Sister Refuses to Bail Out Spoiled Brother: Will He Finally Learn Adulting?

Picture this: you and your sibling are raised in the same household, but one of you gets all the perks, while the other has to fend for themselves. Now, the favorite child needs your help, but you’re not sure if you can trust them. What do you do? ‍♀️ This is the dilemma faced by a woman who has had enough of her spoiled brother’s antics. As her parents plan to retire and downsize, they ask her to help her brother find a place to live. But she’s not so sure about taking on the responsibility, and the family drama unfolds.

Growing Up with the Golden Child

Grandparents’ Favoritism

Dropping Out and Low-Paying Jobs

Parents’ Retirement Plans

The Request: Move in with Sister

Lazy Brother and Sister-in-Law ️

Parents’ Suggestion: Be the Guarantor

Brother’s Angry Phone Calls

Silent Treatment from Parents

Sister’s Hilarious Reaction

Feeling Guilty

Tough Love or Heartless Sister?

Caught in a whirlwind of family drama, our protagonist is torn between helping her spoiled brother and standing her ground. She’s hesitant to take on the responsibility of being his guarantor, fearing he’ll continue his lazy ways and leave her to pick up the pieces. Meanwhile, her parents are giving her the silent treatment, and her sister finds the situation hilarious. Will this tough love force her brother to finally grow up, or will she cave in to her family’s demands? Let’s see how the internet weighs in on this sticky situation…

NTA. Sister’s tough love approach to spoiled brother.

Don’t set yourself on fire to keep him warm.

NTA. Don’t risk your financial and emotional health over entitled brother.

NTA. Don’t let yourself be manipulated or financially ruined by family.

NTA for refusing to bail out entitled brother. Family failed.

Brother’s entitlement exposed, OP not obligated.

Spoiled brother blows inheritance on gadgets and vacations , sister makes wise choice

NTA suggests going no contact with family. Will OP follow?

NTA. You’re not responsible for your parents’ choices.

Golden child brother gets tough love from responsible sister. NTA

OP suggests three options, but recommends option 3 to not enable brother’s entitlement and focus on personal life.

Sibling refuses to enable brother’s lack of responsibility.

Brother’s entitled behavior and insults make him a terrible house guest. NTA

Brother and wife had a year to figure out adulting

Don’t give in to guilt, parents are jerks. NTA

NTA refuses to bail out brother after disrespectful language

Putting your life first . Don’t let anyone guilt you into it.

Blaming the parents for spoiling the brother.

Sister won’t enable brother’s laziness. NTA for setting boundaries.

Sibling refuses to enable brother’s lack of responsibility. NTA

Refusing to bail out a sibling who disrespects you? NTA ‍♀️

Set boundaries and walk away.

NTA stands their ground, says good riddance to spoiled sibling

NTA agrees with sister’s tough love approach. Good advice!

NTA. Family enabling brother’s bad behavior will only hurt him.

NTA stands firm against enabling entitled brother.

Redditors agree: NTA in yet another sibling bailout situation

Sibling stands up to entitled brother, teaches him adulting

NTA commenter suggests telling off selfish parents with humor

Sibling tough love: refusing to enable a spoiled brother.

Sister refuses to enable entitled brother. NTA wins family drama.

NTA. Don’t let him move in or you’ll be stuck supporting him

Brother’s entitlement is not your responsibility. NTA

Sibling refuses to enable lazy brother and his wife.

Don’t let manipulative family guilt you into enabling moochers.

Spoiled brother demands sister bail him out, NTA for refusing ‍♀️

Sibling’s refusal to bail out brother due to parents’ enabling.

Parents enabled brother’s behavior, NTA for refusing to bail out

NTA, but why can’t your parents be his guarantor?

Insulting people you’re begging for aid doesn’t help. NTA

Don’t enable him, let your parents deal with their child.

Prioritizing a spoiled brother over you? NTA, don’t bother helping

Joining sister in going no contact with toxic family members.

Commenter thinks sister is not the a**hole for not bailing brother

Don’t sign for him! He’s shown he can’t be trusted.

Sister wisely refuses to enable brother’s spoiled behavior

NTA calls out brother’s entitlement, hopes he learns from experience.

NTA commenter on parenting and life lessons.

Sibling won’t bail out brother from rent, NTA wins.

Commenter thinks sister is not the a**hole.

Commenter questions why parents aren’t bailing out brother.

Brother needs tough love, not enabling. NTA

Sibling’s entitled behavior causes family drama. NTA advice given.

Enabling a monster? NTA sister’s smart no contact move

Sibling refuses to enable brother’s irresponsibility. NTA

Brother insults fiancee but can’t adult. NTA sister wins

Sibling favoritism leads to NC with parents and entitled brother

Sibling support for not bailing out spoiled brother.

Don’t be a guarantor unless you’re willing to pay #NTA

Commenter suggests cultural influence, advises against enabling toxic behavior.