Buckle up, folks, because we’ve got a juicy family drama on our hands! Meet OP, a 24-year-old woman caught in the middle of her sister’s desperate attempts to find a father figure for her nephew, Joe. Enter Gabriel, OP’s dreamy fiancé, who’s suddenly thrust into the role of ‘daddy dearest’ by OP’s sister. Will OP put her foot down and set boundaries, or will her sister’s schemes tear this family apart? Let’s dive in and find out!
Family Drama Alert!

♀️ Sister’s Desperate Dating Dilemma ♀️

Enter: My Fabulous Fiancé!

We’re the Cool Aunt & Uncle

Sister’s Sneaky Schemes

Driving Miss Daisy… and Joe?

Joking About Adoption? Not Cool, Sis!

Awkward Alert: We’re Not Comfortable!

The Blowup: Can I Call You Dad?

Gabe’s Gentle Letdown

Joe’s Sweet Response

Mom Tries to Shut It Down

I’ve Had Enough!

Eye Roll and Exit

Sister’s Salty Text

Fiancé Forced into Fatherhood Fiasco!
Well, well, well… looks like OP’s sister has gotten herself into quite the pickle! Desperate to find a father figure for her son, she’s been pushing OP’s fiancé, Gabriel, into the role without his consent. From inviting him to all of Joe’s activities to asking him to adopt the kid (while drunk, no less!), this sister is relentless! ♀️ OP and Gabriel are understandably uncomfortable with the whole situation, but when Joe asks if he can call Gabriel ‘dad,’ things really hit the fan. Gabriel handles it like a champ, but OP’s sister? Not so much. She accuses OP of being jealous and even tells them to step out of Joe’s life! The audacity! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this family fiasco…
NTA. Sister wants to steal your fiance and his fatherhood.
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Sister’s creepy fantasy – NTA for setting boundaries

Sister wants to poach fiance as dad. NTA for refusing.

Sibling’s delusions can damage relationships, NTA for setting boundaries

Sister needs therapy, Gabriel shouldn’t be playing daddy, NTA

Sister’s confusing behavior towards nephew – NTA intervenes

NTA defends Gabriel’s bond with Joe, challenges sister’s assumptions

Setting boundaries with sister’s child to avoid fiance-stealing accusations

NTA. OP’s fiancé is a gem and they should set boundaries with the sister to avoid strain on their marriage.

Sister’s request reveals deeper issues. NTA.

Setting boundaries is key. Sister’s delusional and probably jealous ♂️
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Kid’s got it, but does the sister? NTA

Being a legal guardian is more than just a title

Sister and mother put them in a bad spot

Suggests low/no contact until sister seeks mental health help

Having a great uncle is awesome! NTA for enjoying it.

Setting boundaries with family can be tough

Single mom shuts down sister’s unhealthy behavior

Sister tries to push son onto fiance, commenter says NTA

Adoption process may be complicated and expensive. NTA.

NTA comment sympathizes with OP and condemns sister’s behavior

Engaging comment: ‘Your sister might need some help, because she seems to be fixating something fierce.’

Jealousy and suspicion in this NTA comment

Sister tries to steal fiancé; commenter advises hurting feelings

Sibling jealousy and a deranged request. NTA, stay strong.

Curious commenter questions OP’s legal guardianship status
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Sibling jealousy over partner being nephew’s dad. NTA wins.

Sister wants the life your fiance can provide!

“Parenting 101: Don’t confuse your child with father figures”
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Sister’s inappropriate request puts relationship in jeopardy. NTA.

Set boundaries with sister ASAP or she’ll try to seduce fiancé
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Beware of the sister’s manipulative plan to make him a dad

Sister confuses son, and may have ulterior motives

Direct communication may be necessary to handle delusional sister. NTA
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Sister pushing nephew’s dad role on fiancé – NTA for refusing

Calling him “Uncle Daddy” is confusing. Suggest space for all.

Sister’s offer rejected, NTA maintains distance for child’s sake

Unhinged sister tries to ‘take’ fiancé as dad for nephew NTA

Red flag alert! Commenter warns of sister’s dangerous behavior

NTA suggests Gabriel should speak up to the sister.

Sister uses nephew to get closer to fiance? NTA calls her out.
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Red flags raised by sister’s jealousy and manipulation. NTA.

NTA commenter advises going low contact with dependent sister and setting boundaries

Sister’s trying to steal your fiancé. You’re NTA.

Sister making a move on your husband?

Cutting off toxic family members for safety.

Fiancé impresses with heartfelt response to nephew’s request ❤

Saying ‘no’ to a kid can be difficult, but NTA.

Sister crosses the line, Reddit user shares advice from experience

NTA but communication is key – talk to her earlier next time

NTA, sister needs to stop filling Joe’s head with lies

Sister’s intentions seem questionable, beware of her advances. NTA.

NTA comment: Encouraging Joe to be a great uncle amidst confusion
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User corrects gender and calls out sister’s behavior. NTA.

Fiancé cautioned of potential financial trap in sister’s scheme.

A cautionary tale about setting boundaries with family
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NTA but sister is right, time to step out of their lives

Sister’s motives questioned in NTA’s family dilemma

NTA, but focus on fiance and nephew. Concerning behavior

NTA! Fiancé handled the awkward situation beautifully. Sister needs help.

Redditors tired of sister/best friend/cousin drama, call for #GirlCode
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NTA. Sister needs space from you & fiancé.

Sister wants her fiancé to be nephew’s dad, but she’s NTA.

Family agrees sister is pushy, NTA. Set boundaries firmly

A heartwarming story of a BIL who became a father figure ❤️

Setting boundaries with pushy sister-in-law. NTA

Responsibility lies with sister for not telling truth about Joe’s dad

NTA, but sister’s behavior is inappropriate and needs to stop

Accusation of hidden motives for sister’s request

Sister’s motives questioned in nephew’s dad request

Is the sister interested in the fiancé?

Cutting contact with toxic family member for self-protection
