedding dress for her biological sister using their deceased mother’s fabric, but refused to do the same for her stepsister. The stepsister got upset and the woman’s father and stepmother called her begging her to let the stepsister use the fabric. The woman refused, but still offered to make the dress for her stepsister for free, using different fabric. Now she’s wondering if she’s the a**hole for not letting her stepsister use the fabric. Read on to find out!

Meet the sisters, one biological and one by marriage ‍ ‍

Choosing sides between sisters, the struggle is real

Generous offer or emotional manipulation? Family drama ensues.

Crafting a wedding dress, but who provides the fabric?

Respecting late mom’s fabric, stepsis upset, AITA?

Family pressures OP to give stepsister mom’s fabric for wedding.

Trying to help stepsister with wedding dress but met with resistance.

Making a free dress, but AITA for saying no?

Sibling rivalry over mom’s fabric for wedding dresses, discuss

Step sister wants mom’s fabric for her dress, AITA?

Wedding planning can be stressful, especially when it comes to finances. However, when one woman’s stepsister asks her to use their late mother’s fabric for her wedding dress, she hesitates. Despite offering to make a dress for her biological sister free of charge using the fabrics, the woman feels uncomfortable using the same fabric for her stepsister’s dress. This leads to tension and even calls from her stepmother and father, who are strapped for cash. Although the woman is still making the dress for free, she stands her ground and refuses to use the sentimental fabric. But is she in the wrong? Let’s take a look at the comments and reactions to see what others think of this situation.

NTA for refusing to give sentimental fabric for step-sister’s dress

NTA for refusing to use late mom’s fabric for stepsister’s dress.

NTA for denying stepsister’s request to use late mom’s fabric.

Sentimental fabric requested for wedding dress, OP stands firm.

Sentimental fabric should not be sacrificed for a budget wedding dress ✂️

Sentimental fabric for family or cost savings for wedding? #NTA

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Generous offer of free wedding dress labor not enough, NTA ‍♀️

Respecting personal boundaries, NTA for declining stepsister’s request

Preserving sentimental fabric, NTA for saying no to stepsister’s request ❤️

Stepsister wants free dress, but OP stands her ground. NTA ‍♀️

Future wedding dress fabric revenge, NTA wins the day

Preserve the precious heirloom

Crafting for entitled family members? Ain’t nobody got time for that!

Save the fabric for yourself and your future. NTA

Don’t let your stepsister take advantage of your late mom’s fabric ❤️

Clear judgement, NTA

Weddings aren’t about money, NTA for not giving fabric.

Generous offer for wedding gown, leave door open for future projects. NTA ✨

Honoring late mom’s fabric for biological sister instead. NTA ❤

Respect your mom’s wishes, step-sister.

Protect your mom’s fabric, NTA. Sister needs to respect boundaries.

Generous OP politely declines to use mom’s fabric for stepsister’s dress

Heritage fabric is not for stepsister’s wedding dress. NTA.

Family drama over wedding dress, gift $100 and move on

They don’t want compromise ‍♂️, NTA for saying no.

Preserving sentimental fabric for yourself, not entitled stepsister’s wedding.

Keep the fabric for your mother’s daughters, NTA

Keep the fabric for sentimental moments, not for stepsister’s wedding.

Respectful NTA comment defending a boundary, with a touch of skepticism

Commenter questions father’s poor behavior, gets agreement in replies

Preserve mom’s fabric, suggest alternatives, NTA.

Sewing a wedding dress is hard work. NTA for refusing.

Don’t let them guilt you into making a free, sentimental dress.

Respectful NTA refuses stepsister’s request to use late mom’s fabric

Suggest a compromise and offer to create a unique dress.

Personal fabric holds sentimental value, NTA for refusing use.

Step-siblings want to use late mother’s fabric for wedding dress, NTA for saying no ‍♀️

Wedding dress fabric doesn’t have to be expensive, NTA

Step-sister wants mom’s fabric for wedding dress, NTA for refusing

OP’s step-sister demands free heirloom fabric for wedding dress

Suggest alternatives to using mom’s fabric, NTA for saying no

Boundaries set. Case closed. ‍♀️

Protect your mom’s legacy, NTA. ‍♀️

A heartwarming gesture denied, but rightfully so ❤️

Sewing veteran advises to stand firm against entitled stepsister

NAH but stepsister’s expectations are unrealistic, offer to go fabric shopping.

Commenter wants to see dress, no drama here

Don’t let entitled stepsister use mom’s fabric for free

Refusing stepsister’s request to use late mom’s fabric for wedding

Does stepsister know it’s late mom’s fabric? Clarification needed.

Suggests using mom’s fabric for own wedding dress.

NTA for refusing to use late mom’s fabric for stepsister’s dress

NTA, offering fabric AND dressmaking is generous, don’t feel guilty

Clarify no one got a free dress and keep your materials

Don’t let anyone take away your sentimental fabric ✂️

Gifted fabric for mom’s dress shouldn’t go to stepsister’s wedding

Budget-friendly wedding dress options discussed.