Sister’s Surrogate Dilemma: A Shocking Request

Imagine agreeing to be a surrogate for your sister, only to find out that she wants you to conceive the baby in a way you never expected. That’s the situation our protagonist, let’s call her Jane, finds herself in. Her sister Alice has always wanted kids but has been unable to carry a baby to full term due to endometriosis. Alice and her husband Ben have adopted and fostered children, but now they want a biological child and asked Jane to be their surrogate. Jane agreed, expecting artificial insemination, but was shocked when they requested she get pregnant the traditional way.

Alice’s Struggle with Endometriosis

Adopting and Fostering Children

The Desire for a Biological Child

A Generous Offer

Jane’s Initial Agreement

A Shocking Request

The Traditional Way?

The Ick Factor

Second Thoughts

A Tough Decision

Edit: Out of Her Depth

To Surrogate or Not to Surrogate?

Jane is now faced with a difficult decision. Should she go back on her word and refuse to be a surrogate for her sister, or should she accept their request and get pregnant the traditional way? Her family doesn’t see anything wrong with it and has congratulated Alice on her impending baby. On the other hand, Jane can’t get over the ick factor and wonders if she’s crazy for potentially passing up a life-changing sum of money. Let’s see what people think about this controversial situation…

NTA. Commenters warn against DIY surrogacy with BIL and legal issues.

Surrogacy ≠ Sex. NTA for having boundaries.

NTA commenter condemns the disturbing request to have sex with BIL.

Surrogate asked to have sex with brother-in-law, sister approves? NTA.

A disturbing comment and replies about forced surrogacy ritual

NTA. Surrogacy is a complex process, DIY is not recommended.

Surrogacy gone wrong: NTA backs out of shocking request

BIL wants sex with OP and sister is encouraging it?

NTA commenter raises concerns about the logistics and ethical implications of surrogacy, with a Handmaid’s Tale reference. Replies explain the importance of medical monitoring for successful conception.

Surrogacy through a clinic handles parental rights and legal concerns.

The BIL’s shocking request for ‘traditional’ conception

A comment on the cost of surrogacy with a humorous twist

Shocking request for sister’s surrogate, commenter calls out absurdity.

Surrogacy request turned Handmaid’s Tale nightmare

Offer alternatives and don’t feel guilty. Good luck!

A shocking request for surrogacy with a hidden motive

NTA for backing out of surrogacy, but creepy request

Surrogacy request is sketchy, legally and financially risky. NTA.

Surrogacy compensation concerns and support for NTA decision

Red flags raised as family offers sister suspicious surrogacy deal

Commenter doubts legitimacy of the situation with laughing emoji.

User firmly rejects sleeping with brother-in-law, with a dash of humor

NTA refuses sister’s shocking surrogacy request

Creative solution suggested for uncomfortable surrogacy situation

Red flags raised in surrogate situation. NTA stands firm.

A shocking request from sister’s surrogate, with a concerning twist

Shocking request for surrogate to have sex with brother-in-law

Surrogacy is not prostitution. NTA for setting boundaries.

Don’t agree to the shocking request, nullify the agreement.

Surrogate agreement violated with unacceptable request. NTA.

A Handmaid’s Tale scenario? NTA’s shocking surrogate dilemma.

Surrogacy request from sister’s partner is legally and ethically dubious

Deciding whether to be a surrogate for your sister: NTA

Surrogate slams shocking request, calls situation ‘ick’

NTA advises against surrogacy due to emotional and financial risks

Disturbing request from BIL to SIL for surrogate. Cut contact.

Commenter questions the method of surrogacy and criticizes the couple.

A shocking request to surrogate sister to have intercourse

Keeping promises? Not the a**hole.

Family pressure to have sex with brother-in-law for surrogacy? NTA

Don’t be their surrogate. Their attitudes towards you are terrifying.

Surrogacy proposal is exploitative and gross

Surrogate boundaries crossed? Egg on your face

Money doesn’t matter when things get weird

Commenter calls out creepy request and potential coercion

Surrogacy gone wrong: When a husband’s request goes too far

Think twice before agreeing to be a surrogate for family

Consent is key, even in surrogacy. NTA for saying no

Surrogacy request for $200k could lead to legal issues. NTA.

Commenter predicts a disaster for sister’s surrogate situation

A commenter finds a surrogate request creepy and weird

Surrogate asked to have sex for biological child, NTA response.

Commenter calls out gross behavior in surrogacy dilemma

Surrogacy requires having children of your own. Don’t do it.

Traditional surrogacy is risky and not worth the trouble.

Standing firm on boundaries: NTA for denying shocking request

NTA stands firm against shocking request for $200K and laughs at name choices