Imagine having to put your own life on hold to financially support your sister’s luxurious lifestyle. That’s exactly what’s happening in this family, where one sister, Lucy, and her husband, Nick, are living the high life while their relatives foot the bill. But when Lucy announces she’s pregnant, her sister reaches her breaking point. Is it time to cut the cord and let Lucy fend for herself? Let’s dive into this emotionally charged story.
Living the High Life ✈️

The Financial Crisis Begins

Family to the Rescue!

Grocery Rotation

Feeling the Financial Strain

Husband’s Sacrifice

Baby Plans

Surprise Pregnancy Announcement!

Putting Lives on Hold

Baby Shower Debate

Drawing the Line ⛔

Family Disagreement

Brother’s Support

Taking a Stand

Financial Doubts

Enough is Enough: Time to Cut the Cord?
After years of financially supporting her sister Lucy and her husband Nick, our protagonist is at her wit’s end. With Lucy announcing a new pregnancy, the sister can’t help but feel that her own life is being put on hold to keep Lucy afloat. As the family debates whether to throw a baby shower, our protagonist takes a stand, questioning whether she should continue to provide financial support. With tensions running high, let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA calls out sister’s financial irresponsibility with fiery emojis
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Financially struggling sister should downsize, not leech off family.

NTA suggests selling cars and living below means to pay debt.

Financial support for family member, but at what cost? ❌

Redditor calls out OP for being a doormat
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NTA suggests downsizing, being frugal, and not enabling irresponsible behavior.

Seeking clarity on the sister’s financial situation

Don’t cripple yourself financially for able-bodied family members. YTA.

Time to pull up their big kid panties and fix it

Don’t set yourself on fire to keep her warm

Enabling family member’s financial irresponsibility: time to stop? NTA

Curious commenter wonders about sister’s financial situation.

Enabler no more: siblings urged to stop subsidizing sister’s life.

Enabling sister and husband? YTA according to commenter.

Questioning the sister’s financial choices and responsibility to fund.

User suggests downsizing and getting part-time jobs to solve financial issues.

Cutting off sister’s financial support is necessary for her growth.
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Don’t be a doormat. NTA. Toxic family situation

Don’t let them take advantage of you. Stand your ground.

Enabling financial dependence? YTA and so is your brother. ♀️
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Set boundaries and don’t feel guilty for not financing them.

Harsh but fair: commenter suggests cutting off financially irresponsible sister.

NTA comment suggests leaving financial situation, warns of legal precedent.

Don’t enable their behavior. Recommend options to solve debt problem.

Enabling financial irresponsibility? Time to cut the cord!
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Sibling’s financial irresponsibility: NTA suggests cutting off support.

Generous financial support, but it’s time to cut the cord.

Cut the cord! NTA. Don’t let them leech off you

NTA. Enabling irresponsible behavior is toxic. Cut the cord

NTA. Enabling their behavior won’t solve their financial problems

NTA: Sister’s financial struggles are not your responsibility

Is the sister disabled or just living an expensive lifestyle?

Enabling adult siblings financially? NTA says it’s time to stop

NTA comment suggests selling luxury items and moving in with parents

User questions OP’s lack of agency in giving money to sister.
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Cutting off family members for financial irresponsibility

NTA, having a baby while relying on family support is irresponsible.

NTA commenter suggests cutting off financially struggling sister’s family.

NTA thinks sister needs to live within her means

NTA calls out entitled behavior and unfairness in family finances
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Family enabling sister’s financial scam, need to cut the cord

NTA suggests cutting off financially self-centered family.

Boundaries are important. NTA/NAH. Have they tried downsizing?

Taking a stand on financial responsibility. NTA all the way!

Enabling family’s financial irresponsibility? NTA says grow a spine!
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Put a hold on your life, not your money. NTA

Enabling family members: ESH, sister and BIL are leeches

Sassy reply suggests possible misuse of funds.

Surgeon’s sister relies on him. NTA for cutting financial support.
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Stop enabling! Lucy can get a job, downsize, declare bankruptcy. NTA

Sibling financial support? NTA, tough love is necessary sometimes.

Cut the cord! NTA commenters agree sister’s mooching.

Setting boundaries with family’s finances. NTA

Suggests cutting off sister’s financial support due to reckless lifestyle

Let her figure it out . NTA. Stop subsidizing her life.

Curious commenter questions family’s lack of debt solutions.

Husband called a saint, sister and family members AHs

NTA suggests ways sister can reduce debts and avoid dependency.

NTA but you suck here for accepting this ridiculous agreement.

Sister and BIL need to cut back and pay debt. ESH.

Encouraging comment suggests ways for sister to become self-sufficient.

Sibling’s financial support for 40-yr-old surgeon? Cut the cord!

Curious about the surgeon’s spending habits amidst financial struggles

NTA comment calls out sister and BIL’s selfishness

NTA, but enabling financial irresponsibility? Time to cut the cord!

NTA calls out entitled family for unrealistic lifestyle expectations.

Cutting the cord on family finances

Enabling family needs financial planning, sister’s actions hurt siblings.

Enabling sister’s financial struggles? YTA. $5,100/month assistance explained.
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Confused commenter questions why family is funding sister’s luxury lifestyle

Curious about brother-in-law’s finances, asks for details. NTA.

Cutting financial support may be the wake-up call they need

Cutting financial support for entitled family. NTA

NTA, family shouldn’t have to fund a lavish lifestyle

NTA suggests cutting financial support for irresponsible siblings.

NTA suggests downsizing and cutting off family’s financial support.

Sibling relying on OP for money, time to cut cord
