Imagine finding out your sister is getting married in less than a month, and you don’t even know she’s dating anyone! That’s what happened to one man whose sister (20F) announced her wedding date, leaving him and his parents in shock. But the surprises didn’t end there. When he looked up her fiancé on Facebook, he recognized him from the gay bars he used to frequent. Determined to get to the bottom of this, he decided to confront the fiancé and give him an ultimatum. Here’s how the story unfolds…
Surprise Wedding Announcement

Mysterious Fiancé

Parents’ Mixed Feelings

Fiancé’s Familiar Face

Seeking Confirmation ️♂️

The Truth Comes Out ️ ❤️

Confronting the Fiancé

Fiancé’s Confession

Ultimatum Issued ⏳

Fiancé Fails to Confess ️

Wedding Called Off

Parents’ Anger

Confusion and Doubt ♂️

Did He Do the Right Thing?
So, our concerned brother exposed his sister’s fiancé’s secret past, leading to the wedding being called off. Now, he’s left wondering if he did the right thing, especially since his parents are angry at him for interfering. But, considering his sister’s reaction, it’s clear that this information was important to her. What do you think? Was he right to step in and reveal the truth? ♀️ Let’s see what the internet has to say about this situation…
NTA for protecting sister, but discussion of fiance’s sexuality needed.
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NTA. Sister deserves to know if he’s lying or using her
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NTA saves sister’s future from potential lies and cheating
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Exposing lies and conversion therapy in a relationship

Gay OP exposes sister’s fiancé’s lie about deal breaker past

Sister’s fiancé hid past, OP warns sister. Suspicious timing?

A comment asks for clarification on ‘getting saved’ and receives a religious response
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You go, sis! Dodged a bullet there

NTA warns friend about lesbian fiance, gets cut off, vindicated later

Did OP out the fiancé or just inform the sister?

Clarification on sexuality and NTA judgement sparks discussion

Commenter calls out sister’s fiancé for lying about his sexuality.

Bisexual representation matters. Don’t judge based on past labels

Commenter defends their NTA judgement and expresses surprise at parents’ anger.

Honesty is the best policy . Being bisexual is not a crime.

Denial of sexuality and mistreatment of wives due to faith ♀️

Informing sister about fiancé’s past: NTA or outing?

Not the a**hole, but what’s the shocking past?

Hiding past from partner is like hiding past marriage

You’re in the clear

Brother exposes sister’s fiancé’s hidden past. NTA or ESH?

Dodged a bullet NTA saves sister from sham marriage
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Protective sibling saves sister from doomed marriage ❤️

Can someone really “used to be gay”?
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Fiancé’s past hidden from sister, NTA for looking out.

NTA commenter supports exposing shocking past with a warning.

NTA calls out lying fiancé for disrespecting sister’s trust

Honesty is key in any relationship
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A shocking revelation about sister’s fiancé’s past. Is NTA justified?
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NTA for looking out for sister’s best interest but fiance should have been honest

Supportive comment defends exposing fiancé’s past with humor ️
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Commenter jokes about Kinsey Scale in light-hearted tone.

Did OP ruin her sister’s relationship by misrepresenting her fiancé?

Commenter questions fiancé’s sexuality, gets shut down by religious replies

Being honest about a partner’s past is important.

Respecting privacy vs. emotional/physical harm. Rushing wedding red flag
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Sibling love prevails! NTA for protecting your sister

Commenter questions sister’s fiancé’s sexuality and future marriage.

Saved fiancé’s past and behavior raised red flags, NTA sister.

NTA for saving your sister from a deceitful marriage

NTA saved sister from potential heartache, fiancé may need help

Sister’s fiancé’s shocking past exposed, commenter supports OP’s actions

Honesty is key. Should the sister’s fiancé come clean?

Open-minded comment suggests sister’s fiancé may be gay or bi

Honesty is key in any relationship, especially when it comes to history

A shocking revelation with wedding and marriage at stake

Exposing the fiancé’s shocking secret saved the sister’s future

Protecting your sister from a lying fiancé

Supportive comment defends being gay and saving sister

Sharing the truth: NTA saves sister from costly mistake

Protecting family from deceitful fiancé. NTA wins the day

Hiding sexual orientation from partner is a red flag. NTA.

Engagement rushed, trust broken. NTA intervention appreciated in time

Sister’s rushed engagement with a gay man – NTA

NTA. Sister’s fiancé’s shocking past exposed. You did the right thing

Supportive comment saves sister from potential unhappiness and therapy
