Imagine living under the same roof with your sister and her kids, only to find out that your parenting styles are entirely different. That’s what happened to one mom who, along with her two kids, moved in with her sister and her two children. The sister, a stickler for schedules, expected the new arrivals to adapt to her family’s strict routine. But the mom, who prefers a more laid-back approach, wasn’t having any of it. ♀️ Let’s dive into their story and see how this clash of parenting styles unfolded.
Moving in with Sister

Sister’s Strict Schedule ⏰

Mom’s Laid-Back Approach

Sister’s Expectations

TV Time

Sister’s Concerns

Sister’s Suggestion ️

Mom’s Resistance

A Moment of Reflection

Second Thoughts?

Rent Clarification

Air BnB Renters ️

The Great Parenting Debate: Schedules vs. Flexibility
So, we have a classic case of two sisters with completely different parenting styles living under the same roof. One sister believes in strict schedules, while the other prefers a more flexible approach. When the sister with the schedule asks her sibling to adapt to her family’s routine, the laid-back mom stands her ground. But when the sister points out that she’s only letting them live there because they’re family, the mom starts to question her choices. ♀️ Who’s right in this situation? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this clash of parenting styles…
NAH. Both want structure, but need to find a compromise.

Aunt is the a**hole for not accommodating sister’s kids’ routine

Commenter calls out OP for not compromising with sister.

Sibling conflict over kids’ schedules. Commenter calls OP YTA.

Respect your sister’s rules or find your own place

Incompatible parenting styles cause tension between sisters.

Moving in with sister, but refusing to adapt parenting style? YTA.

Commenter calls out OP as YTA for unfair scheduling

Commenter calls out YTA, sparks no replies

Tense exchange between family members over living arrangements. Yikes
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Compromise suggested by commenter for sister’s favor vs. inconvenience to OP

Commenter calls out entitlement and suggests compromise.

Commenter relates to struggle with sister’s lack of schedule, but disagrees with disrupting kids’ bedtime

OP’s sister may ask them to move out soon

NAH-maybe a flexible schedule can be worked out together

Commenter calls out OP for seeking advice but dismissing it

Suggests trying out the schedule experiment for happier kids and family

Sister demands strict schedule, commenter says ‘YTA’, kids need to learn

Commenter calls out YTA for being disruptive and ungrateful

Advice for tenant on being a respectful renter

Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole

Commenter calls out OP for being entitled in sister’s house

Commenter calls out entitled sister for disrupting family’s schedule.

Debate over TV and bedtime routines with possible AH.

Commenter calls out OP for lack of compromise and structure

Passive-aggressive comment suggests moving out if not complying

Commenter thinks sister is right about strict schedules for kids.

Commenter calls out sister for being a**hole with scheduling demands.

Commenter calls out OP as ‘YTA’ for not following sister’s rules.

Compromise is key – Let’s hope it works out!

NTA commenter suggests coordinating timeframes instead of strict schedules

Compromise is key! Suggestions for balancing schedules fairly.

Maintaining household dynamic with guests’ kids can be challenging

Commenter calls out sister’s behavior, warns of consequences.

Living in sister’s place, OP should oblige to her rules. YTA.

Teaching kids adaptability and consideration for others is valuable

NTA. OP’s sister needs to adjust or evict.

Sister’s demand for a strict schedule gets a soft YTA
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NAH. Commenter suggests adapting some of sister’s schedule for peace.

Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole in this situation.

Commenter advises mom to respect sister’s rules while living there

Commenter calls out loose parenting and disruption of household
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NTA. Renting means equal rights to schedules.

Live with sister, not under her parenting rules. NAH

Parenting clash with sister, but compromise is key

NTA suggests compromise for schedules, praises parenting style

Navigating family schedules can be tricky . Communication is key

Commenter calls out OP for being TA and favoring their kids

Living with sister’s strict schedule? NTA fights back!

Commenter calls out OP for seeking validation, YTA confirmed

Commenter calls out bad house guests for being entitled

Redditor calls out entitled sister for being the a**hole

Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole, advises communication.

Commenter calls out OP for being ungrateful and disruptive
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Commenter calls out OP for disrupting sister’s household.

Commenter calls out OP for being stubborn and entitled

Commenter feels guilty for unintentionally causing inconvenience, receives harsh judgment.

Commenter calls out OP for being TA and suggests compromise

Respectful NTA stands up for parenting rights

INFO – User suggests adjusting to sister’s schedule for short term stay

Navigating family dynamics and schedules can be tricky

User calls out OP for not compromising with sister’s kids’ schedule

NTA. The sister’s rules don’t have to apply to everyone. ♀️

Different families, different rules. NTA stands up for parenting.

Commenter calls out YTA and gets a sassy reply

Commenter calls out sister’s behavior, but offers explanation

Commenter calls out OP for being selfish and unappreciative

Commenter calls out entitled sister, suggests consequences for defiance.

Commenter suggests adjusting to sister’s schedule, mildly criticized.

Commenter calls out lazy parenting and supports sister’s discipline.

Compromise suggested for differing parenting schedules. NAH wins.

Sister’s control sucks, but save up and move out

Commenter asks for more information on kids’ schedules. NAH.

Commenter calls out entitled behavior with YTA acronym
