Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of love, trust, and a trip to Italy that’s causing some major drama! Our leading lady has been planning this bestie getaway for months, but her new beau is seeing green (and we don’t mean the Tuscan hills)! Will their love survive this test of trust? Or will this trip tear them apart? Let’s dive in and find out! ♀️
Trouble in Paradise?
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Besties Before Boyfriends?
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Separate Beds, Same Room
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Keeping Secrets from the Bestie
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Plot Twist: They Did the Deed!
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Awkward AF
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Trips Around the World, No Funny Business ♀️
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Trust is a Two-Way Street ️
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Cheaters Gonna Cheat, No Matter Where ♀️
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️♂️ Fake News Alert!
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Reddit Noob BF
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Pasta La Vista, Baby?
Well, well, well… looks like our girl is caught between a rock and a hard place! She’s got a dreamy trip to Italy planned with her bestie (who she may or may not have had a drunken fling with back in the day ), but her new man is NOT having it! He wants her to cancel the whole shebang, but she’s standing her ground. After all, trust is key in any relationship, right? But wait, there’s more! Apparently, someone’s been stirring the pot with a fake account, trying to make her look bad! The internet is a wild place, folks. Let’s see what the masses have to say about this spicy situation! ️
NTA stands up to controlling boyfriend, comment section agrees

Red flag? Comment warns of controlling behavior in relationship.

User defends boyfriend’s concerns about girlfriend’s trip with male friend.

OP’s Italy trip with male friend raises relationship concerns. ESH.

NTA for going on the Italy trip with a male friend

Traveling with a male friend? NTA! Enjoy Italy

Past sexual history with friend changes dynamic, YTA may not be trustworthy

Admitted past hookup with male friend, BF upset about Italy trip.

Red flags in not disclosing past hookup with ‘best friend’

Traveling with opposite gender best friend, risking relationship. NAH.

Jealousy or justified? BF angry at GF sharing room with friend

Past sexual relations and now sharing a room? YTA, girl.

Traveling with opposite-gender friend: separate rooms or red flag?

User thinks OP is somewhat TA for Italy trip with male friend.

Sharing a hotel room with a male friend? YTA, no doubt.

New couple’s Italy trip with opposite gender friend raises eyebrows

Going on a trip with a friend you slept with…ESH
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User calls out disrespectful behavior and labels the OP as YTA

User calls out OP for not caring about BF’s feelings. YTA.

NAH, but BF is FURIOUS about Italy trip with male best friend

Validating boyfriend’s feelings about girlfriend’s Italy trip with male friend.

NAH for not cancelling trip with male “best friend”, but BF has valid concerns

BF upset as GF prioritizes Italy trip with male FWB

Unbelievable! Trip with ex-hookup to romantic place, BF furious

Spicy accusation against OP’s Italy trip with ‘best friend’

User suggests not sharing a room with a male friend on vacation

Red flag ignored. BF justified to be furious

Ex’s Italy trip with male friend causing BF’s jealousy

Accusation of deception in concealing infidelity, raises suspicion

User questions appropriateness of Italy trip with ex-hookup friend.

You’re not the a-hole for not canceling. Dump the controlling guy.

Break up with your boyfriend, he doesn’t trust you.

NAH, different expectations and boundaries in a fresh relationship

Hooked up with male best friend, BF insecure, ESH verdict
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Prioritizing friendship over boyfriend sparks debate in comment section

Sassy reply to insecure boyfriend, go on trip with BFF

A love triangle vacation drama in the making
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Hooked up with best friend? YTA, cancel Italy trip

Trust issues arise as past infidelity is questioned.

User calls out OP for sleeping with male friend, YTA.

Past hookup with best friend, advice may change.

Sharing a bedroom on a trip with a male friend, BF not happy

Boyfriend upset with girlfriend’s Italy trip with male friend

Suggest a budget-friendly cake and put the ball in her court

A debate on boundaries and trust in relationships

Red flag alert! Trust your gut and don’t go.

Sexual tension with ‘best friend’ makes YTA in this situation

New boyfriend’s jealousy towards Italy trip with male friend.

Omitting key information and gaslighting? YTA, hands down.

Navigating opposite-sex friendships can be tricky. NAH, but tread carefully.

Red flags galore. YTA and not being fair to your bf

Put yourself in their shoes before judging – NTA.

Choosing between Italy trip with male friend or boyfriend?

Choosing a trip over your boyfriend is a slippery slope

User suggests bf has a say due to intimacy with friend
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Different relationship comfort levels, not compatible. NAH

A comment calling out gender bias in NTA verdicts.

Admitting to cheating and still going to Italy? YTA ♀️

Lit matches and drama: ESH in Italy-bound love triangle
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Trust issues or justified concern? YTA or NAH?

Setting boundaries is important. YTA if you can’t respect them.

User says OP is the a**hole for going on Italy trip with male “best friend” despite having a boyfriend.

Platonic trip with male friend ruins relationship. YTA according to BF

User argues boyfriend’s feelings are valid, suggests compromise.

Respect in relationships is key. Ignoring boundaries is not okay.

NAH. It’s a tough situation, maybe it’s best to break up.

Having a male best friend is okay, BF needs to trust you.

Past history with male friend, separate rooms might be better. YTA.

A commenter calls out OP for lying and being insecure

Red flags ignored, OP is the YTA for hiding crucial info

Boyfriend won’t be comfortable with you sharing a room with ex.

YTA for planning trip with male friend you had sex with

NTA for refusing to cancel Italy trip with male best friend, but YTA for dating someone you’re not ready to invest in emotionally.

Sleeping in same room with male friend while in relationship

Traveling with a past hookup while in a relationship? ESH.

User warns against Italy trip with male “best friend”

NTA for Italy trip, but YWBYA for sharing room.

Leaving out facts about hooking up? Yikes, not good.

New relationship, Italy trip with male best friend, BF uncomfortable. Go?
