Wedding planning can be a whirlwind of emotions, especially when it comes to deciding who gets an invite. One couple decided to have a 21+ wedding, making it clear that no children were allowed. However, when the bride-to-be’s future sister-in-law found out that her kids weren’t invited, she was not happy . The couple stood their ground, but things took a turn when they revealed their own son would be the ring-bearer. Cue the family drama!
Wedding Plans

No Kids Allowed

Save the Dates

Sister’s Reaction

Unruly Nephews ♂️

Mutual Decision

Angry Sister

Ring-Bearer Reveal

Sister Snaps

Son’s Involvement

Sister’s Fit

Breaking the Rule?

Family Feud: Wedding Edition
As the couple prepared for their adults-only wedding, they sent out save the dates, making it crystal clear that no kids were allowed. The groom’s sister, however, felt that the bride was being unreasonable for not inviting her unruly nephews. The couple explained that the decision was mutual, but the sister remained angry . Fast forward to a family dinner, where the couple revealed that their own son would be the ring-bearer, but would have a sitter for the rest of the day. The sister threw a fit, claiming it wasn’t fair that their son could be involved while her kids were left out. She accused the bride of being an a**hole for breaking her own rule, but is she really in the wrong? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this wedding drama…
Don’t count your own kids as kids at your wedding. NTA
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Not the a**hole for wanting your child at your wedding.

NTA considers uninviting childish guest to adults-only wedding

Aunt wants to ban nephew from wedding, commenter says NTA.

Bride’s son exception to no-kids rule. NTA for holding ground.

Awkward! Commenter questions wedding guest list, gets no response.

Wedding, no kids allowed except bride’s son. NTA.
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Bride’s reasonable wedding rule sparks entitled sister’s outrage

Bride’s friend needs to respect no-kids rule, it’s OP’s wedding

NTA, it’s your wedding, tell her to skip it

Bride’s son must attend! NTA stands for Not The A-hole

NTA bride demands kids-free wedding but wants son as ringbearer

Wedding rules are fair. The bride’s son can come!

Wedding day is about the couple, not the entitled mother-in-law.

Common sense prevails! Wedding, your rules!

Setting boundaries for kid-free weddings. Stand your ground!

It’s your day, don’t let others tell you what to do!

No apologies needed: NTA for excluding kids from wedding.

Support for bride including her son in wedding, NTA.

Bride’s son as ringbearer sparks NTA vs entitled SIL debate

NTA defends wedding rule, threatens to disinvite annoying guest.

Child-free wedding except for flower girl, NTA per commenter.

Your wedding, your rules. NTA for inviting your own child.

Child-free weddings are valid and complaints won’t change that.

NTA, Bride’s son allowed. Set boundaries, stick to them. ♀️

Making rules for your own wedding is your right. NTA

Opinion on no-kids wedding trend, but bride’s son exception understandable.

Bride’s son allowed, but no other kids. NTA. Clear rules.
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Bride’s son is allowed at wedding, NTA for excluding nephews.

Wedding, no kids allowed except bride’s son. NTA, reasonable rule.

NTA bride defends wedding rule, hopes for drama-free day
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Bride’s son allowed at wedding, no other kids. NTA.

Wedding no-kids rule should not apply to the bride’s son.

Child-free wedding with exceptions, NTA. Creative invite wording.
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Wedding, your rules! Shut down bridezilla. NTA

User suggests drastic measures for unruly kids at weddings.

Bride defends ‘No Kids Allowed’ rule, calls herself NTA.

Bride’s son gets special treatment at kid-free wedding. NTA.

Protect your wedding from entitled parents

Wedding rule: Adults only, except the bride’s son? NTA dilemma
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One child exception to a no-kids wedding rule. NTA.

Including close family members in the ceremony is understandable. NTA.

Weddings bring out the pettiness in people, NTA comment.

Family-only rule at wedding reception explained reasonably

“It’s your wedding, your rules, your child.” NTA

Mom loves kids and ceremony is special. Not the a**hole.

Bride’s son allowed at wedding despite ‘no kids’ rule! NTA

Bride’s son allowed at wedding: Fiancée’s sister throws fit. NTA.

Wedding rules: Your day, your rules. Don’t let others dictate.

Well-behaved kids in the ceremony: A fair compromise.

Parent agrees with no-kids wedding rule, happy for a night off

Brother had a no-kids wedding, allowed only 5 specific ones. NTA.

Bride’s son at her wedding causes drama. NTA stands firm.

Stepchild should attend, but it’s the couple’s choice to exclude others.
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Excluding own kids from wedding is cruel, but not nephews. NTA

Wedding day, your rules! Don’t let anyone ruin your night

Wedding rules: OP gets exception for bride’s son. NTA

Bride wants kids banned, but upset groom’s son can attend ceremony. NTA.

Child-free wedding, NTA. SIL can deal with it

Navigating family weddings without babysitting can be tricky

Bride’s son allowed at no kid wedding, NTA for enforcing rule

Babysitter hired, stood by the rules but others didn’t? #NotCool

No kids allowed at the reception except for the bride’s son

NTA. Bride’s day, her rules. No need to invite kids.

NTA. Bride’s son is only exception. Entitled SIL may cause trouble.

Bride’s son exception to no-kids wedding rule, NTA comment agrees.

Engaging kids in wedding activities is a great idea!

Bride’s son is allowed at wedding, NTA for excluding others

Mom’s wedding, mom’s rules. NTA for wanting son there

Divorced family wedding success story ♀️ ♂️
