She Wanted a Sleepover with My Boyfriend, But Not Me

An 18-year-old girl finds herself in a tricky situation when her friend, Gemma, plans a sleepover with their mutual friends and her boyfriend, Ben. However, she’s not invited to the gathering, leaving her feeling excluded and hurt. As the story unfolds, we see how the situation tests their friendship and raises questions about trust and boundaries.

Sleepover Plans Revealed ️

Not Invited

Trying to Understand

Suggesting Alternatives

Feeling Excluded

Change of Heart? ❤️

Questioning Friendship ‍♀️

Clarification: Fifth Wheel

More Context: Friendship History

Relationship Timelines ⏳

Friendship Put to the Test

Our protagonist is left feeling hurt and excluded when her friend, Gemma, plans a sleepover with their mutual friends and her boyfriend, Ben, but doesn’t invite her. After expressing her feelings and learning that her boyfriend won’t attend without her, Gemma reluctantly extends an invitation. However, the damage has been done, and the girl is left questioning the strength of her friendship with Gemma. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions below.

Friend tries to arrange a double date with your BF? NTA.

Red flag alert! Friend’s double date request with bf without OP

Friend wanted to be sneaky, NTA for not going.

BF’s sleepover invite without OP is inappropriate, but he handled it well

Friend arranges sleepover with boyfriend, sparks justified anger

Friend wants a ‘double date’ with my BF, NTA. Highly inappropriate.

Lucky to have a gem of a boyfriend

Jealousy and suspicion arise in comment section

Friend invites boyfriend for sleepover without OP, NTA for feeling uncomfortable

Friend wants a sleepover with OP’s boyfriend without OP

Friend wants sleepover with bf, but not OP. Awkward situation

G’s sudden change of heart is raising eyebrows

Inviting your boyfriend for a sleepover without you? That’s not cool NTA

Commenter suggests the friend isn’t being sketchy, but replies disagree

Commenter defends G’s actions, but others suspect ulterior motives

Friendship dynamics questioned, potential for jealousy and exclusion discussed

Boyfriend’s shady behavior leads to sleepover drama

Confusion all around

Red flags everywhere! Trust your gut and ditch the friend.

Friend wants your man ‍♀️, not your friendship

Who’s the real third wheel here?

Commenter calls out OP for forcing a double date

Friend wants sleepover with BF but not OP? NTA, kick her out

New couple wants sleepover, but OP’s friend of 10 years doesn’t.

Excluded from a co-ed sleepover, then they started dating.

Friend denies double date with my bf, but wants sleepover?

Sleepover with opposite sex friend, but not girlfriend? Sketchy situation

Is she interested in your BF or just being friendly?

OP is NTA, G is trying to trap her BF

Commenter calls OP out for being controlling and paranoid

Friend wants sleepover with bf, NTA suspects ulterior motive

Friend wants a romantic date with your BF? NTA, end it

Is it normal for platonic sleepovers at their age?

Navigating high school friend groups can be tricky

Navigating the delicate balance of inclusion and exclusion

When your partner prioritizes someone else over you ‍♀️

NTA, but it’s all about what makes us comfortable

Friend wants sleepover with boyfriend and couple, OP uncomfortable. NTA.

Navigating friend dynamics and boundaries in group hangouts

Drop her like a hot potato . NTA for sure.

Is her friend trying to make a move on her boyfriend?

Friend invites couple for sleepover with boyfriend, excludes OP. NTA.

Commenter questions open relationship after bizarre sleepover request.

When your friend wants to steal your man

Friend wants sleepover with your boyfriend but not you? NTA.

Friendship or Foe? She’s not even subtle about it

Stand up for yourself and make it clear this behavior’s unacceptable

Friend invites OP’s bf for sleepover with another couple. Suspicious?

Protect your relationship and trust your instincts. NTA

Friend excluded OP from sleepover with boyfriend. NTA.

Don’t let high school drama ruin your adult life

Did the boyfriend know? Awkward situation

Communication breakdown? Let’s unpack this awkward situation

Being excluded from a sleepover is not cool, but soft NTA.

Commenter expresses disbelief and shock with strong language

Two possible scenarios for friend’s sleepover intentions. Be casual.

Is the sleepover innocent or is something more going on?

Protect your man , not your fake friend . You’re NTA

Be careful, she’s not your friend

Commenter calls out the immaturity of the situation with sarcasm

Friend tries to have sleepover with bf, not OP. NTA.

Trust issues? Commenter doubts innocence of situation.

Sketchy friend invites boyfriend for sleepover without you. NTA.

Friend or Foe? Accusations of poaching a boyfriend

Commenter warns of potential homewrecker, calls NTA.

Friend tries to use sleepover to get close to BF