Imagine being a college student, struggling to find a job during the pandemic, and then your sister drops a bomb on you: she’s pregnant and expects you to babysit her baby while she works! That’s exactly what happened to one person who shared their story online. They’re trying to balance school and job hunting, but their sister seems to think they should drop everything to help her out.
Sister’s Shocking Pregnancy

College and Job Struggles

Sister’s Demands Begin ️

Babysitting Expectations

Sister’s Angry Reaction

Money Troubles

Putting School on Hold?

Update: Job Hunt Progress

Interviews and Moving Out

Future Plans

Sister’s Demands vs. College Dreams
In a whirlwind of emotions, this college student is standing their ground against their sister’s demands to babysit her baby while she works. They’re already struggling to balance school and job hunting, and their sister’s expectations seem to be pushing them to the edge. Will they be able to find a solution that works for everyone, or will they have to choose between their dreams and family? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Suggests daycare subsidies and community college for struggling sister

Sibling refuses to babysit, NTA wins the day

Sibling refuses to babysit and stands up for their own life

Sibling demands babysitting, commenter suggests abortion or baby daddy help ♀️

Debate over babysitting duties gets heated with ESH verdict

Stand your ground! You’re not responsible for her baby

Stand your ground! Your education comes first

Redditors discuss the entitlement of pregnant siblings demanding babysitting.

Sibling not obligated to babysit. Stick to your guns, OP!

Sibling forced to be third parent for niece, NTA.

Sibling refuses to babysit, suggests abortion. Harsh but clear.

Setting boundaries with family can be tough ♀️

Sibling refuses to babysit, says NTA. Drama ensues

Sibling refuses to babysit niece, sparks debate on parental responsibility
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Sibling refuses to babysit, earns NTA judgement

Sibling refuses to babysit for entitled sister’s convenience

Sibling refuses to babysit entitled sister’s baby, and rightfully so
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Sibling refuses to babysit entitled sister’s baby. #NTA

Don’t sacrifice your dreams for your sister’s baby
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Suggesting adoption as a viable option. NTA.

Don’t enable her ♂️. Move out ASAP

NTA commenter calls out irresponsible parenting with sass

Sibling demands babysitting, but commenter says NTA, sister is immature.
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Sibling refuses to babysit entitled sister’s child. NTA.

Sibling refuses to babysit for college, NTA wins

Sibling demands college student to babysit, but NTA prevails

Sibling demands babysitting, but comment suggests running away
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Don’t be an unpaid live-in nanny for your sister

Sibling demands free babysitting, commenter says NTA and offers advice

Single mom suggests state help for sister’s childcare issue

Sibling refuses to babysit, commenter says NTA
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Sibling refuses to babysit niece/nephew, sparks family drama

Sibling refuses to babysit and calls demand ridiculous

Sibling boundaries respected: NTA for declining babysitting request

Sister demands babysitting, but OP stands up for boundaries.

No a-hole here, but where’s the father?

Sibling refuses to babysit entitled sister’s child. NTA.

Sibling refuses to babysit niece, suggests adoption. NTA

Setting boundaries is key when helping family with childcare

Sibling refuses to babysit sister’s baby, and rightfully so

Sibling refuses to babysit, but is NTA

Sibling refuses to babysit sister’s child, advocates for abortion

Sibling refuses to babysit entitled sister’s child

Don’t sacrifice your life for someone else’s choices

Sibling’s unwanted baby demands, escape family sabotage. NTA.

Sibling refuses to babysit sister’s baby, and it’s justified

Sibling refuses to babysit entitled sister’s baby, NTA wins

Sibling refuses babysitting request, sparks NTA debate

Commenter advises to run from babysitting request, with humor

Sibling refuses to babysit, suggests private adoption.
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Supportive comment encourages OP to prioritize education over babysitting

Predictable response? NTA all the way!

Sibling refuses to babysit, but is justified.

Don’t let them saddle you with childcare! Move out

Sibling refuses to babysit entitled sister’s baby. NTA

Sibling refuses to babysit entitled sister’s baby.
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Sibling refuses to babysit entitled sister’s child. #NTA
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Prioritizing education and personal goals over sister’s childcare demands

Sibling refuses to babysit, mom prioritizes convenience over child’s needs

Sister demands babysitting, but NTA suggests alternative career paths

Sibling demands babysitting, OP stands up to entitlement

Sibling refuses to babysit niece, calls out irresponsible parenting. NTA

Sister demands babysitting, but OP stands up for themselves.

Sibling refuses to babysit, sparks family drama.

Sibling refuses to babysit and calls out sister’s poor planning

Sibling demands free babysitting, commenter advises to prioritize education and career.

Don’t defer your dreams to take care of your sister’s kid

Sibling boundaries set straight. NTA for prioritizing self-care

Sibling demands free babysitting, but OP stands up for themselves.

Sibling demands babysitting, but NTA sets clear boundaries

Sibling refuses to babysit niece, sparks debate on family obligations

Sibling refuses to babysit niece, sparks debate on responsibility.

Don’t let your sister’s irresponsibility become your responsibility.

Sibling refuses to babysit for free, sets boundaries. NTA

Controversial comment suggests adoption for neglected baby

Stand your ground! Your education is important

Sibling refuses to be a free babysitter, NTA
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Sibling refuses to babysit niece, asserts no responsibility. NTA

Sibling demands free babysitting while OP is in college. NTA.

Sibling refuses to babysit, advises sister to make a plan

Sibling demands babysitting, but NTA commenter shuts it down
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Sibling refuses to babysit sister’s baby, suggests asking father for help.

Don’t be a doormat! Stick to your plans

Prioritizing education over babysitting family is not selfish

Comment suggests sister needs an abortion, sparks heated debate.

Don’t fall for their guilt. Stick to your guns!

Sibling refuses to babysit, citing lack of planning as emergency

Uncle refuses to babysit niece, sparks debate on gender roles
