Imagine being in a committed relationship for three years and finding out your partner isn’t welcome at your brother’s wedding ceremony. That’s exactly what happened to a 31-year-old woman, who was told by her brother that her girlfriend couldn’t attend the ceremony due to the fiancée’s family being ‘traditional.’ While her girlfriend was willing to accept this, the woman couldn’t help but feel her brother was being unfair, especially since their younger sister’s boyfriend of six months was invited.
Serious Relationship, Unwelcome Guest

Brother’s Wedding Dilemma

Traditional Family Excuse

Reception Only Compromise

Standing Up for Her Girlfriend

Ultimatum Issued

Family Drama Ensues

Fiancée’s Shocking Revelation

Brother’s Hidden Agenda?

Skipping the Wedding

Weekend Getaway Instead

Fiancée’s Reaction

Brother’s Blame Game

Going Zero Contact

Wedding Postponed

Sister’s Stand Leads to Shocking Revelations
After the sister stood up for her girlfriend and refused to attend the wedding ceremony, she discovered her brother’s fiancée had no idea about the ‘traditional’ family excuse. In fact, her gay cousin was going to be the maid of honour! The sister and her girlfriend decided to skip the wedding altogether and enjoy a weekend getaway instead. The brother’s fiancée was furious and demanded therapy before considering marriage. While the wedding isn’t off, it’s postponed, and the sister is going zero contact with her brother until he makes amends. Talk about a family drama!
NTA. The sister’s true motives are clear. Skip the reception

NTA stands up to homophobic brother’s wedding demands

Commenter defends OP’s decision to skip wedding over homophobic exclusion

Commenter supports OP and calls out brother’s homophobia.

Partner excluded from wedding while sister’s boyfriend is invited. NTA.

Standing up to homophobia in the family.

Family drama escalates over wedding guest list

Lesbians banned from wedding: NTA sister calls out bigotry

Uninvited girlfriend causes family drama, commenter supports NTA’s decision.

NTA stands up for their relationship and drops a fiery comment

Wedding invite drama: NTA for not attending unsupportive brother’s wedding

Commenter supports OP’s decision to skip homophobic family’s wedding reception

NTA. Brother’s internalized homophobia causing family drama over wedding guest list
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Don’t settle for the salt, you deserve the whole pretzel.

Commenter defends brother’s GF, accuses him of homophobia

NTA. Commenter questions future family gatherings and inclusivity.

Skipping the wedding but not the gift? NTA strategy

Commenter jokingly suggests stealing potential SIL to end family drama.

Sibling solidarity in the face of discrimination

Commenter demands juicy updates on family drama �yes

Stand up for what’s right and support the community

Brother lied about GF not being invited to wedding

GF takes the high road amidst family drama

Supportive comment calls out brother’s homophobia, offers best wishes

Confront brother with GF present to resolve wedding invite issue. NTA

Commenter defends gay rights, calls out homophobia in family feud

Navigating family traditions and bigotry in relationships.

Supportive comment encourages not attending homophobic brother’s wedding

Building a life together means being on her side
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Opposite-s*x partner drama: NTA comment calls out bigotry.
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NTA defends not inviting GF, suggests serious talk with brother

Supporting their lifestyle? NTA stands up for girlfriend

Supportive comment encourages equal treatment for LGBTQ+ relationships

Sibling rivalry or something more?

Commenter supports OP and advises GF to run

Supportive comment defends LGBTQ+ relationships in family conflict

NTA. Homophobia at a wedding? You and your girlfriend skip it.

Commenter calls out homophobia in family, declares NTA.

Commenter supports OP’s decision and insults brother’s wedding

Standing up to hypocritical behavior.

Be true to yourself, skip the wedding if needed

Brother’s wedding invite drama causes family chaos. NTA comment.

Brother’s homophobia causes family drama. NTA for standing up.

Brother needs to grow up, future SIL is a cool addition

Commenter calls out homophobia and slams the haters

Brother’s ‘traditional’ views lead to family drama and homophobia. NTA.
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Gay wedding drama sparks family feud

Commenter supports not inviting homophobic brother’s girlfriend

Commenter calls out brother for homophobia, drama ensues

Brother’s lies and issues run deep. NTA obviously.

Wedding invite drama: Commenter calls out homophobic behavior, supports NTA.

Declining to disavow own relationship for brother’s wedding. NTA

Skipping the wedding is the best option. NTA

Brother’s wedding drama: NTA, family’s opinion shouldn’t matter

Inviting significant others is crucial for attendance. NTA comment.

Commenter calls out hypocrisy in wedding invite drama

Commenter calls out wedding drama with a touch of sarcasm

Supportive commenter suggests excluding homophobic brother from wedding guest list

Wedding drama: NTA sister won’t attend without GF invite

Defending sister’s decision to skip brother’s wedding over GF exclusion.

NTA for refusing to attend brother’s wedding without GF. Interesting suggestions.

Supportive comment: LGBTQ+ discrimination in families is heartbreaking

NTA stands up against homophobic family members, raises valid concerns

Last Updated on May 29, 2023 by Diply Social Team