Picture this: a family gathered around the table for Thanksgiving, when suddenly, a broken plate shatters the peace. This dramatic scene unfolded as one sibling found themselves defending their reformed older brother against their mom’s emotional outburst. The older brother, once a troubled youth, had turned his life around and now had a happy family of his own. But when their mom lashed out at his 8-year-old son, the sibling couldn’t stay silent.
The Troubled Brother’s Past ️

A Life Turned Around ✨

Reconnecting with Family

A Happy Family Man

A Changed Man

The Thanksgiving Incident

Broken Plate, Broken Peace

A Child Caught in the Crossfire

A Swift Exit

Mom’s Emotional Breakdown

Sibling Takes a Stand

The Accusations Fly ️

The Final Word

Questioning Their Actions

In Defense of a Changed Man: A Family Divided ️
This sibling found themselves in the middle of a family feud after defending their reformed older brother at Thanksgiving. When their mom lashed out at his 8-year-old son for accidentally breaking a plate, the sibling couldn’t stay silent. They reminded their mom that the brother had changed and had every right to protect his children from her outbursts. But with their mom accusing them of taking sides, the sibling is left questioning whether they should have kept quiet. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation…
Family history of abuse may have contributed to brother’s addiction

NTA stands up for reformed brother against abusive mother. ⬆️⬆️⬆️

Mature brother exits family feud, possibly with pre-planned strategy

Mom’s resentment towards reformed son sparks Thanksgiving feud. NTA comment.

Sibling dynamics discussed, with support for reformed brother.

Sibling defends reformed brother, suggests therapy for mom’s pain and disappointment

NTA stands up for reformed brother, family feud erupts

Supportive comment defends brother and calls for therapy for mom

Reformed brother defended, but mother needs therapy ♂️

Sibling defends reformed brother against mother’s unfair treatment. #FamilyFeud

Family dysfunction and redemption.

Sibling defends reformed brother in family feud

Sibling defends reformed brother against abusive mother.

Sibling defends reformed brother, stands up to entitled parents. NTA

Reformed brother’s past behavior questioned, but sibling is NTA

Mom yells at child, brother defends, mom surprised Pikachu face

Sibling defends reformed brother from family blame game

Forgiveness prevails: Sibling defends reformed brother amidst family drama ❤

Sibling supports reformed brother and suggests reaching out privately

Reaching out to reformed brother without parents’ involvement suggested

Defending reformed brother against abusive mother. NTA.

Christian commenter praises brother’s second chance, condemns mother’s behavior. NTA.

Sibling defends reformed brother, but mom is the real TA

Encouraging support for reformed brother amid family dysfunction

NTA stands up for brother, calls out emotional blackmail by mother

NTA. Brother reformed, sister holding onto resentment. Toxic relationship.

Sibling defends reformed brother, calls out mom’s toxic behavior

Sibling stands up for reformed brother, but family feud erupts

Reformed brother makes amends, but parents refuse further restitution

Traumatized boyfriend struggles with inviting abusive family to wedding

Sibling defends reformed brother, calls out problematic parenting.

Sibling defends reformed brother, encourages reconciliation with unsupportive mother

Commenter empathizes with reformed brother and criticizes parents’ parenting style.

Age gap fuels family feud over reformed brother’s past behavior

Sibling defends reformed brother against mother’s unfair treatment.

Sibling defends reformed brother from possible past abuse by mother

Sibling defends reformed brother against toxic mother at Thanksgiving
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Standing up for brother against mom’s overreaction

Sibling defends reformed brother, calls out bad family behavior.

Defending reformed brother against abusive mother. NTA

Sibling defends reformed brother, confronts resentful mother. NTA

Sibling stands up for reformed brother amidst family feud

Family drama and plate-breaking at Thanksgiving, but NTA OP

Sibling defends reformed brother, regrets not doing it earlier. NTA

Commenter sympathizes with reformed brother’s struggles with toxic family

Sibling defends brother from toxic mother during Thanksgiving

Sibling defends brother for putting his child first at Thanksgiving

Sibling defends reformed brother, stands up to family. NTA

Sibling defends brother in family feud over custody dispute

Sibling defends reformed brother against toxic mother. NTA

Supportive comment defends reformed brother from family member’s outburst

Defending reformed brother against abusive mother, NTA

Defending reformed brother against angry mother: NTA wins Thanksgiving
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Reformed brother defended by sibling, exposing family secrets.

Sibling defends reformed brother against mom’s anger issues

Supportive commenter shares personal experience with abusive mother and offers advice ❤️

Sibling defends brother from mom’s bad behavior. NTA

Sibling defends reformed brother, mom needs therapy. NTA

Thanksgiving turns into family feud over mom’s behavior

Sibling defends reformed brother, mom creates family feud

Supportive sibling calls out emotionally abusive mother. NTA

Comment suggests problematic parenting style may have led to son’s issues

Sibling defends brother’s parenting, calls out mom’s unresolved pain. NTA
