Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy story that’s sure to get your blood boiling! Our leading lady, a successful technical writer and manager, is engaged to her programmer beau. But there’s trouble in paradise! Despite their loving relationship and financial equality, her fiancé is insisting on a prenup that seems to protect him more than her. Is he being influenced by controversial content, or is there more to this story? Let’s dive in and find out!
Engaged but Enraged!
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Money Matters: I Covered the Rent!
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Justifying the Unjustifiable?
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Influenced by Controversial Content
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A Breakup and a Bias
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Baby on Board, but Prenup Overboard?
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Communicating Concerns ️
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Shocked by Accusations!
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♀️ AITAH for Refusing the Prenup? ♀️
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Prenup Predicament: Is He Preparing for Betrayal?
Our leading lady is in a tough spot! She’s contributed significantly to their finances, even covering rent when her fiancé was laid off. But now, he’s insisting on a prenup that seems to favor him, despite their equal earnings. His perspective seems influenced by controversial content, painting women as gold diggers. She’s explained her concerns, including their plans for children and her likely increased domestic responsibilities. But he’s still pushing for the prenup, even accusing her of potentially cheating and taking his money! Is she the a-hole for refusing to sign, or is her fiancé’s behavior a red flag? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this prenup predicament!
Red flag alert: Misogynistic views on women and marriage

NTA commenter throws shade at groom’s questionable advice source.

Bride-to-be receives support on not signing a pre-nup.

Proactive approach to prenup can avoid ultimatums.

Demanding a fair share of housework and maternity pay

Secure your assets and lawyer up, NTA for demanding fairness

Concerns raised about groom’s financial and gender views

NTA, but beware of his interests and reconsider your relationship.

Avoid men who follow Andrew Tate if you want a healthy relationship

Worried about Andrew Tate? Run and cut your losses! NTA

Prenups protect everyone, not just the wealthy. Get your own lawyer.

Planning to marry someone who thinks little of you?

Warning signs of an abusive relationship, get out now

Financial incompatibility leading to ultimatum. NTA.

Fair prenup necessary for marriage and children, not unreasonable request.

Beware of red flags in prenup agreements

Suggests prenup or therapy before marrying a conspiracy theorist.

Fair pre-nup needed for both, not just him. Don’t sign.

Dump the groom-to-be who supports a slimebag trafficker

Red flags abound, save yourself and leave now

Internet stranger advises bride-to-be to run from toxic relationship.

End the engagement and find someone who trusts and respects you

Long-term couple bickering about rent and infidelity, ESH

Fiancé looks up to Andrew Tate; distrusts partner. NTA.
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A prenup is reasonable, but why marry someone with questionable taste?

Red flags and prenups: trust issues in this relationship.

Red flag: groom’s views on dating and relationships are concerning

Protect your assets with a fair prenup

Insisting on a pre-nup is fine, but his trust issues? RUN!

NTA! Rabbit hole ultimatum = not marrying material

Protect your assets, but is he the right person?

Why this person thinks a prenup is necessary for everyone

NTA. Pre-nups protect both parties, but he sounds like a freeloader

NTA commenter warns against marrying someone interested in misogyny.

Red flags in the relationship: Misogynistic content consumption

Savage yet smart. Get that prenup and secure the bag!

Savage advice on how to deal with a controlling partner

Prenup benefits both parties, not just the groom.

Warning against marrying someone who makes jaw-dropping ultimatums
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Protect yourself with prenups, but make sure it’s fair.

Dangerous ideology! Run away from this groom-to-be

Debate on prenups and the reality of divorce settlements.

A fair prenup could secure a future for all, including kids

Prenups are contracts, people need to know what they say.

50/50 parenting doesn’t work once kids are involved. NTA!

Questioning prenup validity and supporting NTA judgment

Monumental red flag! This guy needs to be cut loose.

Red flags in the relationship. Consider breaking off engagement.

Protect your future with a prenup that benefits you too

Pre-nup recommended to protect yourself from this toxic partner.

Warning signs of a controlling and selfish partner, NTA.

Red flags shouldn’t be ignored.

Red flags everywhere, run for the hills ♀️

Serious red flag: groom’s ultimatum sets unhealthy precedent.

NTA for not wanting to sign, but marrying him would be foolish ♀️

Groomzilla alert! Commenter advises to check if you’re “high value”.

Unrealistic expectations and incompatibility. He’s not the one. ✨️

Lawyer advises woman to leave misogynistic fiancé over prenup.

Beware of the Tater Tot and his empty promises

Red flags through rose colored glasses. Leave him, girl!

Savage pre-nup demand in response to groom’s ultimatum

Prenups protect both parties and promote decision-making together.

Choose a partner who sees you as an equal ️

Savvy prenup negotiation tactics

Gender inequality in divorce settlements discussed. OP is NTA.

Reconsider your decision to marry him. Red flags are waving

Prenups protect both, but his reasoning is a red flag

Groom’s toxic masculinity shamed by NTA commenter and supported by replies

Consider counseling before agreeing to a prenup with red flags
