Picture this: You’re a 28-year-old woman who recently lost her job and is now living with her 40-year-old sister and her 17-year-old nephew. In order to contribute, you take care of all the chores in the house, including laundry. One day, you discover your nephew’s hoodie smells like weed, and you decide to bring it up to your sister. But instead of being concerned, she seems to be okay with it! In fact, she even has some surprising revelations about her own involvement. What would you do? Keep reading to find out how this drama unfolds!
Living with Sister

Earning My Keep

Laundry Day Discovery

Sneaky Smoker

“Signature Cologne”

The Truth Comes Out ️♀️

Mom’s Conditions

Manipulation Accusation

Anger Rising

Sister’s Ultimatum

Trying to Explain ️

Last Word

Silent Treatment

Weed Whiff Woes: Sister Showdown
Our protagonist finds herself in a sticky situation when she discovers her nephew’s hoodie reeks of weed. She confronts her sister, who initially jokes about it being his “signature cologne.” When pushed further, the sister admits she knows about her son’s smoking habits and even taught him how to roll! Our protagonist, concerned about her nephew’s wellbeing, tries to convince her sister to discipline him. But instead of listening, the sister gives her an ultimatum: back off or get out. Now, with the threat of being kicked out looming, our protagonist is left wondering if she did the right thing. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
YTA calls out sister’s lack of discipline, sparks self-awareness check

Sister’s enabling behavior called out for encouraging teenage drug use

Using weed doesn’t make you a junkie. Back off, YTA

Respect boundaries and let others parent their own way.

Unemployed sister fears being kicked out after meddling in parenting ♀️

Teen’s drug use and parent’s approach debated. YTA.

Don’t be a *ss. Respect host’s rules and parenting decisions.

Sister’s experience trumps yours, keep quiet. YTA

Mom’s meddling backfires. Don’t judge weed smokers. YTA

Mind your own business and drop it!

Guest aunt oversteps boundaries, told YTA in comments.

Debate over parenting styles and drug use legality.

Letting teens make their own decisions can prevent rebellion ✌

Nephew’s drug use sparks family feud, commenter calls out entitlement

Rebellious comment defends ‘cool ass mom’ approach to parenting

Don’t gatekeep her parenting, but encouraging drug use? YTA

Debate over weed safety and parenting choices.

Respect boundaries when visiting someone’s home.

Mind your own business, but weed’s not that bad ♂️

Don’t mess with a parent’s decisions, especially if you’re dependent

User defends teen’s drug use, shuts down judgmental comment.

User calls out judgmental behavior towards parenting choices.

YTA called out for pearl-clutching, defending sister’s approach
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Passionate defense of weed use, calling out judgmental attitude.

Defending cool mom’s decision to take son to Amsterdam ♂️

Engaging in family drug use: YTA or NAH?

Don’t mess with the aunt who gave you a home
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Don’t impose your rules on her family. YTA. ♂️

Letting go of boundaries: When good intentions go awry. ♀️
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Rebuking OP’s unsolicited advice with a fiery clapback

Respect boundaries and don’t impose your views on others.

Respectful parent-child relationship, stay out of it. YTA
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Respectful disagreement: Apologize for pushing but disagree respectfully.

Defending the sister’s parenting choices.

Being judgemental as a guest = entering a**hole territory

Rolling up sleeves to check for injected marijuanas? YTA.

Unemployed guest insults host’s parenting, then refuses to apologize. YTA

Calling out a bad parent with some humor

Debunking the comparison between alcohol addiction and weed use
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Let parents parent. Stop comparing weed to alcohol.

Defending a controversial parenting choice with valid points.

Mind your own business, live rent-free. YTA.

YTA called out for judging a cool mom.

Defending weed consumption and criticizing condescension. YTA.

Mind your own business! YTA

Tough love? Commenter defends sister’s parenting choices.

Engaging in teen drug use: YTA or NAH? Discussion ensues.

Let them make their own decisions

Mind your business: commenter shut down for criticizing parenting style.

Teen drinking and drug use? YTA. Mind your business.

Confused about age, but clear on YTA judgement

Defensive response to anti-weed comment. YTA.

Leave them alone, it’s not your business

A stoner defends weed use and calls out DARE propaganda.
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Good parenting! Allowing drug use in a safe environment.

Sister defends teen son’s drug use, calls OP nosey YTA
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Parenting done right! YTA, get out of sister’s house.

Sarcastic comment sparks YTA judgement in drug use debate

Live and let live, bro. It’s not your house ♂️

Aunt crosses the line encouraging teenage drug use in Amsterdam

Don’t meddle in others’ parenting. YTA should apologize.

Family drama and tough love. Yikes!

Mind your own business, OP. ♀️

Tough love advice for a misguided aunt. ♀️

Criticism of encouraging drug use and defending its effects.

OP gets called out for overstepping and owes apologies

Don’t be sanctimonious, it’s legal in many places

YTA called out for overstepping and urged to apologize

Mind your own business, YTA

Don’t meddle in someone else’s parenting style!

Don’t be pushy, it’s her legal son, YTA

Don’t project your substance abuse experience on your nephew. YTA

User calls out sister’s bad parenting, defends teen’s safety.

Misconceptions about cannabis and overstepping boundaries, YTA.
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Family drama: Aunt takes nephew to Amsterdam for drugs? YTA called out.
