A 28-year-old man finds himself in a moral dilemma when his sister, Lexi, decides to come out as a lesbian during a family party. Their wealthy, homophobic grandfather, who is unaware of Lexi’s sexuality, has only two months left to live and has left her a $2.1 million inheritance. The brother, torn between supporting his sister’s courageous decision and ensuring her financial future, takes matters into his own hands.
The Brother’s Dilemma

Lexi’s Secret

The Wealthy Grandfather ⌛

Family Relationships

The Inheritance

The Big Announcement

A Brother’s Intervention ⛔

Lexi’s Reaction

Family’s Opinion

Brother’s Guilt

A Heart-Wrenching Decision
Faced with the choice of supporting his sister’s coming out or protecting her $2.1 million inheritance, the brother chooses the latter. He intervenes during the family party, preventing Lexi from revealing her sexuality to their homophobic grandfather. While his parents believe he did the right thing, the brother is consumed by guilt and wonders if he made the right choice. Share your thoughts on this family’s emotional dilemma.
NTA. Lying to homophobes for inheritance money.

Encourage her to donate grandpa’s money to LGBTQ+ charities

Navigating a difficult family situation with empathy and grace

Supportive comment section with a hint of humor

NTA. Empathetic decision to protect sister’s future.

Sibling chooses integrity over inheritance ❤️

NTA commenter believes Lexi may regret not getting inheritance later.

Commenter suggests slight YTA for delaying sister’s coming out.

Sibling conflict over inheritance and sister’s coming out decision.

Sibling conflict over inheritance and coming out as gay.

YTA for prioritizing inheritance over sister’s coming out journey

Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole for prioritizing money over sister’s coming out

Sister’s inheritance vs coming out – NTA or TA?

Sibling interferes with sister’s coming out – YTA verdict.

Inheritance over sister’s coming out? YTA according to comments
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Respect Lexi’s autonomy. Money shouldn’t dictate her coming out.

Commenter calls out someone for making a selfish decision

Respect her autonomy, YTA.

Commenter calls out OP for being controlling, YTA.

Commenter calls out OP for not being upfront about inheritance.

NTA suggests using inheritance for LGBTQ causes and education.

Redditors condemn enabling homophobia, but not when money’s involved? YTA.

Respecting homophobic grandfather’s wishes or sister’s coming out? NAH dilemma

Don’t control someone else’s coming out journey. YTA.

Coming out or inheritance? NAH, but money could make life easier.

Sibling struggles with sister’s inheritance decision. YTA verdict.

Support your sister’s decision to come out on her terms

NTA suggests donating half of inheritance to LGBTQ suicide prevention

Homophobic grandpa puts inheritance over accepting his gay granddaughter

Sibling silences sister’s coming out for inheritance, YTA.

Protecting family from stress and bigotry , with a 2mil bonus

Inheritance or not, coming out is a personal choice. YTA.
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Sibling’s controlling behavior towards sister’s coming out

Sibling inheritance drama over sister’s coming out. YTA called out.
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Homophobic grandfather causes inheritance dilemma. NTA sister chooses silence for 2mil.

Sister’s inheritance on hold for coming out? Wait for the perfect moment

Inheriting from a homophobic grampy? Repurpose the money for LGBTQ+ charities

The struggle of hiding a partner for money

Respecting someone’s decision to come out is more important than money

Timing of coming out at party discussed, inheritance implications debated

Coming out at a party? Maybe not the best idea

Delaying coming out for inheritance: NAH, but sister’s choice.

Sibling bond over inheritance: NAH, but let her choose.

Take the money and run! ♀️ Donate to charities he’d hate.

Supportive comment suggests apologizing to sister for delaying coming out

Navigating family and money can be tricky. Proceed with caution.

Empathetic comment acknowledges struggle of coming out in inheritance dispute.

LGBT person defends Lexi’s decision to prioritize inheritance over coming out.

Respectful support for sister’s choice and potential inheritance. NAH

Bold suggestion for Lexi’s coming out at the funeral.

Coming out is a personal choice, not an obligation. NTA

Lesbian sister accused of hijacking party to come out. NTA.
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Last Updated on April 30, 2023 by Diply Social Team