Imagine having a loving fiancé who’s great with kids, only for your sister to try and make him her son’s dad! That’s exactly what happened to one woman when her sister started pushing her fiancé to be a father figure for her nephew. As the situation spirals out of control, the family is left to deal with the fallout of this bizarre and uncomfortable predicament.
Sister’s Struggle for a Father Figure

The Perfect Fiancé

Sister’s Sneaky Plan

The Adoption Audacity

Uncomfortable and Unsure

Mom Steps In

The Big Question

Gabriel’s Gentle Response

Joe’s Sweet Acceptance

Sister’s Fury

Mom vs. Sister

Enough is Enough

Sister’s Cruel Accusation

The Aftermath

Clarification

When Family Ties Get Tangled
In a desperate attempt to find a father figure for her son, one sister pushes her sibling’s fiancé into the role, causing a family feud. As tensions rise, the fiancé gently explains his position to the young boy, who sweetly accepts the truth. But the sister’s anger boils over, leading to a dramatic confrontation and a demand for distance. Will this family find a way to mend their tangled ties?
Sister wants OP’s fiancé, using son as bait

Sister wants to marry OP’s fiance and make him her kid’s dad

Sister’s delusion creates a self-made family. NTA, but beware.

Sister wants to poach OP’s fiance as her son’s dad

NTA, sister has a delusional happily ever after fantasy ♀️

Commenter expresses concern for child in toxic situation.

Sister’s delusion puts her child in danger. NTA.

Commenter sympathizes with confused child, suggests sister needs therapy.

NTA. Commenter points out sister’s projection onto Joe’s situation

Sisterly advice on setting boundaries to protect your relationship

NTA. OP’s fiancé is amazing with the kid. Set boundaries.

Sister wants fiancé to be her son’s dad. Commenter calls out issues.

Sibling rivalry gets intense over shared fiancé

NTA. Setting boundaries is key. No more fictional family outings
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Kid understands, sister causing weird drama. NTA

Sisterly support for NTA in fatherhood dispute

Commenter clarifies legal guardian status in sister’s situation.

Sister and mom put them in a bad spot. Gabe handled it well.

Savage reply to sister’s behavior with a hint of humor

Setting boundaries with a troubled sister. NTA.

Sister’s fiance is not her son’s dad. NTA’s advice stands.

Having a cool uncle is awesome! NTA for wanting that.

Single mom shuts down sister’s attempt to make fiancé dad

Sister tries to make fiancé stepdad, commenter says NTA

Adopting sister’s son may not be feasible. NTA.

Heartbreaking situation as sister uses her child as a weapon

NTA, but sister’s request requires distance. Awkward family dynamics ahead.

Sister’s love for fiancé causes family feud. NTA.

Commenter compares sister’s behavior to ‘Single White Female’ movie. Fiance handled situation well. NTA.

NTA suggests cutting off sister until therapy.

Commenters speculate on sister’s intentions with the fiancé

Sister wants your fiancé for herself? Watch out! NTA

Sister tries to steal fiancé, NTA advises to hurt feelings

Legal guardianship confusion leads to potential custody battle
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Sister’s jealousy causes chaos. NTA. Mom’s support is concerning ♀️

Sister wants her man. NTA sets boundaries. Awkward dad situation.

NTA, but legal guardianship confusion sparks discussion in comment replies

Sister’s jealousy creates family drama. NTA for wanting happiness.

Set strict boundaries with sister to prevent uncomfortable situation.
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Commenter calls out sister’s hypocrisy in a fiery response
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Sister wants your man NTA needs a break

Sassy comment warns to beware of sister’s ulterior motives

Sister wants your fiance as a dad? NTA for saying no

Sister needs therapy.

A blunt and shocking comment.

Beware of sister’s manipulative plan to make fiancé father figure

Sister wants fiancé to be her son’s dad. NTA stands firm.

Direct communication is key to dealing with delusional sister.

Sister wants fiancé to be her son’s dad. Commenter says NTA.

Sister wants to steal your fiancé as her son’s dad NTA

When reality surpasses Reddit drama ♂️

Sister’s offer to keep distance is a silver lining. NTA

Sisterly drama resolved immaturely. NTA for setting boundaries.

Gabriel needs to speak up about sister’s inappropriate request. NTA.

Sister’s actions are questionable, NTA for setting boundaries.

Sister wants fiancé as parenting partner, not romantically. NTA advised precautions.

Sister needs therapy NTA stands firm

Sisterly showdown over paternity fraud. NTA takes a stand!

NTA commenter advises OP to go LC with sister and fiancé.

“Uncle Daddy Gabriel” is more confusing than just calling him uncle.

Sister’s plan to make fiancé her nephew’s dad backfires. NTA.

Sister’s jealousy leads to a fake dad and family drama

Cutting ties with manipulative family members for safety.

Saying ‘no’ to a kid is easy. NTA wins.

Sisterly sabotage? NTA stands up to fiancé-stealing sibling

Sister’s creepy move on sister’s husband

Fiancé wins hearts with ‘favorite uncle’ response to awkward situation ❤

Sister’s trying to steal her fiancé? NTA needs to act fast
